Fashion Flash Back: 1980’s For All Dem’ Babies***messymandella***Whitney Houston (1985)

Age doesn’t matter!

Your size doesn’t matter!

The Color of your Skin Doesn’t Matter!
Your hair can be long, short, natural,weave, even a 1980’s mullet and Doc Martins with Crush Velvet (I don’t even know…child…)  but wear it with confidence.

You have to feel that love and admiration, even from a hater. If you prefer the 1980’s but are a little afraid,maybe have a retro party with close friends who appreciate big bangs, hairspray and layers of sock. Maybe,you are not ready for the Patti Labelle hair hat, just as of yet.

They may be  envious of you because YOU can pull it off, and you took that fashion risk.

3 women can wear the same dress, but if you don’t have that confidence, and beauty that embodies grace, you have wasted your time.

Take pride in yourself.

You are amazing, and adventurous. Those clothes, are an accessory for your unique swagger, and gorgeous face. These women are gorgeous, and all of different races an and different hair styles. You keep being confident, you with your bad ass!


All of these looks work, because the confidence is more important than the clothes.
You will stand in the light, and will have fashion mishaps too.

Don’t worry,but again if you are confident you won’t give a damn.

If you are not ready to go out with your hair stacked up to Jesus, or don’t invest in Aqua net Hair Spray have an 1980’s theme party. Don’t let someone tell you to play fashion, safe. That is not for you, if you have confidence.

Don’t worry about other’s opinions.

I don’t!

 

 

 

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Mr. Green – “Clap” feat. Freddie Gibbs, Chill Moody, Apollo The Great ***messymandella***


 

Domestic Abuse/ Tupac’s Message!***messymandella***

cycle_of_abuseMental and verbal abuse are often disputed based on the  illusion that if  it is not physical, then it is not abuse.  This  silent manipulation epidemic is happening to even younger adults. Some are afraid to speak out, or embarrassed that they voluntarily  and fearfully  accepted this mistreatment.
 
    After a punch, you hide it,  to protect the abuser, but you can’t hide emotional abuse. They  can convince you, that you deserved the treatment and the physical pain.
 
Within the scope of  abuse, you will justify their  behavior and victim logic,but  you hide the fact that you stayed. No one with any respect would mentally and physically embarrass you. Mental  abuse it is totally different because it tears your self-esteem down, brick by brick. The abuser gains power by belittling you and that right there is proof that they are a coward.  They will be the nicest person one day, but you know in a few days it will be a change in behavior,for no reason.
 
Baby, that is no way to live.
 
If he has to hurt you to feel important, he doesn’t deserve you.
 
  If someone systematically drilling in your head that you are the problem, you will believe it, and that is part of the manipulation.
 
Some women even apologize for their tears, after the abuser has insulted them. Don’t be embarrassed that you were manipulated.
 
You are not alone.
 
You trusted the wrong person, most men that would hurt you to gain power have a legion of people that hate them for the mistreatment of you. 
 
Never be afraid to ask for assistance and by telling your story, you may save some undeserving person a chance to suffer the pain from you.
 
Even if they threaten you to stay with them, get away!
 
You can’t let someone control your emotions with an remote control.
 
Lies are told and promises broken, and they don’t care how they treat anyone.
 
You have your life and why would you waste it on someone that hurts you,lies to you and insults you to your face.
 
That person is an ass.
 
That person needs their ass kicked. 
 
In the end, if someone is destructive to everything that they touch, they should not have the pleasure of touching you.

 Get counseling to move on with your life, this person doesn’t deserve to breathe the same air that you do. 

 
http://www.helpguide.org/articles/abuse/domestic-violence-and-abuse.htm
 
http://www.thehotline.org/
 
The abuse hotline phone number  1−800−799−7233 

 

 

 

New Battle:Ultimate Rap League Presents:Lotta Zay Vs Born***messymandella***

 

 

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SoMo Vs J.Cole (Power Trip)***messymandella***


 

Salute #FlightCity Philly Chase***messymandella***

Philly-Chase.theiwzsdailydosePhilly Chase has been a rapper in Philadelphia since the age of  12.

His love of Hip-Hop and Vocal Excellence will catapult him to the top of the game.

Philly Chase will  follow in the footsteps of other members of the Hip Hop Elite.

Get familiar with Indie Musical Artist, Philly Chase.

Philly Chase  has received admiration from Black Thought Of The Roots!

This is a Lyrical Soldier in the “Flight City” Hip Hop Scene.

This is just an introduction of Philly Chase, you will see more of him on messymandella.com!http://www.phillychase.com/

 

The Roots And Method Man=Ghostface Killah***messymandella***

Real Hip Hop

The Roots

Black Thought

Method Man 

O.D.B

The Genius

The RZA

The Ghostface Killah

Raekwon

Cappodonna

Shyheim

Takeitha

The Deadly Venoms