Women Of Rock- ***messymandella*** Florence + The Machine!


There is a beauty Of Knowing You Can Make Things Happen!

Men and women should surround themselves with people that want to build mentally and physically.

If you are mortified about what you are doing in life, do something else.

You can be the master of your own failures, if you let drama and negativity cloud your life.

If you like me, you have been up against the wall but kept your head up high.

It was never in vain, you will reap your benefits in time.

Be patient and happy with blessings and accomplishments, I am!

 

Hope and faith are the reason I know life has more in store for me.

So many opportunities, and so many exceptional things are destined for you to, but ignore jealousy!

You have to stay focused and confident and keep loving life.

Don’t let negative emotions get involved with your struggle.

Love the men that surround you and let them know you believe in them. Remind the men in your life that  you will always speak up against misogynist and stereotypical treatment of women. 

God, will lead you into your truth, but the Devil will throw every obstacle in your way…

Shake it off

Lyfe Jennings – Pretty Is ***messymandella***

 
 
 
 
 

Domestic Abuse/ Tupac’s Message!***messymandella***

cycle_of_abuseMental and verbal abuse are often disputed based on the  illusion that if  it is not physical, then it is not abuse.  This  silent manipulation epidemic is happening to even younger adults. Some are afraid to speak out, or embarrassed that they voluntarily  and fearfully  accepted this mistreatment.
 
    After a punch, you hide it,  to protect the abuser, but you can’t hide emotional abuse. They  can convince you, that you deserved the treatment and the physical pain.
 
Within the scope of  abuse, you will justify their  behavior and victim logic,but  you hide the fact that you stayed. No one with any respect would mentally and physically embarrass you. Mental  abuse it is totally different because it tears your self-esteem down, brick by brick. The abuser gains power by belittling you and that right there is proof that they are a coward.  They will be the nicest person one day, but you know in a few days it will be a change in behavior,for no reason.
 
Baby, that is no way to live.
 
If he has to hurt you to feel important, he doesn’t deserve you.
 
  If someone systematically drilling in your head that you are the problem, you will believe it, and that is part of the manipulation.
 
Some women even apologize for their tears, after the abuser has insulted them. Don’t be embarrassed that you were manipulated.
 
You are not alone.
 
You trusted the wrong person, most men that would hurt you to gain power have a legion of people that hate them for the mistreatment of you. 
 
Never be afraid to ask for assistance and by telling your story, you may save some undeserving person a chance to suffer the pain from you.
 
Even if they threaten you to stay with them, get away!
 
You can’t let someone control your emotions with an remote control.
 
Lies are told and promises broken, and they don’t care how they treat anyone.
 
You have your life and why would you waste it on someone that hurts you,lies to you and insults you to your face.
 
That person is an ass.
 
That person needs their ass kicked. 
 
In the end, if someone is destructive to everything that they touch, they should not have the pleasure of touching you.

 Get counseling to move on with your life, this person doesn’t deserve to breathe the same air that you do. 

 
http://www.helpguide.org/articles/abuse/domestic-violence-and-abuse.htm
 
http://www.thehotline.org/
 
The abuse hotline phone number  1−800−799−7233 

 

 

 

The Beautiful, Blue Eyed Princess***messymandella***

 

Signs Of Insecurity! ***messymandella***

Have you ever walked by someone who rolls their eyes?

Sometimes people will wonder how to fix it, or is it their fault? You shouldn’t sweat it.

Are you robbing or stealing from them? Are you messing with their sex dealer? They may have a reason to give you the  evil eye. You should get shade from them, in those situations. Most of the time it has nothing to do with you at all. If someone gives you the side eye; keep it moving.Analyze the situation (for 30 seconds only) a then smile and walk away.

There is no reason to whisper, roll your eyes, or laugh when someone walks by or smiles at you. Strange as it seems, that still has nothing to do with you. I promise!

SIGNS OF INSECURITY

1. They are always mad at someone for no damn reason.

2. They want to always believe that every situation has to do with them, when it is not even that serious.

3. They have a look of hatred in their eyes, but you don’t even know their last name.

4. Insecure people always have negative criticisms for you every day.

5. They don’t want better in life, but they throw shade at anyone else, that has goals.

6. They overly talk about their sexual ability, size or proportions in public situations, and even on-line. Desperation.

7. An insecure person likes to divide friends and family, to keep confusion and cause drama.

8. An insecure person usually has different personalities, depending on who is around.

9. Do they get involved into every situation, and always have advice (like you care what they think?)

10. An insecure person ALWAYS can locate the faults in others.

These are all signs of Adult Bullying. No one is that beautiful or special that they can burst out laughing when someone walks by.Once you look at the group,you will see the insecurity in their faces.They have to make fun of you. Adults should know better, but some people are just losers.

Unless you look like Nia Long or Jessica Biel, you shouldn’t have critiques on what anyone looks like. Not too many people are that lucky, I’m not. Ha, Ha! Upgrade your own physical appearance, before dissecting someone else.

Sing this song when you are in the presence of insecurity.

 

Germany’s Joy Denalane -In Heaven Or Hell?***messymandella***

Look around you, does it make you anxious when they open your door to come in for the night?
Do you roll your eyes when their name shows up on your cell phone?
Are you ecstatic when you hear they will be trapped in an elevator for the next 24 hours?
Are you getting ignored, and hate the weekends because of impending conflicts?
Are you making your partner miserable by making them “Punch the clock” to make sure they are not late for the curfew you set in place?
Are you snooping, stalking, and lurking to find out where your partner will be partying?
Still praying and  hoping he or she want to embarrass you and get caught creeping this weekend?
You can watch someone’s back,until they give you a reason to doubt their loyalty!
Life is too short to give yourself a pity party, and track someone down like the CIA.
You get caught up worrying about their life, and forget to live yours!
Why are you putting more stress on yourself for someone who doesn’t give a damn about you?
Promise me that you won’t wait by the phone!
Promise me you won’t pace the floor wandering IF they will come home!
If someone wants to be with you,they will make the effort by choice and not force.
Love can turn into hate when your feelings are ignored.

Heaven can definitely turn into hell at any given moment!

Please Be honest with yourself!