Women In The World, Must Unite To Bring Change! ***messymandella***

Don’t be weak and destroy the future empowerment of our generation

because someone wants you to be…

Speak your damn mind, to heal but end bullying!

Make sure that you rely on yourself, and surround yourself with loving people. Teach our women that character compliments beauty or the lack there of…

You need to make sure you live with a conscious and don’t change your personality depending on who you are around or just for the moment. 

Be You!

Live with a realistic and humanized approach and respect for all people.

Say how you feel but never belittle others to give you a false sense of self. Fight for our rights, not each other. Live in dignity and gain knowledge from women of all generations and ethnicities. 

We can not raise daughters with weak, hateful and shallow personalities. Surround yourself with activists  with enough intelligence to humble foolish conversations. Focus on self empowerment.

You are the gift, find someone who is worthy to  open the present…

 

You are worth every kiss, compliment, and hug.

You deserve the best every day.

Start today with an intellectual conversation with a positive humble being.

Find truth, and find people with a happy point of view that improves our mission, appreciate the unity.

 

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Kelly Rowland: Overlooked Beauty + Talent***messymandella***

 

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Republicans VS. Democrats(Crips vs. Bloods)***messymandella***

Can’t wait until this election is over.

I keep getting asked, “Who I’m voting for in this election?”

The proper question should be “What set you claiming?”

When did voters actually start getting gangsta.

How can you have HATRED for an opposing view?

Some of these gang members wear suits, and others wear Suspenders.

Either way these gang bangers are still apart of the gang violence.

This violence divides people at work, hair salons, and even at the local whore houses.

 

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Are we suppose to wear a red or blue bandana in our back pocket?

Is there a secret hand shake?

Can we also wear the opposing sets colors when we vote? I am not trying to get shot…

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Yeah, its’ pretty stupid to HATE any group for their ideologies. 

Of course, it is ok to HATE “FOX News”, or the “KKK” (same affiliation)!

 

People have argued, lost friendships and angered innocent people because of this gang violence.

 

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Democrats and Republicans must stop the violence and we must come together as strong men and women to “Make America Great Again” and women unification is key!

 We must strive to be strong black women  like Melania Trump… 

 

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Forever Young-R.I.P.-For You L.J.***messymandella***

ljI will never get to hug my little cousin again. I saw him a few weeks ago, and he got up and gave me the biggest hug, with his big ears. I felt the love in that hug. That feeling you get when you meet someone who lights up a room. We will never have another Laquan Parker Jr. We can hold on to the memories. As, I looked at you in that casket, I knew none of our lives would ever feel the same.Now, I am very private person,but when I looked into his eyes, I knew he had something that we didn’t have. I knew he was not meant for our world. I cried like a baby when I heard that you drowned, 2 days before your 19th Birthday. I can’t imagine what could come of this pain?

When I looked around as I was sitting with our family, I knew that you were here for a glimpse,and that’s all you needed.
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You made that impact. You weren’t an Angel, but you were too good for this world.I will miss you. The boy I saw in that casket was not my cousin. It was a shell of who you were, but your spirit was gone. Your High School Principle and classmates, could not finish their speeches, because of the pain. You graduated a month ago. So much ahead, so we thought…

I don’t want to remember you with that  casket  shutting on you,for the final time. I want to remember  how  you were looking in your red t-shirt  and shorts! I will remember that devious smile, when you got up from the table,and gave me that hug. You will always be a beacon of light in our lives, and you will remain young. Love You LJ!

 

***most read today***Learn The Game! ***messymandella***

 

We adhere to street codes and live and ride for our city. When you are  a “Street Star” you will remain a whisper, a legend and cautionary tale.  Karlton Hines is now a Legend but he is not living.  Talent, looks, and money  were his traits that caught the stares and jealousy from others. That will also his downfall. Karlton,a Basketball Star that family and friends revered and perceived as a Hero knew he was a leader and a born legend.  We all have a chance to get out of the hood! However, urban men are told the only practices that will gain them wealth are pimping, drug dealing or Sports. No one even attempts anything else without doubt. We are programmed to believe that these are the only components to accomplish hood wealth. We don’t realize that money is from other hands that know we will eventually destroy our neighborhoods forever.  Someone needs our men dead, and we are helping them achieve this feat, every day.Karlton Hines played Basketball, and he knew he had the fame and admiration of everyone. He was raised in a single family neighborhood.
Karlton  could be seen in PS1 Park playing at 3:00 AM.His coaches wouldn’t push his studies, because he benefited them. Game  was already in front of  him. He  was under the impression that his grades were second to his ability for the game. Karlton had over 30 recruiters at a time offering him scholarships. That power and understanding of game is that the people that are left behind, sometimes want your impending failure. Karlton  quit because of a disciplinary problem. He also lied about his address to play at the school of his choice. He was caught after hours breaking the rules, and  instead of dealing with repercussions he left school. He quit school 4 months before graduating with his High school diploma Of course, he was attractive and had charisma that would always propel him to another level. Karlton won MVP when he was only 13 and 14. Older children were intimidated by him,because of his game with ladies, and with the courts. Karlton(nicknamed “C”)did not bite his tongue on the court. He had physical and mental strength that other ballers envied at a young age. Karlton was the baby,but garnered more attention than his older brothers, and street soldiers in the game! Karlton could have made millions legally, but he couldn’t leave the hood values and backwards mentallity. His brothers were not blessed to receive Karltons gift of street intelligence,that would later be his curse. He was 6’5  and athletic, cocky and was given every persons admiration, and full attention.

He loved the “Stage!” Yes, the hood has its on stage and community that is the mecca of the dealers,players, and goldiggers. They know how to get chose, and be seen. Once you get chose to be a part of “The Life” you are too afraid to leave what you know to be morally incorrect.

  In the hood it only takes a “New York Minute” to change your entire life. Karlton and his friend were walking from the store. They were in an  altercation with a neighborhood friend “Tweedy” and  “Tweedy” pulled out a knife. Karlton defended himself with a bottle, it went across  the neck, of  “Tweedy”  and was pronounced dead at the hospital.  Karlton stayed on the run for 11 days. He was arrested but later set free, because it was ruled self defense. Karlton walks out a free man, but that one moment changed his entire life. He was damaged to recruiters,  and already entered the system and his life had a few limitations. He could no longer be  a Hood Celebrity  by the Basketball Game, so he the chose the other side of the game.

Karlton’s street soldiers  had him walking around with thousands  in his pockets. He could not forget his hood. “Duncan Hines” had that rush of adrenaline and that mental choice to be the Legend. He didn’t want basketball to  infiltrate his street credibility. He chose to leave his talent, and go for the blood money. Karlton decided to walk further into the pit of destruction. His looks and personality started to change. He also blamed Coach, old teachers, everyone  for  not having  his back, and he was too ashamed to go back to school, he went further in the  drug game!

PETER “PISTOL PETE” ROLLOCK

Pistol Pete and the Blood affiliated Sex, Money and Murder gang were the scourge of the Soundview section of the Bronx back in the day. In his teens and into his early twenties Pistol Pete acquired a reputation as a ruthless killer, who made millions in the drug game in the late 80’s and early 90’s. He was known as one of the most feared and powerful men in New York during the crack era, who could get people killed with his word alone. His influence and organization stretched south from the city’s five boroughs reaching out and touching states all across the eastern seaboard. Pistol Pete was one of Soundview’s Original Gangsters, setting the bar high for his hood and the Northeast Bronx. – Gorilla Convict http://www.gorillaconvict.com/peter-pistol-pete-rollock-2/

       One thing some don’t understand about “The Game” is that you always are competing.  You only live once, but someone is always ready to shoot you, and make an example of you, and tarnish your legacy. What you build is a charade of evil and an “Execution chamber” This game will never have a winner.  Karlton  Hines found that out the hard way,  with his friend Carlos.  Pistol Pete who is know serving Life stole Karlton’s chance at a new life.  karlton Hines was 25 years old when he died. He was found with $5000.00 in his pockets.  It’s a game that we will not win. No matter how many times we live it and remember it,we hope it will be diffrent. Karlton Hines died on April 8th , 1994 and that money in his pocket could not keep him breathing, so what did it give him?

We are getting caught up in these movies, and images, and giving props to men behind a cell who can’t even go outside when they want, but we idolize them. We even study where they went wrong, so we won’t make that mistake. No one wins the game, and it is a trap.  Karlton Hines is in a casket  and Pistol Pete is in a a cot on a box with stories and commissary.  We are destroying our own existence and making single moms raise the babies without knowledge on how to make a man survive. Karlton Hines chose the wrong game to gain fame. Even though we know, no one wins in the game but everyone thinks they will be different…

wu-tangs o.d.b.’s psa for safe sex ***messymandella***

When I spent the night with friends, and we all lied and went to The O.D.B. concert.

That  will always be one of my favorite moments, with Mark and David.

Yes, I am prissy and girly, but I get along better with men. Most women want to gut me like a fish…

Yes, Old Dirty Bastard was 23 different kinds of crazy that night.

He even stole the microphone, and told everyone to get in his van.

You can’t deny his unique flow on the beat.

O.D.B. didn’t have to ride the beat, he just complimented it.

Now, when you think about O.D.B. You  think of hin having an EBT Card, as after selling millions of Records, and  his drug overdose.

O.D.B. was always high!

At the concert, he said, “I don’t want to talk to the prettiest girls in here, I want the ugliest.”

 One of my favorite lines from O.D.B,  “I don’t want to go back to the Police Station,  they trying to send Dirt on a long vacation!”

RIP Russell Jones

The Secret To Perfect Hair: Try Blue Magic**messymandella***Nas IS The DON!(Rihanna / Demi / Katy / K.Michelle)


 
“Did you see me rocking my #TeamBlue in the ‘Up’ video with @ollymurs?” Demi asked in the caption her Instagram hair pic, before revealing that her colorful pieces were part of her Secret Color Extensions hair collection! We love that her slip-on hair extensions are so easy that we can copy her look ourselves.
 
You can check out Demi and Olly’s new video below, and make sure to drop us a comment letting us know what you think of Demi’s blue hair!
 

 

 

 
 

the late la capone and the incarcerated rhondonumbanine…where are your parents?


  It is the parents fault and the communities fault that not one person was able to stop this video shoot and still give permission for it to be aired. Why do these little boys who barely are able to watch a Rated R movie, have the capacity to still be carrying guns? Who is bringing them guns? Rhondo had a rocket launcher, or an alleged one.

          The people dropping these guns off  to end black lives must be dealt with.

How did no ones mother know that all these guns were on the property?

The bird chest babies are still probably peeing in the bed, but have the capacity and the authority to end your life.

I fuss at gangs but if they were not delivered to these little boys  then La Capone would still be dancing with his beautiful smile and Rhondo could be here purchasing NASA weapons, maybe that is not a good thing.

Rhondo fans will want to have their favorite rapper home, but if it was your family member who was ALLEGEDLY murdered by someone, would you want them to be free?

In that same token, do you want to see La Capone’s alleged murders free? It is easy to say free someone, but we must look at the actions and not the person’s popularity.

RIP La Capone.

If someone is reading this that has any interest in not following in the footsteps of the other men in your community, stand alone.

        Just because you from Roseland, Brooklyn, Harlem, or New Jersey and you feel obligated to follow that pattern, stand alone. You can be Hill Harper, Obama, Will Smith, and many others. They were tempted and even experienced what you are feeling, and they are not on the block and they sleep comfortably at night. You are not a square because you want to have a life without felonies.

        Some of us, are living on borrowed time facing cases and scared that they will reopen cases. If you are young and reading this, I love you.

I love you so much that I want to see you live.

      I love you so much that I know some of you have already chosen affiliations, but I still love you.

The rest of the world doesn’t understand, the guns are being dropped off in your communities and you want to protect your family and  live.

        I had to evaluate myself. I was so angry with the gangs and  decided they were the enemies, but the hate was fuel because of the love that is in my heart.

I am tired of watching ya’ll die and I am tired of La Capone’s loosing their childhood.

        I don’t hate gangs, I hate the fact that some want a better life and are too scared to speak up and you gang members, and I know you want your son to have a chance.

I don’t want them to end up like these two little boys Rhondo and La Capone. 

       They have no control of their lives, and one doesn’t have life at all.

I love you so much that even if you will never admit it to your boys, you are scared of the future or lack there of in  the distance. You  just  feel like you can’t leave that block or be labeled a “punk” “simp” or a “square.” 

     I promise you the fools that are calling you those names already are afraid of being in the ground or incarcerated or already facing charges.

Misery loves company.

         Someone is always watching your come up and they will come for you like they did Chinx Drugz, and pull you down and steal your breath and your children’s chance to grow up and play catch or  play basketball with their fathers. Where and why are these parents blind or accepting this behavior in children. Search your child’s nickname in YouTube, if videos like this come up and you recognize your son, handle it ASAP. I love you men but you can’t help build up are communities if you are dead or in the belly of the beast facing decades.