Over 80 children murdered in Boko Haram. Bring back our girls ***messymandella***

 

Stop bullying : the story of rehtaeh parsons***messymandella***

A message from her father:rae003

“My daughter was three years old when we went to watch Babe: Pig in the City. There’s a part in the movie when Babe knocks over a goldfish bowl and the fish falls onto the floor and starts flopping around. When this happened Rae suddenly stood up on her chair in the movie theatre and started screaming for someone to help the fish. She cried for it as I tried to reassure her Babe would help (thank God he did) and that the fish would be alright.

That was the nature of my daughter Rehtaeh. She was like that her whole life. I couldn’t go for a walk in Halifax with her without her asking me for change to give to someone in need. She was always looking out for people or animals that needed help. She called Animal Control Services on our neighbors because they left their dog outside too long. Her room and her life was always full of little creatures.

Sometimes her heart was too big, sometimes it scared me.

They say parents need to teach their children. Instead, it was Rehtaeh who was my teacher. My precious gift. She was the absolute best part of my life.

There’s a wooden box in my house that holds all the memories I have of my beautiful little girl. The outfit she wore home from the hospital, a hand print in clay, art, school cards and drawings, mementoes of her life. Even a newspaper dated December 9th, 1995, the day she came into this world.

I tried to keep it all for her, to have someday when she grew up and had her own family. That day will never come.

Rehtaeh died April 7th at 11:15 PM. She was 17 years old.

She died struggling to live, much as she spent the last 18 months. She hung on right to the very end, when the nurses were telling us if she couldn’t be declared brain dead soon they couldn’t use her as an organ donor. We couldn’t wait any longer. She couldn’t live any longer. And right at the last moment there was a change in her blood pressure as the last part of her brain gave away. She knew she had to leave. It was time to let go and find peace.

It was so like her to hang on right up until the very last second. To give us all a chance to hold her hand, wipe her tears away, and kiss her beautiful face for the last time.

I tried my best to save my daughter’s life. I believe that in my heart.

I asked her repeatedly what I could do, was I doing enough, what did she want from me? She said she just wanted me to be her dad. To make her laugh. To do everything possible to keep a part of her life normal. She said it helped more than I could ever know.

I prayed for the best while I prepared her for the worst. We went to counseling together. Sometimes I was the driver, sometimes the father, sometimes the counselor.”

The worst nightmare of my life has just begun. I loved my beautiful baby with all my heart. She meant everything to me. I felt her heart beating in my soul from the moment she was born until the moment she died. We were a team. We were best pals. We often sat on my couch and laughed until we could hardly speak. When we weren’t together she would call me or text me every single day, just to say hi, to say she loved me. The life I had with my daughter was a rare thing. It was wonderful, it consumed me. I was defined by it. It made my life rich and beautiful.She was amazing.”

 

 

obscure soul: hill street soul / sweetest days***messymandella***

 

 

Elisabeth Withers “No Regrets” – End Domestic Abuse!***messymandella***

  No one with any respect would mentally and physically torture you. 
   It is a beautiful thing to accept your past pain from an abusive relationship, and live with no regrets.
Mental  abuse is  different from physical abuse  because the bruises and scars are within. Any form of abuse tears your self-esteem down brick by brick, until your entire perception of self is destroyed.
    You can't move on or flourish or find unconditional love, until you find confidence and self-love within. 
  The emotional and physical abuser will cripple you until you can't appreciate your reflection in your mirror. 
    Emotional abuse is purposely withholding love and affection knowing it is diminishing your self - esteem.   
     The physical abuser convinces you that hitting you is their right because you are their possession. The abuser will show the entire world a completely different version of themselves, while gaslighting you. 
     You will eventually believe that this behavior is acceptable or you deserve it.  
  You will also question your value and that is the ultimate plan.
 Love is nurturing, never embarrassing or hurtful due to control or disrespect.
If someone disrespects you constantly, why would you stay? 
  People can only do to us what WE let them do. If you have to question your beauty or value, the abuser is already winning.
Take back your control. 
People have the ability to change, but only when they want to change.

You are not alone.
I am talking to you... 

 

 

http://www.helpguide.org/articles/abuse/domestic-violence-and-abuse.htm

 

http://www.thehotline.org/

 

The abuse hotline phone number 1−800−799−7233

 

 

Fox News Reporter Hannity Defends Walter Scott Against An Uncle Tom!***messymandella***


 
NEW YORK TIMES
 
A white police officer in North Charleston, S.C., was charged with murder on Tuesday after a video surfaced showing him shooting in the back and killing an apparently unarmed black man while the man ran away.

The officer, Michael T. Slager, 33, said he had feared for his life because the man had taken his stun gun in a scuffle after a traffic stop on Saturday. A video, however, shows the officer firing eight times as the man, Walter L. Scott, 50, fled. The North Charleston mayor announced the state charges at a news conference Tuesday evening.

The shooting came on the heels of high-profile instances of police officers’ using lethal force in New York, Cleveland, Ferguson, Mo., and elsewhere. The deaths have set off a national debate over whether the police are too quick to use force, particularly in cases involving black men.
If a cop shoots someone and that cop is not in immediate danger, shouldn’t paramedics be called to treat the victim, not just more cops? Shouldn’t that be the priority, ensuring that life is saved?”

***messymandella***

You must have a moral compass to navigate yourself in this deceptive world. I am embarrassed to be a native of South Carolina at this moment, and can’t believe that we are soon going to join the same ranks as the other victims that I told myself, were disgraceful people from disgraceful places. We do not deserve the same scrutiny as Ferguson, or do we? What is right is right and what is wrong is wrong! We hold these truths that are self evident and we are obligated for justice for all.
 
Story is a horrific mess!.
 

 

 
 
 
 

STACEY DASH WANTS US TO KNOW THAT SHE IS NORMAL!***messymandella***


 

Valentino Garavani: 2015 Edition ***messymandella***

 

Nationwide Insurance Commercial Spoof ***messymandella***

Fox News Correspondent Stacy Dash, Is At It Again…***messymandella***


 
Faux News always reminds us exactly what happens at a conference meeting or  the Grand Dragon‘s family picnic, if  one of us darkies were ever invited.
 
We’ll Faux News has let the alluring, actress and former humanitarian  inside of “The Big House!”
 
 

Yes,  I understand the problem with welfare being a career supplement or just a expected check for 25 years! Some utilize that check to feed their children, temporarily.
 
What if a man is fired  or replaced after 20  years, shouldn’t he be able to feed his children, if he has worked thus far?
 
The video above the post has a Black man  who wants our young ones and unfortunate to receive less assistance. Mr. ____, decided to write a book entitled, “Please Stop Helping Us.” Well, thank you kindly,”Uncle.”

 
 

Now Stacy even is able to walk inside of Faux News front door, and eat the good pies, not the old pies…
 
Well, Stacy says that God is a part of her  transformation!
 
Our favorite mulatto is at her dream job!
 
Lordy, Lordy, she is as pleased as  pie.
 
Stacy found God!

 
How the hell did she find God, at Faux News?

 

 

Well, all you women that have been have molested, raped, or abused have no fear according to Stacy, it is our  fault.
 
We are naughty and dirty girls, according to Stacy.
 
What the hell has malfunctioned in her head?
 
Why would she  be so damn “Clueless?”
 
Really, let us start with the definition. Maybe she doesn’t understand what the word rape implies?
 
Rapeunlawful sexual intercourse or any other sexual penetration of the vagina, anus, or mouth of another person, with or without force, by a sex organ, other body part,or object without the consent of the victim.
 
Let us look up the word consent.
 
Consent- to permit, approve, or agree; comply or yield (often followed by to or an infinitive)

 

Now that we have taught the world of misogynist women, such as Stacy how infuriating and stupid it is the blame the victim of rape, let us teach the youth not to be this insensitive to a victim of sexual abuse.
 
So, apologize if you have any decency, but I doubt you will…

 

We are worried about welfare,but with education their would be no welfare…
 


 
Now, apologize about the clip of listening to them speak, but it is our divine  right and according to Bill O’Reilly, Hannity, and the gang   we must erase the idea of “white privilege.”

 

 
 

Oceana-Thank You Poland and Greece For Reading!***messymandella***

Oceana performing at the Radio Hamburg Top 820

Oceana performing at the Radio Hamburg Top 820 (Photo credit: Wikipedia)

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