WE ARE SISTAS! ***messymandella***

          Believe or not, some women STILL have segregated friendships. Yes, every woman is of the exact background and lineage sitting in your living room or riding in your car. How is evolution even fathomable if we  segregate ourselves and don’t realize that when all women were fighting for women’s rights everyone locked arms, and demanded equal treatment. Every color stood tall together to initiate diversity in our world.

       Karina Moreira, a 15-year-old patient at Dana-Farber/Boston Children’s Cancer and Blood Disorders Center, provides suggestions on how Cancer patients can use head scarves and headbands to style themselves  and still  be alluring, even after hair loss from cancer treatment. View more videos at dana-farber.org or Karina’s blog: chicbykarina.com. She is a strong-willed individual that is teaching us adults  a lesson.

          Karina did not make a  head wrap video for all Irish women or all  Scottish women. The next time you  have a dinner party or any gathering extend invitations to all of your sista’s, not just the sista’s that have the exact color of skin as you do. Segregation is over, Master said, we can all integrate, so try it!

          I admire Karina, and it was a tear-jerker watching this video, because we are aware  she is ill and battling Cancer, but reaching out to help others at the age of  15 years old. This little woman is courageous and unselfish. She is supporting all the  women who have lost their  hair and maybe their self-esteem that have lost their hair to Cancer. Some of the women in this photo gallery have Cancer,but  you can’t tell who, can you? When you are attractive and strong-willed you will locate and thrive on that  inner strength  to breathe and fight until you can’t anymore.

Hair doesn’t make you beautiful, look at Karina.

She is adorable and a fighter,  and when it comes to Cancer, all Sista’s are fighting this fight.



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The Heart Of The Matter***messymandella***

I love change, and flourishing.
Don’t except situations that are just convenient, don’t make this your reality.
So, you are going to sit around and feel sorry for yourself?
You will plant seeds for the future, but that is impossible if you are always hosting your own pity party. When will you enter another relationship? Your love life does not expire like a gallon of milk. Haste can be the reason,it didn’t work out. Get off that couch,pick up that kleenex box and toss it in the trash. In life, you grab, and torture yourself to hold on to something that you don’t even need, and will never benefit you. Living dependent on others for your happiness will be your own downfall, learn from your mistakes. Don’t ever let anyone tell the world, how you failed in your relationship, they are covering up their own deceit, and emotional abuse. You almost let them bring you down that paved road of destruction. They wanted you to endure their antics, and you made it through. You also in the end realize that the people who stop calling your phone were never “your friend.” They were only around for your ex, and now it will sting, and break your heart, but. No one will ever know what happened behind closed doors. People thrive on failure. Maybe too many people in your relationship, was the reason your relationship disintegrated? Don’t explain your past, why do you owe anyone an explanation?
Grow, and call a truce, and learn self-love.
When you have resentment and anger, it only hurts your soul and spirit!
No one can change the past, and in the end you will get to the happiness you clearly deserve!
Look to life,and don’t call it being single, call it being selective.
You have to find someone that represents you, and your aspirations!”

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Designer Spotlight Rachel Roy: Unracked

One of my favorite designers!

She has come a long way from being wifey to Dame Dash.

She is a role model for women and talented.

This is her style profile!

Meet the Mother and woman behind the brand. <em

Do What You Got To Do!

South Carolina’s Angie Stone