Best of 2015***messymandella*** where fashion and hip hop meet (mira sorvino, pipa middelton, 2 chainz)

Age doesn’t matter!

Your size doesn’t matter!


The Color of your Skin Doesn’t Matter!



Your look belongs to you.
You take pride in your looks, and maybe are even considered vain,and conceited.
Honey, I hear it when I walk by too!
You have to feel that love and admiration from their envy.
You go above and beyond to stand apart from the rest and you feel that confidence in knowing that 7 people will not be in the mall wearing your exact dress design.

They are envious of you because you can pull it off, and you took that fashion risk.
Three women can wear the same dress, but if you don’t have that confidence, and beauty that embodies grace, you have wasted your time and the seams of that dress.

Take pride in yourself, and use proper hygiene.

Don’t walk around smelling like burnt pastrami or old hot dog water and what not…
You are amazing, and adventurous, and should make your own way in this world.
Those clothes, are an accessory for your unique swagger and gorgeous face.
These women are gorgeous, and all of different races an and different hair styles.
Because we all our Sista’s regardless!


mystery still clouds the murder of christopher “biggie” wallace ***messymandella***


I think sometimes in urban neighborhoods, we think it is cool to be in a casket.

Can you remember where you were when Christopher Wallace (May 21, 1972 – March 9, 1997) was Murdered? 

How many dummies in prison from gun charges, and they never got a chance to fire them?

I don’t go to the grocery store with my gun, and I don’t hang around fools that can get me shot.

If I was hit by a bullet it  could be someone with the same color of skin as mine.

Get caught “lacking” at a job fair, and stop being stupid.

Pondering Minds What To Know:

Have you ever heard of someone shooting at a Dolly Parton, or Pattie Labelle  concert? 

FYI, you are not a soldier unless you are fighting in Iraq, or any other country for our freedom.

You are not a soldier, when you kill for your own greed.

Biggie Smalls never had a chance to become a grandfather, will you?



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biggie ***messymandella***

embrace your curves ***messymandella***




beautiful blake


Kim Kardashian: Paper Magazine Decides That Credibility Means Nothing, And Celebrates Consignement Crotch***messymandella***













Those are her good qualities…


Active Father Expose His Baby Mama Denying Him His Right To See His Son***messymandella***


This man pleads  to visit his baby and gets denied because of mommy’s bitterness he has to shut the door on daddy,and ONLY because daddy shut the bedroom door on mommy.

The little boy wanted to go with his father.

You WILL not reap positive energy once you deny your child, because that man does not want you.

This man has every right to visit his child. I am embarrassed for that little boy.

WE ARE NOT ALL BAD MEN!***messymandella***

That will be one of my other campaigns. We will expose all negative propaganda in raising children and when love goes wrong, and how unwillingness to move on cripples the family structure.

I believe in LGBT parenting, and love is love !

If that child can get away from women like this, maybe a week with dad will do  some good?

This woman is a stereotype,and she is playing the part well and she  should be embarrassed.

THIS MAN who is pleading  to nurture his son, and bring his love to the  family should not have to go to bed with HER, just to raise and visit his own baby.


Naya Rivera And Her Transformation…***messymandella***

        transformIt’s a contradiction of my personality.I love Empowering Women, but also love someone who talks about self-love. I don’t think that the beautiful women of Glee  are personified outside of their characters unless they sell their sexuality.

Most of these women over the age of thirty reinvent themselves  to gain exposure. Naya Rivera has chosen to stay fresh among the new coming talent even if she appears to be evolving into a Romanian woman, right before our eyes.However, we can not ignore the evidence.

           Why do we lighten our skin, and assume that being ethnically ambiguous will  earn more money? If that were true we would not embrace Lupita Nyong. I wear weave and have a lighter shade of skin,but it is genetics. My parents are considered black,but my great grandmother could walk through southern streets during segregation, because she could pass for white. Even when she was harassed  teased,her and her sisters still knew who they were. “The White Girls” became their name. They were of German,Indian and African descent.  We have to stop assuming that exotic is better, or any racial classification will gain success.  That is the entire plan of the “Willie Lyche Letter” and it apparently worked.



Society Shifts The Blame Of The Decline Of The Black Family On Single Mothers?***messymandella***

The last time I checked it was obviously a stigma in the community regarding minority single women and admitting that deserve love, like they are scum only to be used for sex and profit. It is their fault that someone promised them lies and then hauled ass? Some women don’t really have morals and could care less who they wake up next to as long as they can rock a designer bag, and the best Bike Week Hairstyle on this side of the Motel 6. Some women chose the wrong man. We are playing ourselves! We know damn well if that man does not take care of his other “Soccer Team Of Children” that yours will only be added to the roster. Why have unprotected sex with a man who you and he can’t afford to get pregnant by first? I get it, because the government is going to pay for that child for the next 18 years, even if daddy doesn’t? He will only stick around about five minutes after he pulls up his pants(bonding time?)


Oh, we want to believe that if the sex is that good then he will somehow take care of your child? Why the hell am I out here working, when It is easier to lay on may back and get checks? The country has a double standard.
Stop rewarding fathers and mothers that are purposely having babies to live off the system. This is mental slavery. These government subsidies were made for a temporary shift in your life to hold you over until you get back on your feet. People are “Welfare Queens”, but it is still not the single mothers fault. How the hell you rocking a pinky ring and a Rolex and the government has you down as a Child Support fugitive? That pinky ring could put food in your baby’s mouth. We stopped appreciating each other in our culture and just started backstabbing and using each other when we needed to get off.We forget that we have women like Michelle Obama that can represent our culture.

These women we call birds, never received support from a man to ensure their protection. These birds, are the mothers of the earth and our society treats them like tokens instead of humans. These birds will have section 8 forever, and clothes rivaling a 6 digit salary.


We have to do better! Make him where a condom, or birds will have no choice but to fly to the next Job Fair, and stop leading their children into a generation of sorry men and women. I come from strong women and men and so do you. Our people fought wars and slavery and died for their respect,and their family name. We are stepping on their legacy. We lost respect and we should be ashamed we call our women the same damn thing Master did when they HAD to accept it. So, once again we all are to blame for the decline in the Black families. If he calls you after 12:00 AM and does not kiss you don’t have unprotected sex with him.


Your ancestors wanted to have their own legacy and family values. They risked their life, but they needed to provide for their family.
Listen women and men, when you act like this you are giving people like Sean Hannity and Don Imus, extra material to cover on their radio shows.***Single Moms Are Not To Blame, Our Decline In Respect and Morals Are To Blame For Our Destruction Of The Black Family!***