Jhene Aiko Live-VIBE***messymandella***

You can never deny love gets us through those tough times.
Can love also keep you from seeing a better future of yourself?
Don’t ever feel you are obligated to stay in any situation?
You can owe someone money, clothes, and a favor.
You can’t owe them your heart.



Lil Kim and Tiffany Fox “Jay-Z”***messymandella***

Dear Lord Why?Lil Kim and Tiffany Fox come out to show off their unique style of fashion, and ability to wear make-up that stays on even in Hurricane Sandy.

I have to admit, the hook is optimistic, for women making their own moves!

Tiffany Foxx and Kim’s Video even gets a cameo from ” Mob Wive’s” Carla.

 Tiffany Foxx mentions Jay-Z to create a buzz.

It works, because I wasn’t planning on using my I tunes Gift Card on the song.

Lil Kim is a  Female Icon, and a plastic surgeons‘ thesis topic!

Tiffany Foxx has that confidence to create her own seat in the Hip-Hop Arena.

Just please don’t diss Nikki Minaj!

That just doesn’t seem to help many careers…



Gossip’s “Move In The Right Direction”***messymandella***

English: Beth Ditto with Gossip at the Mezzani...

English: Beth Ditto with Gossip at the Mezzanine (San Francisco, California) (Photo credit: Wikipedia)

Beth Ditto has a cult following that will never be shaken.

That sista has confidence for days, and her revealing clothing is just as controversial has her lifestyle.

She does not have any single digit close in her closet,  and she doesn’t care what society thinks is beautiful.

Beth Ditto, believes and admires her own beauty.

If you wear a two piece bikini, so can Beth Ditto.

I will not have anyone making fun of this woman’s confidence, mug shots, or her blatant disrespect for sweating.

Of  course we remember when Beth Ditto kicked a man in the balls a while ago.

Beth was asked to leave the bar, but decided she wanted to ride it out.

Beth rode all the way to the Portland Jail House,  were she could get her plus size thoughts together.

Everyone needs to meditate,  even if it is behind bars before they post bail.







I Look To You-Kim Burrell +Whitney Houston***messymandella***

Whitney Houston   -   Concert in Central Park ...

Whitney Houston – Concert in Central Park / Good Morning America 2009 (Photo credit: asterix611)

Who do you look to for guidance?

When you are in your darkest moments ,and no one will listen who do you turn to at those life changing moments?

What motivates you after someone breaks your heart?

Do you think you are doing it alone?

No matter what you believe and feel about your faith;  have faith to know you are not doing it alone.

You will have to go through Hell to Get To Heaven!

If you don’t believe that, look inside yourself and find your answers to your  happiness!

You deserve peace and happiness in this life.

 You deserve to look within your heart and mind  to choose your own moral compass to follow.

Sometimes, you will find that voice that you keep hidden under bills, heartache, and exhaustion.

Listen to your voice,  and move toward happiness.


P!nk- Nate Ruess “Just Give A Reason”***messymandella***

English: P!nk performing at a secret London gi...

English: P!nk performing at a secret London gig to promote the Funhouse Album. (Photo credit: Wikipedia)


New music from P!nk and Nate Ruess .


This heavyhearted song, makes you want to call up that person from your past…


This  duet  has been on repeat since I peeped  the video.


Fall in love again,  or maybe not?


 These voices really compliment each other.


P!nk looks stunning in this video.


I have always been a fan of P!nk , she is open-minded and opinionated. 


Didn’t  envision these two would share an elevator, much less a song.


That is the beauty of music!


Your heart can’t be programmed.


You can avoid or ignore  someone for weeks, months, or years, but your heart hasn’t forgotten.


“It’s written in the stars!”


“Just give a reason, just a little.”


“Right from the start you stole my heart!”


The sounds and chords can make you think of heartbreak within the first few seconds of a song.


You can fall in love again.


If you get dumped,  don’t blame me!


“We are not  broken…”





Young Fam=Meet South Carolina’s Indie Elite***messymandella***

For those of you who may not have heard of Young Fam or their story here it is.
Young Fam is a duo rap group where the CEOs, members, and producers consist of Jason Berry aka J-$0 (age 23) and Chad Keeve aka Familur Max (age 23).
This group has spent many years putting together the best feel good music for their generation.
It has been a long journey for them to make music that stands out above the rest.
They take pride in the fact that they make radio friendly music with lyrics that are not derogatory, offensive or vulgar.


Juicy J-Jeezy-Kendrick Lamar-Big Sean(Show Out)***messymandella***

“Wait Until We Go Out, You Know I Gotta Show Out!”***messymandella***