Don’t Think We Forgot About You, Trayvon Martin! ***messymandella***


Trayvon, you will be remembered as a symbol of unity, and unjustified death.

Your parents are not alone fighting for your short life. They have millions of people they have never met, crying over you right now! I am one of them. You didn’t deserve any of this racism, you didn’t deserve those painful bullets. You did not deserve to have to beg for your life. I know you will never make it to college. You will never leave your town to follow your dreams. You have to know that you will never leave our hearts, and justice has to be served. Sleep in peace, while we fight for you! 

Best of 2015***messymandella*** where fashion and hip hop meet (mira sorvino, pipa middelton, 2 chainz)

Age doesn’t matter!

Your size doesn’t matter!


The Color of your Skin Doesn’t Matter!



Your look belongs to you.
You take pride in your looks, and maybe are even considered vain,and conceited.
Honey, I hear it when I walk by too!
You have to feel that love and admiration from their envy.
You go above and beyond to stand apart from the rest and you feel that confidence in knowing that 7 people will not be in the mall wearing your exact dress design.

They are envious of you because you can pull it off, and you took that fashion risk.
Three women can wear the same dress, but if you don’t have that confidence, and beauty that embodies grace, you have wasted your time and the seams of that dress.

Take pride in yourself, and use proper hygiene.

Don’t walk around smelling like burnt pastrami or old hot dog water and what not…
You are amazing, and adventurous, and should make your own way in this world.
Those clothes, are an accessory for your unique swagger and gorgeous face.
These women are gorgeous, and all of different races an and different hair styles.
Because we all our Sista’s regardless!


mystery still clouds the murder of christopher “biggie” wallace ***messymandella***


I think sometimes in urban neighborhoods, we think it is cool to be in a casket.

Can you remember where you were when Christopher Wallace (May 21, 1972 – March 9, 1997) was Murdered? 

How many dummies in prison from gun charges, and they never got a chance to fire them?

I don’t go to the grocery store with my gun, and I don’t hang around fools that can get me shot.

If I was hit by a bullet it  could be someone with the same color of skin as mine.

Get caught “lacking” at a job fair, and stop being stupid.

Pondering Minds What To Know:

Have you ever heard of someone shooting at a Dolly Parton, or Pattie Labelle  concert? 

FYI, you are not a soldier unless you are fighting in Iraq, or any other country for our freedom.

You are not a soldier, when you kill for your own greed.

Biggie Smalls never had a chance to become a grandfather, will you?



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biggie ***messymandella***

embrace your curves ***messymandella***




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Kim Kardashian: Paper Magazine Decides That Credibility Means Nothing, And Celebrates Consignement Crotch***messymandella***













Those are her good qualities…


NSFW:Remy Ma LIVE @ BB Kings (Welcome Home Remy) ***messymandella***



Naya Rivera And Her Transformation…***messymandella***

        transformIt’s a contradiction of my personality.I love Empowering Women, but also love someone who talks about self-love. I don’t think that the beautiful women of Glee  are personified outside of their characters unless they sell their sexuality.

Most of these women over the age of thirty reinvent themselves  to gain exposure. Naya Rivera has chosen to stay fresh among the new coming talent even if she appears to be evolving into a Romanian woman, right before our eyes.However, we can not ignore the evidence.

           Why do we lighten our skin, and assume that being ethnically ambiguous will  earn more money? If that were true we would not embrace Lupita Nyong. I wear weave and have a lighter shade of skin,but it is genetics. My parents are considered black,but my great grandmother could walk through southern streets during segregation, because she could pass for white. Even when she was harassed  teased,her and her sisters still knew who they were. “The White Girls” became their name. They were of German,Indian and African descent.  We have to stop assuming that exotic is better, or any racial classification will gain success.  That is the entire plan of the “Willie Lyche Letter” and it apparently worked.



Remy Ma= Here Is Some Tough Love***messymandella***

Remy Ma- Serving an 8 Year Sentence For Shooting Incident

                 Reminisce Smith (yes, her mammy named her that) is serving 8 years in Prison for shooting Makeda Barnes. Remy is the rapper Pappose’s “Prison Wife.” Remy always discussed being a “real” and what she did to stay “real.” Remy even has a cut on her face that she even brags about,like it is a trophy! Remy will be home soon,and I hope she doesn’t go Sharkeisha on Markeeda.

        Markeda Barnes has endured pure hell. Makeda Barnes was shot in the torso and still has numbness in her body. Here is the lady that Remy Ma used for target practice.Well Remy has lost time with her child and her career because she had to keep it “real!” Yup, a real dummy that is waiting for someone else to tell her when she eat, sleep and take a bath. That hood respect will never replace her time with her son that she has lost. Remy Ma is an example of a fool that has everything, but gets caught in their own hype. She was a rap force to be reckoned with, and she had countless mix tapes.We’ll now she has a son at home, without his mom for 8 Years. Even when she gets home the damage has been done,and she is undoubtedly one of the best rappers, period.

Whatever amount of money you thought was stolen from you Remy, was it worth this mess!!?You can’t go to the studio! You can’t go get your colored contacts! You can’t do a damn thing but sit behind bars and look like a fool. Life is going to go on without you. You may have street credit now, but does that mean a damn thing?

 Remy may not be a beauty, but the chick can rap her ass off. These days, Remy is writing her ass on some “Prison Stationary”, but why? She wanted to prove her street credit. Remy, that got you 8 years. Does that street credit , mean anything when you can’t be out here making music? Here is Remy Ma and her hit song “Whateva”

messymandella loves prison interviews. I want people to see how dumb it is to commit stupid, pointless crimes and throw it all away. You get this life, and you take it for granted.

The same people who want you to be hood, will not be there to see you on visitation, or send you commissary.

 So while you in prison looking like a dumb hyena behind bars,evaluate your life. Prison is a plantation and you fell  into the trap, it’s your damn fault (Unless you are Santra Rucker, she needs to come home).

Remy You Threw It Away!Please, stop calling yourself “Shesus Christ.” If you could walk on water, you could walk out of prison. 

P.S. I  almost  fainted when I saw This interview. I cried from laughter…because you chilling with the wardens.

In the words of Martin Lawrence(you resemble Shenene Jenkins) “You did it to Youselfff.” We need stop making excuses for criminal activity, even if it is someone you love. You hurt them, when you enable and support them. They will repeatedly break the law. You are not helping, you are hurting them. Remy said, “It would never happen again.” Is she finally getting it?

Let’s hope that her unfortunate vacation at Club Fed will serve as an example for others. I hope it will stop more senseless act and so many family reunion, inside prison walls.

Yes, you ruined your own career, for some muckery! No sympathy for you, just for your son and the system that you became a part of just to say you kept it “real.”Here is a prison interview.