Lil Kim, What’s Wrong With Being Black? ***messymandella***self – hate turns into an obsession

You blind or something?

Oh, Dear Jesus!

My Lamb!

What in the Lambchop Hell am I looking at?Cg2MJ-lUUAIfJsU

No more pretending  that ths is not your new plastic surgery that has turned you into Imelda Marcos! If You want to look like Margaret Cho, and Kim Jung Ill , that is your business! You can wallow  in Pancake Ivory Make-Up to your last days.


We know what you looked like almost a decade ago.

They have this thing called pictures, you see?

If you don’t stop turning into a Thunder Cat or the lead kitten in the Meow Mix Commercial…

This is a travesty. I wrote those horrible comments above because I thought it was funny how bad she looked. It is however far from comical, just disturbing and embarrassing. 

LilKimBeforeAfter Everyone knows I Love Lil Kim!

It’s a contradiction of my personality.I love Empowering Women, but also love someone who talks about making money,drugs and selling her ass. I don’t think that the beautiful women of Rap are personified outside of their entourage unless they sell their sexuality.

I don’t know why she became a different shade and abandoned the beautiful little woman she was in 1996?We can speculate on how and why she bleached her skin, and chose to turn into a more lighter, Asian version of herself. I have a theory, the love of her life was the late Biggie Smalls, who was a well-known player. Biggie had 2 well-known side chicks, Charlie Baltimore and Faith Evans,Faith became his wife. They are both Biracial and Fair Skinned. That may have been the catalyst that changed Lil Kim into this other person. Maybe she felt, “Why not me?”I am not complaining about being more ethnic.I have weave and change the color of my hair every other week. I express myself through fashion, hair and music.

Lil Kim did not start making herself  lighter until Faith Evans became Big’s Wife. Why did Lil Kim think she needed to be lighter? Is it a statement that lighter is better in the African-American community? If this is the idea that little girls are given, we need to do better and live better.

I can’t think of anyway we can get pass colorism and self-love if we keep abandon the melanin in our skin, to be another standard of beauty. Who’s standard? Women are beautiful in every race and color. No certain complexion or hue is superior. She also needs better friends. There is no way your TRUE friends would let you roll with them looking so unnatural.

It is wrong to bully or criticize someone because of how they look, jealousy, or factors they can’t control. Kim and other women and men can control this disgusting bleaching trend. You were once a woman of black descent before you pulled a Sammy Sosa!


I will ALWAYS be a Lil Kim fan, but I wish she was a fan of herself!

This transition is insanely drastic!

Best of 2015***messymandella*** where fashion and hip hop meet (mira sorvino, pipa middelton, 2 chainz)

Age doesn’t matter!

Your size doesn’t matter!


The Color of your Skin Doesn’t Matter!



Your look belongs to you.
You take pride in your looks, and maybe are even considered vain,and conceited.
Honey, I hear it when I walk by too!
You have to feel that love and admiration from their envy.
You go above and beyond to stand apart from the rest and you feel that confidence in knowing that 7 people will not be in the mall wearing your exact dress design.

They are envious of you because you can pull it off, and you took that fashion risk.
Three women can wear the same dress, but if you don’t have that confidence, and beauty that embodies grace, you have wasted your time and the seams of that dress.

Take pride in yourself, and use proper hygiene.

Don’t walk around smelling like burnt pastrami or old hot dog water and what not…
You are amazing, and adventurous, and should make your own way in this world.
Those clothes, are an accessory for your unique swagger and gorgeous face.
These women are gorgeous, and all of different races an and different hair styles.
Because we all our Sista’s regardless!


why is faith evans not on the top of the charts?

  •          Thinking to myself, about Faith Evans and her unsung talent. No one shows Faith Evan’s the attention she deserves. Maybe, because that entire “Faith Evan’s Is the reason Tupac and Biggie Were Beefing!” That  drama was in the 90’s, and  LET THAT GO! We will never know what happened between her and both men. Why does this overshadow this womans talent?

             Faith Evans was competition for Mary J.Blige. Now Mary always has Grammy performances, and collaborations. Faith Evan’s releases an album with little or  no promotion. Now she is on a reality show, with women that were of course almost C list singers. Faith deserves so much more. Her voice is  unmatchable. She has changed her image, and still the same results.

          Maybe Faith Evans should have tried to resolve her differences  with Bad Boy? When she was with Bad Boy we knew Faith Evans! So many women wanted to look like Faith Evans and loved her swagger.  She will always be one of the best singers, even if you will never see her on MTV or 106  and Park. Maybe we should focus on her music. Maybe people are still pissed  off at Faith Evans,because of Tupac and Biggie’s beef ?That  will never bring these rappers  back! Focus on Faith  and talent, and not her past, or rumors from her haters.



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mystery still clouds the murder of christopher “biggie” wallace ***messymandella***


I think sometimes in urban neighborhoods, we think it is cool to be in a casket.

Can you remember where you were when Christopher Wallace (May 21, 1972 – March 9, 1997) was Murdered? 

How many dummies in prison from gun charges, and they never got a chance to fire them?

I don’t go to the grocery store with my gun, and I don’t hang around fools that can get me shot.

If I was hit by a bullet it  could be someone with the same color of skin as mine.

Get caught “lacking” at a job fair, and stop being stupid.

Pondering Minds What To Know:

Have you ever heard of someone shooting at a Dolly Parton, or Pattie Labelle  concert? 

FYI, you are not a soldier unless you are fighting in Iraq, or any other country for our freedom.

You are not a soldier, when you kill for your own greed.

Biggie Smalls never had a chance to become a grandfather, will you?



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