Fashion Flash Back: 1980’s For All Dem’ Babies***messymandella***Whitney Houston (1985)

Age doesn’t matter!

Your size doesn’t matter!

The Color of your Skin Doesn’t Matter!
Your hair can be long, short, natural,weave, even a 1980’s mullet and Doc Martins with Crush Velvet (I don’t even know…child…)  but wear it with confidence.

You have to feel that love and admiration, even from a hater. If you prefer the 1980’s but are a little afraid,maybe have a retro party with close friends who appreciate big bangs, hairspray and layers of sock. Maybe,you are not ready for the Patti Labelle hair hat, just as of yet.

They may be  envious of you because YOU can pull it off, and you took that fashion risk.

3 women can wear the same dress, but if you don’t have that confidence, and beauty that embodies grace, you have wasted your time.

Take pride in yourself.

You are amazing, and adventurous. Those clothes, are an accessory for your unique swagger, and gorgeous face. These women are gorgeous, and all of different races an and different hair styles. You keep being confident, you with your bad ass!


All of these looks work, because the confidence is more important than the clothes.
You will stand in the light, and will have fashion mishaps too.

Don’t worry,but again if you are confident you won’t give a damn.

If you are not ready to go out with your hair stacked up to Jesus, or don’t invest in Aqua net Hair Spray have an 1980’s theme party. Don’t let someone tell you to play fashion, safe. That is not for you, if you have confidence.

Don’t worry about other’s opinions.

I don’t!

 

 

 

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Vanessa Williams – Save The Best For Last ***messymandella***

Update – Not Guilty, My Ass. Freddie Gray Should Be Alive! ***messymandella***murder trial starts today…


 

 

 

Looting

Uprising

Rioting

 

Baltimore, no matter what  we label the actions in Maryland this week, this wouldn’t have happened if the moral code of the world was deemed superior to the so called law enforcement code. Who are the laws built to protect? Apparently not  Tamir Rice, Walter Scott, Trayvon, Mike Brown, and everyone else that was murdered just because they bumped into the wrong police officer at the wrong time? 

         Freddie, shouldn’t be dead and his twin sister shouldn’t be giving interviews. Oh, and to the conservatives who investigated Freddie Gray’s criminal record, you yourself wanted and needed validation  of your own racism and bigotry. If your relative was murdered by policeman, the LAST thing I would do would be to pull up their criminal records.

The  officers that were the same nationality of Freddie Gray are lower than dirt for what they watched and took place in to cause the “Uprising” and lynching  of Freddie are worse than George Zimmerman. Someone could have saved Freddie’s life. These people are upset the law has failed them repeatedly. How many more men and marches are we going to have this year. It is May 1,2015 and we are not getting the national support or confidence that this will change. Black men will keep running, because even if they run or not, they still may end up dead from  a police lynching, like Eric Garner and now Freddie Gray.

 

Classic #FridayFeeling Enjoy Your Weekend! ***messymandella*** “Just Got Paid!”-Johnny Kemp

me in transition

 Can’t believe you don’t think you are worth it?

I have seen women and men repeatedly give into temptation, for one night stands.

One night of useless,meaningless sex.

There is this empty feeling that people have, inside of them.

That emptiness that makes you go home with someone, and give a part of yourself. You say that you don’ t want a relationship?

So you run from what you want?

A one night stand is a reason to hug or touch a person , because you need that human connection.

That fleeting moment is a temporary fix, for what you are missing in life.

There will never be anyone that will admit they are single and lonely.

Single is suppose to be fun, but you are going to the clubs and bars trying to find human interaction?

There is nothing wrong with going out and clubbing, but are you doing the same damn thing every weekend, with the same people?

Will you be doing the same thing in 20 more years?

Don’t know too many night clubs that sale Ensure,Geritol,and give AARP discounts…

When will you realize that the clubs, and lack of realness are dimming your own respect for your potential partner?

Sad, to think you are happy,when you are really sad.

Everything seems funny and meaningless,but you know that its more to life than just the same mundane routine.

 Women, men can smell insecurity a mile away.

They know when your alone and need compassion.

You don’t want to come home alone so you go home with him and he takes pictures to show his friends.

So if you think that once you give your body to someone, your now a part of their future?

 

You are not stupid, but you just don’t know your self-worth…

I am here to tell you that no matter what, Respect You.

Are you “wifey” material or are you a jump off?

He will not take you home to momma.

So what if he adds you to his Facebook friends,it means nothing!

You may find yourself attracted to someone but they have to prove it. If a man wants you to depend on him, then he has to be reliable 24/7 not when it is convenient! 

Stay focused, and expect the same respect he will give his mom, niece, or sister.

You can rely on someone but still keep improving you.

If they decide to haul ass, you will still have you!

Love is amazing, but STILL Keep getting you money though!

Keep getting paid and what not…

***messymandella*** loves You!!!

 

 

 
 
 

The Secret To Perfect Hair: Try Blue Magic**messymandella***Nas IS The DON!(Rihanna / Demi / Katy / K.Michelle)


 
“Did you see me rocking my #TeamBlue in the ‘Up’ video with @ollymurs?” Demi asked in the caption her Instagram hair pic, before revealing that her colorful pieces were part of her Secret Color Extensions hair collection! We love that her slip-on hair extensions are so easy that we can copy her look ourselves.
 
You can check out Demi and Olly’s new video below, and make sure to drop us a comment letting us know what you think of Demi’s blue hair!
 

 

 

 
 

travis barker and dj am -fix your face***messymandella***

 

 
 

 

Jimmy Kimell’s Mean Tweets – NBA Edition #3***messymandella***


“Professional athletes are no strangers to criticism. In the old days you could yell at the players at the game, but now we have the internet. Now we can insult them quietly and individually on Twitter. So to remind those who write unkind things that players actually see these horrible tweets – here’s an all new special NBA edition of #MeanTweets.”