Best of 2015***messymandella*** where fashion and hip hop meet (mira sorvino, pipa middelton, 2 chainz)

Age doesn’t matter!

Your size doesn’t matter!


The Color of your Skin Doesn’t Matter!



Your look belongs to you.
You take pride in your looks, and maybe are even considered vain,and conceited.
Honey, I hear it when I walk by too!
You have to feel that love and admiration from their envy.
You go above and beyond to stand apart from the rest and you feel that confidence in knowing that 7 people will not be in the mall wearing your exact dress design.

They are envious of you because you can pull it off, and you took that fashion risk.
Three women can wear the same dress, but if you don’t have that confidence, and beauty that embodies grace, you have wasted your time and the seams of that dress.

Take pride in yourself, and use proper hygiene.

Don’t walk around smelling like burnt pastrami or old hot dog water and what not…
You are amazing, and adventurous, and should make your own way in this world.
Those clothes, are an accessory for your unique swagger and gorgeous face.
These women are gorgeous, and all of different races an and different hair styles.
Because we all our Sista’s regardless!


mystery still clouds the murder of christopher “biggie” wallace ***messymandella***


I think sometimes in urban neighborhoods, we think it is cool to be in a casket.

Can you remember where you were when Christopher Wallace (May 21, 1972 – March 9, 1997) was Murdered? 

How many dummies in prison from gun charges, and they never got a chance to fire them?

I don’t go to the grocery store with my gun, and I don’t hang around fools that can get me shot.

If I was hit by a bullet it  could be someone with the same color of skin as mine.

Get caught “lacking” at a job fair, and stop being stupid.

Pondering Minds What To Know:

Have you ever heard of someone shooting at a Dolly Parton, or Pattie Labelle  concert? 

FYI, you are not a soldier unless you are fighting in Iraq, or any other country for our freedom.

You are not a soldier, when you kill for your own greed.

Biggie Smalls never had a chance to become a grandfather, will you?



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embrace your curves ***messymandella***




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Kim Kardashian: Paper Magazine Decides That Credibility Means Nothing, And Celebrates Consignement Crotch***messymandella***













Those are her good qualities…


Naya Rivera And Her Transformation…***messymandella***

        transformIt’s a contradiction of my personality.I love Empowering Women, but also love someone who talks about self-love. I don’t think that the beautiful women of Glee  are personified outside of their characters unless they sell their sexuality.

Most of these women over the age of thirty reinvent themselves  to gain exposure. Naya Rivera has chosen to stay fresh among the new coming talent even if she appears to be evolving into a Romanian woman, right before our eyes.However, we can not ignore the evidence.

           Why do we lighten our skin, and assume that being ethnically ambiguous will  earn more money? If that were true we would not embrace Lupita Nyong. I wear weave and have a lighter shade of skin,but it is genetics. My parents are considered black,but my great grandmother could walk through southern streets during segregation, because she could pass for white. Even when she was harassed  teased,her and her sisters still knew who they were. “The White Girls” became their name. They were of German,Indian and African descent.  We have to stop assuming that exotic is better, or any racial classification will gain success.  That is the entire plan of the “Willie Lyche Letter” and it apparently worked.



The Truth Shall Set You Free, Dumb Ass!***messymandella***

Rihanna-Rude-Boy1There is no way you don’t know when you are being played.

Listen, I was once a dummy too!

I saw what I wanted to see, when the inconvenient Truth was just slapping me silly.

It made no sense to me.

I was alone,but in a relationship.

Yeah, that made me a dumb ass.

So, I composed a list of signs for future dummies, to see if you are already a dumb ass!

1. Do you always wait up to see IF he’s coming home?Unless he is on tour, to promote his album,that is crazy?Why he so tired, when he get home? You are a dumb ass.

2. Does he always seem to make eyes with his home boys , when they talk about what happened last night at the club,when you thought he was at his cousin’s house? D-u-m-m-y

3. When you meet people, are they surprised that he has a girlfriend?Dumb

4.Are you arguing with different girls over this guy(I have never been this dumb)?

5. No one is perfect, but are you always defending his sorry ass?

6. Do you feel like if you stand up for yourself, people will turn on you,even though he making you the dummy?????

7. Have you ever asked yourself, “Why I am so Stupid?” You getting close, dummy.

8. Does he have groupies? Unless he just signed a deal with Maybach Music…you just dumb!Dummy!

9.Have you been dating him for 10 years,and he has over 3 other kids while you have been in this relationship,that didn’t come out your cupcake bakery? You my friend, are a dummy!

10.Do you not have a ring on your finger, or live with him, but you been giving it up to him for over 7 years?Dummy

11. Do you always make excuses, every time you find a new addition to your family? Dummy!

12.There will always be scandalous hoes, who have no respect for relationships, are these women part of your man’s entourage?You said it ,Dummy.

13. You can’t recall one place that you have been together, that did not include drama,or an argument,and you were like a “deer in headlights?”

14. You are a dummy if you are reading this,and wondering”Is messymandella talking about me?”

15. Does he always have bad phone reception,or no charger…only on the weekend?

16. Does he leave you in the dark about upcoming trips, that he already has planned, paid a deposit on and reserved multiple rooms? This is just sad, dummy.

17. So because you love someone you will let them cheat, dog you out, disrespect you and treat you like a fool?

That is not love, you deserve more.

An awful thing has happened.

You let someone you respect, stop respecting you.

You will be gray-haired and old and still being the “Neighborhood Dummy.”

At least print t-shirts and hoodies, Dumb Ass.

Yeah, well you are a dumb ass,and you know it!

You just choose to play dumb!

So  see what you want to see, but know in the end you are in denial.

Oh yeah,  The Truth Shall Set You Free-Dumb Ass!

Joy Denalane=Let Go