Say What You Mean, And Mean What You Say! ***messymandella***

For Women Who Are Strong and Determined


Women that are loving, but  Knowing  how they should be treated and spoken too. People that ignore haters and insecurity. Women that have been up against the wall and kept their head up high.These women are the reason I know life has more in store for me. So many opportunities,and so many good things coming my way.You have to stay focused. Don’t let negative emotions get involved with your struggle. “You will never see me coming,but you will know when I get there!”-***messymandella***

Women  can do everything in this world.

Women who don’t give a damn what you say about them.

You Are Beautiful.You Are Strong! You Are A Feminist!

Women who don’t wait by the phone.

Women that will text and call you when they get a minute.ha,ha!

Women that know mind games,and know that YOU will trip yourself up,and fall on your face. ha, ha!

Women That Love Life and You but demand RESPECT.

Women that know sports and hip hop, but still keep it girly and sexy.

Women that can show their humour.

Women who will have your back, as long as you don’t try some F$ckery.


So keep being you and love life!

Don’t let anyone second guess you or twist your lacefront!

Give them this Look  so they know it’s real in the field.

Key N Krates: I Just Can’t Deny***messymandella***

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***messymandella***Barely Seen Often Read, Peaks Out To Say Thanks!


Men and women should surround themselves with people that want to build mentally and physically.

When you surround yourself with haters and insecurity, you will be miserable and insecure and hateful.

If you are mortified about what you are doing in life, do something else.

You can be the master of your own failures, but don’t contradict yourself.

You don’t have to look at me to understand my thoughts and ideas.

However, I do exist…

We have all been up against the wall and kept our heads high, and  we will reap our benefits in time.

Be patient and happy with you, I am !

Shake That Evil off of you and celebrate Life!

Hope and faith, and loyalty creates a recipe of progress, and leaves us all connected.

My readers and my friends who help tell someone elses biography are witnesses to the power of redemption.

These stories sustain me, and that motivates me to do more for culture and it is  the reason I know life has more in store for me.

So many opportunities, and so many exceptional things are destined for you!

You have to stay guided and confident, and giving.

Don’t let negative emotions get involved with your struggle.

Love the men that surround you and let them know you believe in them, but will speak up against the misogynist acts of women.

“You will never see me coming, but you will know when I get there!”- ***messymandella***

Now, back to being Incognito….

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Laura Mvlua -Sing To The Moon***messymandella***

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Hey there you, shattered in a thousand pieces
Weeping in the darkest nights
Hey there you, try to stand up on your own two feet
And stumble into the sky When the lights go out and you’re on your own
How you’re gonna make it through till the morning sun’ Sing to the moon and the stars will shine
Over you, lead you to the other side
Sing to the moon and the stars will shine
Over you, heaven’s gonna turn the time Hey there you, looking for a brighter season
Need to lay your burden down
Hey there you, drowning in a hopeless feeling
Buried under deeper ground

When the lights go out it’s a waiting game
Never gonna see a day when your world will change

Boot Camp: Here We Come***messymandella***


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P!NK Speaking The Truth ***messymandella***

Every woman can relate to this story.
You love them and you know for a fact they know how to push your buttons!
You want to take a long walk with them, and then push they ass off the dock.
People only care when they have feelings for someone.
You don’t argue unless you have love in your heart…

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Colorism:The Slave Designed Hatred ***messymandella***


We are brainwashed thanks, to our  Willie Lynch mind-set and  media obsession with skin color. We are  embarrassed with our  nappy hair. Does that make yourself more European? We have natural hair treatment that we used to avoid nappy hair. You can add extensions and weave with an silkier texture. It still does not mean you are unhappy with your race. Weave has a negative connotation and women debate, and have to defend the ideology of weave.  Now, the skin bleaching cream is a horse  of another color(no hair pun intended) because it is shameful that you hate your skin.

” I Was tired of being ugly.”

Even in songs people want a “Yellow” women like it is a trophy. When did black become ugly? Black became ugly during slavery and the House Slaves were usually mulattoes. The darker skinned  slaves were treated as second class slaves and were required to be in the field. Our generation wouldn’t doubt their beauty unless this hatred  is taught.  We stopped loving ourselves.

You can’t leave your job dark-skinned and then show up the color of  Katy Perry.

Something is wrong here, mentally not physically.

Here is singer dencia Denecia!

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Otis Redding-Loving You Too Long (Live)***messymandella***

“Look like nothing’s gonna change. Everything still remains the same. I can’t do what ten people tell me to do. So I guess I’ll remain the same.”-Otis Redding

Apparently, The Willie Lynch Letter Has Become A Mission Statement!***messymandella***

We have dragged into our own ignorance.

This letter explains our hood actions that are happening write(I do mean WRITE) before our eyes-***messymandella***

” I HAVE A FULL PROOF METHOD FOR CONTROLLING YOUR BLACK SLAVES. I guarantee every one of you that, if installed correctly, IT WILL CONTROL THE SLAVES FOR AT LEAST 300 HUNDREDS YEARS. My method is simple. Any member of your family or your overseer can use it. I HAVE OUTLINED A NUMBER OF DIFFERENCES AMONG THE SLAVES; AND I TAKE THESE DIFFERENCES AND MAKE THEM BIGGER. I USE FEAR, DISTRUST AND ENVY FOR CONTROL PURPOSES. These methods have worked on my modest plantation in the West Indies and it will work throughout the South. Take this simple little list of differences and think about them. On top of my list is “AGE,” but it’s there only because it starts with an “a.” The second is “COLOR” or shade. There is INTELLIGENCE, SIZE, SEX, SIZES OF PLANTATIONS, STATUS on plantations, ATTITUDEof owners, whether the slaves live in the valley, on a hill, East, West, North, South, have fine hair, course hair, or is tall or short. Now that you have a list of differences, I shall give you an outline of action, but before that, I shall assure you that DISTRUST IS STRONGER THAN TRUST AND ENVY STRONGER THAN ADULATION, RESPECT OR ADMIRATION. The Black slaves after receiving this indoctrination shall carry on and will become self-refueling and self-generating for HUNDREDS of years, maybe THOUSANDS. Don’t forget, you must pitch the OLD black male vs. the YOUNG black male, and the YOUNG black male against the OLD black male. You must use the DARK skin slaves vs. the LIGHT skin slaves, and the LIGHT skin slaves vs. the DARK skin slaves. You must use the FEMALE vs. the MALE, and the MALE vs. the FEMALE. You must also have white servants and overseers [who] distrust all Blacks. But it is NECESSARY THAT YOUR SLAVES TRUST AND DEPEND ON US. THEY MUST LOVE, RESPECT AND TRUST ONLY US. Gentlemen, these kits are your keys to control. Use them. Have your wives and children use them, never miss an opportunity.IF USED INTENSELY FOR ONE YEAR, THE SLAVES THEMSELVES WILL REMAIN PERPETUALLY DISTRUSTFUL. Thank you gentlemen.”



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