Fashion Flash Back: 1980’s For All Dem’ Babies***messymandella***Whitney Houston (1985)

Age doesn’t matter!

Your size doesn’t matter!

The Color of your Skin Doesn’t Matter!
Your hair can be long, short, natural,weave, even a 1980’s mullet and Doc Martins with Crush Velvet (I don’t even know…child…)  but wear it with confidence.

You have to feel that love and admiration, even from a hater. If you prefer the 1980’s but are a little afraid,maybe have a retro party with close friends who appreciate big bangs, hairspray and layers of sock. Maybe,you are not ready for the Patti Labelle hair hat, just as of yet.

They may be  envious of you because YOU can pull it off, and you took that fashion risk.

3 women can wear the same dress, but if you don’t have that confidence, and beauty that embodies grace, you have wasted your time.

Take pride in yourself.

You are amazing, and adventurous. Those clothes, are an accessory for your unique swagger, and gorgeous face. These women are gorgeous, and all of different races an and different hair styles. You keep being confident, you with your bad ass!


All of these looks work, because the confidence is more important than the clothes.
You will stand in the light, and will have fashion mishaps too.

Don’t worry,but again if you are confident you won’t give a damn.

If you are not ready to go out with your hair stacked up to Jesus, or don’t invest in Aqua net Hair Spray have an 1980’s theme party. Don’t let someone tell you to play fashion, safe. That is not for you, if you have confidence.

Don’t worry about other’s opinions.

I don’t!

 

 

 

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***rapper bobby shmurda’s arrest: Black men are stars of the genocidal minstrel show***messymandella* If you denied bail you are dumb!**

Jim-Crow

Epic Records has proven the world, the importance and loyalty, and well-being of Bobby Shmurda. He Shmoney Danced for them and they laughed and they exploited him, and left his ass in jail.

    Before you judge the video or the message,honestly admitthat if you ask  your mother’s and grandparents, they would tend to co-sign what this elder is  expressing.You must have  an open mind, to debate and discuss our community issues, but also reevaluate what we  as a culture must separate from the stereotypes that plaque or demise and our self preservation.

 

 

I love SCARFACE and Nino Brown  but are fully aware  how the capitalism  and  and fake admiration and  groupies that can be the rapper’s  own demise.

At first, I was going to curse this man this hell out, but are we portraying this?

Once again, Would your elderly family  and community  members at large, agree or disagree?

Yeah, ask them.

I did and   that most over the age of 60 years old believed this man.
 
As I protected and defended Hip Hop, I thought about the music companies, that push this  negative agenda, as they did with Rapper Chief Keef.
 
His  record contract has created many RIP shirts in Chicago,and there undoublty will be many more. He did not murder the fellow Chiraquians, but  his cousin Blood Money, LA Capone, Lil Jo Jo, OTF Nu Nu,  and  a myriad of others..
 
Of course in regards to Bobby Shmurda, who has a highly likely chance of being in prison for a long time, the lyrics were in our face  and the FEDS were watching.
 
We danced and laughed until the potential meaning behind the song, not assuming that the  possibly lyrics were factual.
 
Then it dawned me that we have be dancing to an indictment..
 
 We have created Vines and videos  over  a  hot beat and possibly someone’s murder confession.

 

Then again, if you were aiming to be the next  Talib Kwali, Common, or Bahamadia you will never enter Nicki Minaj status.
 
We dumb down music,because we don’t think our culture is intelligent enough to identify the issues we are facing at hand.
 
The majority of men  in the game has been shot or stabbed or beat up. Some all three have taken place.

 
It is a common practice and accepted, just like always traveling with entourage for safety precautions. 
 
I love Hip Hop music  but I don’t want lives to end because of something someone said that ended  in tragedy.
 
Bravado and Bullying can  steal a father from his children, and the lyrics that we assume are just  music can be a  blue print of life for a child.
 
Should we edit rap music and make it all pg-13?
 
No, we should govern our households and be accountable for our youth.

 
  No amount of validity can be fully accepted by people outside the game.
 
We can’t protest and  say #AllBlackLiveMatters and  turn around and end black lives…

 

If #BlackLivesMatter then we should not murder each other…

 
If Epic Records were not exploiting Bobby Shmurda, he would not still be in prison.

He is still in  prison and they could have bailed him out last month.
 
It is almost like they know he is not worth the time, due to a case so they are cutting their losses.They apparently since truth in Bobby’s destruction and  decided the message would suffer from backlash, facing trial.

 
If he murdered, he was wrong and needs to be right where the hell he at…
 
If he has only an indictment, and has not a chance to even defend his allegations,Epic Records is unethically bias to leave him in that cell.

They don’t believe him, or they have decided to glance at the cover of the book, but skim through the pages. They are cutting their losses, playing golf off of the money they made from his talent…

Bobby  is chilling at Cell block 6.  Even with Bobby having  a lawyer and a  million dollar record company, he hasn’t

updated his Twitter since December 16,2015?

Epic Records played him.

 Some of us simply can’t imagine leaving the game unless by the hand of God, or by the help from a district attorney.
 
Sadly, His father is in the “Belly Of The Beast!”
 
  We must review our reputations and learn from  a dance, an idea, a record label and elders who stopped believing in Hip-Hop’s message.

If the elder’s are against Hip Hop’s message, why? Maybe because it is a revolving door where some can recite their prison number more than their own social security number?

How many more  having these mandatory family reunions that ultimately lead to our men’s demise?

When will the public and bias media groups open a dialogue in our community instead of watching a Vevo video and further pushing the agenda,  that ALL RAP MUSIC  is dangerous and reckless.

 Bobby Shurmada tap danced for Epic Records, and  you noticed they left  his ass behind bars.

If you assume that it isn’t because of the music maybe a confession,you are blind to the facts. 

Let it be said, we have the time and the intellect  to prove the Anti-Hip Hop Activist wrong.

We can’t let the bias media put Hip Hop in a box, we didn’t build this genre of music to murder or destroy our communities… 

We create an image, that is destructive and it will steal from the craft, IF we live it off wax.

I have never heard anyone say, “Girl, they were shooting at the the Jonus Brother’s concert!” 

However, The Migos have shoot outs before and after the concert, and at the after party.

  If the Migo’s were in trouble, they would be locked up too, and left to survive and collect their own bail.

After these record companies, exploit the culture and you have shuck and jived for them, you are

thrown away with a permanent negative scar on the culture, ask Bobby.

Obscure Soul By Brenda K Starr – I Still Believe(1988)***messymandella***

On messymandella.com I will continue digging through the crates of my parent’s obscure music and locating hits with distinction and sample worthy material worth revisiting in numerous hidden hits, or obscure soul ballads and rhythm and blues hits.

 

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Muahhhh ***messymandella***You Are Beautiful, Don’t You Forget It!

 me in transition

 

Can’t believe you don’t think you are worth it?

I have seen women and men repeatedly give into temptation, for one night stands.

One night of useless,meaningless sex.

There is this empty feeling that people have, inside of them.

That emptiness that makes you go home with someone, and give a part of yourself. You say that you don’ t want a relationship?

So you run from what you want?

A one night stand is a reason to hug or touch a person , because you need that human connection.

That fleeting moment is a temporary fix, for what you are missing in life.

There will never be anyone that will admit they are single and lonely.

Single is suppose to be fun, but you are going to the clubs and bars trying to find human interaction?

There is nothing wrong with going out and clubbing, but are you doing the same damn thing every weekend, with the same people?

Will you be doing the same thing in 20 more years?

Don’t know too many night clubs that sale Ensure,Geritol,and give AARP discounts…

When will you realize that the clubs, and lack of realness are dimming your own respect for your potential partner?

Sad, to think you are happy,when you are really sad.

Everything seems funny and meaningless,but you know that its more to life than just the same mundane routine.

 

Women, men can smell insecurity a mile away.

They know when your alone and need compassion.

You don’t want to come home alone so you go home with him and he takes pictures to show his friends.

So if you think that once you give your body to someone, your now a part of their future?

 

You are not stupid, but you just don’t know your self-worth…

I am here to tell you that no matter what, Respect You.

Are you wifey material or are you a jump off?

He will not take you home to momma.

So what if he adds you to his Facebook friends,it means nothing!

You may find yourself attracted to someone but they have to prove it. If a man wants you to depend on him, then he has to be reliable 24/7 not when it is convient! 

Stay focused, and expect the same respect he will give his mom, niece, or sister.

You can rely on someone but still keep improving you.

If they decide to haul ass, you will still have you!

Love is amazing, but STILL Keep getting you money though!

Keep getting paid and what not…

***messymandella*** loves You!!!

 

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