Happy Mother’s Day From The Childless ***messymandella***…

       I  shall become a mother, but I wanted to serve my purpose to help others and give my future children a sense of self and determination.

      I want my sons to look in the eyes of their dad and see courage and mischief, but also rest in the home knowing everyone in our household will remain safe.

I want my son to want to strive and have wisdom. Their dad must instill values regarding the dangers and mistakes.

I want a daughter that knows she is beautiful, but will


use her mind and spirit to lead.

She will always respect her man or woman. Her partner should always respect her.

I don’t want my daughter’s visiting their baby daddy behind bars, or her husband to have an inmate number for life.

I want to build pride, unification, and self-love within our world.

We as a world can become financial wealth, but spiritual wealth is just as beneficial.

Salute to you mothers that have divinity and life  goals  for empowerment within ourselves and the youth.

You mom’s are the reason I believe in love and a career with strong foundation.



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Is This Good Parenting Or Child Abuse? ***messymandella***


Maybe I Was Born A Bad Girl? ***messymandella***

My Happiness is my own, you can be a part of it , if you would like to be!

No matter what happens in my life,  I have to decide how I will deal with it on a daily basis but not let it consume my existence.

I need love and understanding,  just like you! 

Are you around people who want you to change the world?

Do you believe that your voice should be heard?

I do!

I believe that we have the government and our moral and religious codes that enable us to decide what we create in life!

You also have to plant that seed of humanity to grow!

I don’t sleep with married men, steal, kill, or snatch lace-fronts!

Those are things that remain part of my strong belief system.

Then there is that side of me that my parents say was a little distracting…

I would run away with my teddy bear, Rail Road Pup.

I would give strangers wrong names so it would take longer for my parent to find me after I ran away.

I would clap when my parents would find me, like it was a game or some mission.

I could have ended up on America’s Most Wanted!

On many occasions, I would also run down the street, by unlocking the door knob.

I was too damn short to close it back…

Yes, I would leave it flying open!

My dad said I would smirk at him before I would throw mashed potatoes on the wall of any restaurant!

He claimed that I knew EXACTLY what I was doing!

If you know me now,  you would know some things don’t change.

So,  Maybe I  got a little “Sasha Fierce” (No Illuminati) inside of me!

Do you?



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Babi Mac-Marilyn Monroe***messymandella***

ED O.G. And Da Bulldog < Be A Father To Your Child

There is nothing more respectable than a protective father.

I have one of the most outstanding fathers ever created.

I have no use for a father that wears $125.00 jeans, and won’t buy their child a Slurpee.

When you have a strong parental unit, you have more chances to flourish. 

Countless little boys can only see daddy through a glass, and on the weekend during visiting hours.


“Be A  Father To Your Child!”