Gloria Steinman + Angela Davis ***messymandella***

 

Feministically Beautiful And Honest*Colbie Coliat* Tries ***messymandella***

What makes you stand out from the rest?
How do you feel about living your own way and on your own terms?
The world is completely in need of strong-minded and unique fashionistas that want to stand out above the rest. Can you honestly say that you stand alone? No, because you need love and equality. You can have both, but first look at how women of all ages and ethnicities are beautiful. Instead of hating,compliment each other and don’t be a contouring clone. “Try” to be unique!

 

Happy Mother’s Day From The Childless ***messymandella***…

       I  shall become a mother, but I wanted to serve my purpose to help others and give my future children a sense of self and determination.

      I want my sons to look in the eyes of their dad and see courage and mischief, but also rest in the home knowing everyone in our household will remain safe.

I want my son to want to strive and have wisdom. Their dad must instill values regarding the dangers and mistakes.

I want a daughter that knows she is beautiful, but will

 

use her mind and spirit to lead.

She will always respect her man or woman. Her partner should always respect her.

I don’t want my daughter’s visiting their baby daddy behind bars, or her husband to have an inmate number for life.

I want to build pride, unification, and self-love within our world.

We as a world can become financial wealth, but spiritual wealth is just as beneficial.

Salute to you mothers that have divinity and life  goals  for empowerment within ourselves and the youth.

You mom’s are the reason I believe in love and a career with strong foundation.

 

 

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Fight For Our Children’s Rights And Show Love To All, Like The Late AIDS Activist: Nkosi Johnson***messymandella***

          Nkosi Johnson born in Danhauser, South Africa died fighting for acceptance during his impending death. Nkosi did not expect to live, he just wanted to be treated fairly. He could have be your nephew, your baby brother, even your son. Children born with AIDS didn’t transmit the virus by their lifestyle, or sexual contact. Even as babies, they are treated like diseased pariahs that are a sad remembrance of their parents transgressions. Nkoski is no longer in his physical form , but he loved and wanted to play, jump and go to school, like all children want to do,but he could not out of the stigma of AIDS. Nkosi was adopted and loved, and we can appreciate him today. I know we always change the  television when Sarah Mclachlan sings, “Angel.” However, that world exist, you can’t live a sheltered selfish life, and not learn and love people who don’t have a chance to tell their story. Meet, this Angel! This sweet baby boy. Ever day remember you are breathing and you are thriving, leave a legacy, just like Nkosi.  

(4 February 1989 – 1 June 2001)

Avoiding Negativity***messymandella***

You have to live your life without negativity.Sometimes it can come out of the mouth of a friend a family member. You must remember that if you invite negativity in your life,it will only grow.If that is your mistake you will alienate love,and life.People lead by example.You have so many opportunities in this world.You can’t sit around and cry and moan if you don’t take them. It is a daily task to meditate, live and laugh.Once you invite light in your life,you become a better person.

A voice of negativity may be the reason you stay in an unfaithful relationship. Some people hate coming home.They can’t stand the weekend,because they know their loved one may or may not come home at night.People will only do, what you let them do. You are in a negative situation.You don’t have to be in that situation. You chose to accept negativity in your life.

You have to stay positive. I believe that excessive negative situations make you a weak and mindless person.You are missing your blessings. I have girlfriends that WANT to be married, but their man can make it to the club,but not to the Courthouse.They will stay in the situations for years. That means the man has control of a relationship. So many people will stay around negativity their entire life.

Stop letting people run over you and not give you respect.Children watch as their moms have a different man in their house every other week.Some parents will smoke weed and curse in front of their kids. You have corrupted that child’s mind. So many negative ideas are already being sent to the next generation.

If someone greets you with a frown of an uncomfortable situation,end it.You can’t complicate your life and let other people decide your well being.When I started messymandella.com I never told anyone. I knew that negative people would ask me why? I am a blessed person.I work all the time.I do charity work for my town.I also find time to raise money for kids or adults,in need. I have participated in fundraisers for AIDS and HIV patients and visit them.I am not rich in money,just blessings. I enjoy what I do. I show love to everyone,to avoid negativity.That is why I don’t let people take joy from me. You better not either!

UPDATE: Bobbi Kristina Brown’s “Boyfriend” Speaks About His Guilt!***messymandella***

       Bobbi Kristina Brown, you  are still in our prayers, up high. This article of course  not any means a smear campaign against Nick Gordon, but he spoke of Bobbi Kristina as she  was already  dead.

          “I miss them both, and I lost them both!”

What in this world happen to that baby on that day and who and what could even cause her to be in this situation? This boy feels guilt, but he doesn’t appear to have attempted to murder her. He appears to be guilty that he couldn’t revive her that day. Nick blames himself, and now the family rallying for her survival should never be sidetracked by Nick’s antics, but something is  missing. Why does he feel so guilty, and threatening himself? 

Is  this a  calculated diversion?

Watch for yourself!



Brain dead, physical death and whatever terminology  is being used to describe Bobbi are not technically important at this moment.

What is important is how and when the families coming together, burying the hatchet and setting aside their  own differences to make things right for Bobbi in the near future.

     I am sure Whitney is sending her daughter love  and is torn between wanting her there with her, or letting her stay here with us a little longer, to carry out her dreams.

When you take the time to look inside  yourself use Whitney as your example.

        Whitney taught me never to have anyone in your life that will publicly destroy or diminish your brand or cause scandal.

        I wish and pray  Bobbi Kristina will finally have her story told through her eyes, without the tabloid scandal.She deserves people in her life, that have her best intrest,and not only want her inheritance.

Whitney Houston lived a life that humbled most, and destroyed her in the end. Her daughter couldn’t seem to find her place in this world. Now she won’t have to, the families ALLEGEDLY will let Bobbi Kristina Brown pass away. Now,it is a what if situation,but we are too hurt inside. This little girl had two troubled parents with addictions, but they loved her so much. No one could ever dispute the admiration of their little girl, Bobbi Kristina Brown.

     Today is her last physical day,according to reports from the family spokesperson. I felt in my heart she left us before this week. She wanted to be with her mom. Now she will be removed from the breathing machine on the anniversary of her mother’s death.

We must tell the truth about Whitney Houston. I cried, because I was in her situation,not drugs but with someone who would play the part of a different person to the public.

 

When she lost part of her heavenly voice, and her self-respect through addiction, we were confused and disappointed and with Bobbi, we refuse to accept her fate.


 

 

Bobbi Kristina Brown, You Keep Fighting!***messymandella***


 

          Bobbi Kristina Brown, you  are still in our prayers, up high.

 
When you take the time to look inside  yourself use Whitney as your example.

        Whitney taught me never to have anyone in your life that will publicly destroy or diminish your brand or cause scandal.

        I wish and pray  Bobbi Kristina will finally have her story told through her eyes, without the tabloid scandal.She deserves people in her life, that have her best intrest,and not only want her inheritance.

She is still a child.

 

       Don’t let anyone steal your time with their drama, and end up diminishing  your prominence and vision.

People who love you and care, will not hurt you or destroy your creativity with stupidity. Bobbi deserves the love and a support system of positive and loving people.

Once deceptive souls realize you are worth millions they will systematically break you down with every motive under the Sun.

         Brain dead, physical death and whatever terminology  is being used to describe Bobbi are not technically important at this moment. What is important is how and when the families coming together, burying the hatchet and setting aside their  own differences to make things right for Bobbi in the near future.

     I am sure Whitney is sending her daughter love  and is torn between wanting her there with her, or letting her stay here with us a little longer, to carry out her dreams.
 
       Whatever decision is made, we must remember God is in control. He is watching Bobbi, and  we love you and you are not alone.

 

 
 

 
 

Sadly, Bobbi Kristina Has “Significantly Diminished,” According To TMZ.***messymandella***

This  young lady kept trying to tell the world, she was in agony and loneliness.
 
 
I pray for Bobbi’s family of course.
 
 
I also pray a secondary prayer for Cissy Houston and her father,Bobby Brown.
 

 
 Tmz.com
 
Whitney Houston’s daughter Bobbi Kristina has “significantly diminished” brain function and doctors have told her family it does not look good … this according to sources connected with the family.
 
As we previously reported, the 21-year-old was found face down in her bathtub Saturday and not breathing.  She was revived, taken to the hospital where she was placed in a medically-induced coma.
 
She is currently on a ventilator but we’re told tests have determined her brain function is alarmingly low.  
 
Bobbi Kristina’s dad, Bobby Brown, is at her bedside.
 
Doctors have told the family they should continue hoping and praying, but the signs are not good.”
 
 

 
 

Jamaica ***messymandella*** Traveling With The “Della” [CLICK ON EACH PICTURE]

 

 

URLTV Presents: @MsHuSTLe127 Vs @YoungGattas Prove Women Deserve The URLTV Stage.***messymandella***

 

      These women came hard and showed the world that women have barz and the culture is now a part of the female legacy. Battle Rap was segregated from the women unless you were a ring card girl. Now we have women that are as beautiful as the Ring Card Girls,but barz to rival some of the men.

I think it is shady to always assume if a female battle rapper is fire,some man wrote her shit.These women are doing their own unique and unrelenting flow that both of these women have blessed the stage with.Don’t know about that E.Hart mess, because she decapitated Gattas.This battle here put her back on the map.

That is a lie that people use to push women further in those ring card girl suits or classify them as groupies on the stage. Now when you look on the battle stage you witness actual women who are on the radio and promote the culture.

Yes,and some are doing this with their clothes on and are a part of these women are part of the reason women are now getting a better reception and their opinion also matters in this culture.

I salute you women and I want you both to know that your performance was one of the best battles I have witnessed.

Thank you both for showing up prepared and bringing your barz and your cockiness (Gattas) gave the battle energy and people will debate this battle for a minute.That is how you know both of you women did a damn good job. Salute to unity and I love the fact that whatever is said, stays in the ring and you show love afterwards. Salute.