Women Of Rock- ***messymandella*** Florence + The Machine!

There is a beauty Of Knowing You Can Make Things Happen!

Men and women should surround themselves with people that want to build mentally and physically.

If you are mortified about what you are doing in life, do something else.

You can be the master of your own failures, if you let drama and negativity cloud your life.

If you like me, you have been up against the wall but kept your head up high.

It was never in vain, you will reap your benefits in time.

Be patient and happy with blessings and accomplishments, I am!


Hope and faith are the reason I know life has more in store for me.

So many opportunities, and so many exceptional things are destined for you to, but ignore jealousy!

You have to stay focused and confident and keep loving life.

Don’t let negative emotions get involved with your struggle.

Love the men that surround you and let them know you believe in them. Remind the men in your life that  you will always speak up against misogynist and stereotypical treatment of women. 

God, will lead you into your truth, but the Devil will throw every obstacle in your way…

Shake it off


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Simply ***messymandella*** Elisabeth Withers


When you woke up this morning, did you think of what had to complete before anything else?
Of course you did!
Did you take a minute and look outside and just take a breath?

Sometimes we forget the our blessings and our temptations.
We are programmed and don’t even realize it to automatically waste the time we are provided for frivolous moments in our lives.
You open your eyes and look at yourself, time to go On Instigram and Twitter to get laid, right?
You debate should you go back to sleep, but then you remember that you have to pay the light bill or mail that package.

First, you to prove to everyone you have money, on all forms of Social Media, and have options to get laid, that is why you haven’t had a chance to touch her honey bun.

God forbid. we took time to actually discuss politics, family and just being blessed to breathe the air we are given, but we can’t do that it is too simple and too real.

We have to show off!

You didn’t even acknowledge the Sun, your God, or the fact that you are blessed enough to visualize

a new day, because you were obligated to do those things, right?

Every moment is already planned  from the moment you get up, to when you plan to go to the grocery store ; to even what time you will preheat the oven for dinner tonight!

You have planned to have for dinner that night at 7:25 PM.
What happened to spontaneous thoughts?
When did we forget to look inside ourselves and let that be the Compass that would guide us to a better living?
We have put a battery in our back and became a machine,  just doing but not thinking about anything life altering in any sense!

Just  using robotic movement and getting it done!
Just living enough to complete projects, because you HAVE to do it!

You missed the leaves on the ground, because you are to worried about getting them in a bag off your lawn!
That is what you are programmed to do,isn’t it?
If you took a few minutes just to imagine an earlier moment in life while sitting  in  those leaves you

would have gained a natural reflection, but nooooo!



The friend that  has passed away  might be trying to give you a message of love, but you don’t have time!

Every moment of your promising life is spent looking to hook up with strangers.


You STILL have to get back to Instigram and hope that  “desperately seeking attention girl” changes her clothes.

Her self-esteem is missing in action, and you must give her  your undivided attention because her husband left home, or she has played herself out.

SHE IS BEAUTIFUL but damaged and poses to show off  more of what is not worth what it used to be, and now the  viewing isn’t quite A-List!

She appears to be aware of the scrutiny and devaluing of her property value (self-worth dies by the second) but as of now,we must pretend she is not crying inside.

Sadly, it may be a little too late…


You have turned off your intuition and knowledge that you were born with, that Innate Knowledge.

You Forgot about the “Simple Things”, and we are so blinded by these stupid moments of nothing that give us courage to film more pictures in our phone.

The world is obligated  to know we are sexy to someone and it is important, instead of just doing important shit.

You are searching in the wrong places for the wrong things, before you know it the right thing is gone!

You missed out on a blessing, but you will learn that in the end, when someone else appreciates your blessing that you misused, and discarded like trash.

You were too busy being consumed by nothingness and you overlooked the fact that you had flowers, you didn’t even notice were planted now blooming in your yard.

Those flowers are now covering that hole by your porch, that you were going to hire someone to beautify for you.

God was your landscaper, but you never even thanked him.

He fixed it for you, but you were too busy being frivolous and superficial. 

You didn’t realize that the hole which  covered on your porch, wasn’t a problem but an overlooked blessing.

Sadly, the hole in your soul expanded, and by the look of the things, it will overtake you entire existence by all means. 

We all must run from the false hoods, those lies that  blinded and consumed us.

We can only embrace truth by avoiding the artificial and irrelevancies in our universe.

Take a couple of minutes a day just to look at the simple things…




Domestic Abuse/ Tupac’s Message!***messymandella***

cycle_of_abuseMental and verbal abuse are often disputed based on the  illusion that if  it is not physical, then it is not abuse.  This  silent manipulation epidemic is happening to even younger adults. Some are afraid to speak out, or embarrassed that they voluntarily  and fearfully  accepted this mistreatment.
    After a punch, you hide it,  to protect the abuser, but you can’t hide emotional abuse. They  can convince you, that you deserved the treatment and the physical pain.
Within the scope of  abuse, you will justify their  behavior and victim logic,but  you hide the fact that you stayed. No one with any respect would mentally and physically embarrass you. Mental  abuse it is totally different because it tears your self-esteem down, brick by brick. The abuser gains power by belittling you and that right there is proof that they are a coward.  They will be the nicest person one day, but you know in a few days it will be a change in behavior,for no reason.
Baby, that is no way to live.
If he has to hurt you to feel important, he doesn’t deserve you.
  If someone systematically drilling in your head that you are the problem, you will believe it, and that is part of the manipulation.
Some women even apologize for their tears, after the abuser has insulted them. Don’t be embarrassed that you were manipulated.
You are not alone.
You trusted the wrong person, most men that would hurt you to gain power have a legion of people that hate them for the mistreatment of you. 
Never be afraid to ask for assistance and by telling your story, you may save some undeserving person a chance to suffer the pain from you.
Even if they threaten you to stay with them, get away!
You can’t let someone control your emotions with an remote control.
Lies are told and promises broken, and they don’t care how they treat anyone.
You have your life and why would you waste it on someone that hurts you,lies to you and insults you to your face.
That person is an ass.
That person needs their ass kicked. 
In the end, if someone is destructive to everything that they touch, they should not have the pleasure of touching you.

 Get counseling to move on with your life, this person doesn’t deserve to breathe the same air that you do. 

The abuse hotline phone number  1−800−799−7233 




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Signs Of Insecurity! ***messymandella***

Have you ever walked by someone who rolls their eyes?

Sometimes people will wonder how to fix it, or is it their fault? You shouldn’t sweat it.

Are you robbing or stealing from them? Are you messing with their sex dealer? They may have a reason to give you the  evil eye. You should get shade from them, in those situations. Most of the time it has nothing to do with you at all. If someone gives you the side eye; keep it moving.Analyze the situation (for 30 seconds only) a then smile and walk away.

There is no reason to whisper, roll your eyes, or laugh when someone walks by or smiles at you. Strange as it seems, that still has nothing to do with you. I promise!


1. They are always mad at someone for no damn reason.

2. They want to always believe that every situation has to do with them, when it is not even that serious.

3. They have a look of hatred in their eyes, but you don’t even know their last name.

4. Insecure people always have negative criticisms for you every day.

5. They don’t want better in life, but they throw shade at anyone else, that has goals.

6. They overly talk about their sexual ability, size or proportions in public situations, and even on-line. Desperation.

7. An insecure person likes to divide friends and family, to keep confusion and cause drama.

8. An insecure person usually has different personalities, depending on who is around.

9. Do they get involved into every situation, and always have advice (like you care what they think?)

10. An insecure person ALWAYS can locate the faults in others.

These are all signs of Adult Bullying. No one is that beautiful or special that they can burst out laughing when someone walks by.Once you look at the group,you will see the insecurity in their faces.They have to make fun of you. Adults should know better, but some people are just losers.

Unless you look like Nia Long or Jessica Biel, you shouldn’t have critiques on what anyone looks like. Not too many people are that lucky, I’m not. Ha, Ha! Upgrade your own physical appearance, before dissecting someone else.

Sing this song when you are in the presence of insecurity.