Fashion Flash Back: 1980’s For All Dem’ Babies***messymandella***Whitney Houston (1985)

Age doesn’t matter!

Your size doesn’t matter!

The Color of your Skin Doesn’t Matter!
Your hair can be long, short, natural,weave, even a 1980’s mullet and Doc Martins with Crush Velvet (I don’t even know…child…)  but wear it with confidence.

You have to feel that love and admiration, even from a hater. If you prefer the 1980’s but are a little afraid,maybe have a retro party with close friends who appreciate big bangs, hairspray and layers of sock. Maybe,you are not ready for the Patti Labelle hair hat, just as of yet.

They may be  envious of you because YOU can pull it off, and you took that fashion risk.

3 women can wear the same dress, but if you don’t have that confidence, and beauty that embodies grace, you have wasted your time.

Take pride in yourself.

You are amazing, and adventurous. Those clothes, are an accessory for your unique swagger, and gorgeous face. These women are gorgeous, and all of different races an and different hair styles. You keep being confident, you with your bad ass!


All of these looks work, because the confidence is more important than the clothes.
You will stand in the light, and will have fashion mishaps too.

Don’t worry,but again if you are confident you won’t give a damn.

If you are not ready to go out with your hair stacked up to Jesus, or don’t invest in Aqua net Hair Spray have an 1980’s theme party. Don’t let someone tell you to play fashion, safe. That is not for you, if you have confidence.

Don’t worry about other’s opinions.

I don’t!

 

 

 

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Elisabeth Withers “No Regrets” – End Domestic Abuse!***messymandella***

  No one with any respect would mentally and physically torture you. 
   It is a beautiful thing to accept your past pain from an abusive relationship, and live with no regrets.
Mental  abuse is  different from physical abuse  because the bruises and scars are within. Any form of abuse tears your self-esteem down brick by brick, until your entire perception of self is destroyed.
    You can't move on or flourish or find unconditional love, until you find confidence and self-love within. 
  The emotional and physical abuser will cripple you until you can't appreciate your reflection in your mirror. 
    Emotional abuse is purposely withholding love and affection knowing it is diminishing your self - esteem.   
     The physical abuser convinces you that hitting you is their right because you are their possession. The abuser will show the entire world a completely different version of themselves, while gaslighting you. 
     You will eventually believe that this behavior is acceptable or you deserve it.  
  You will also question your value and that is the ultimate plan.
 Love is nurturing, never embarrassing or hurtful due to control or disrespect.
If someone disrespects you constantly, why would you stay? 
  People can only do to us what WE let them do. If you have to question your beauty or value, the abuser is already winning.
Take back your control. 
People have the ability to change, but only when they want to change.

You are not alone.
I am talking to you... 

 

 

http://www.helpguide.org/articles/abuse/domestic-violence-and-abuse.htm

 

http://www.thehotline.org/

 

The abuse hotline phone number 1−800−799−7233

 

 

Anderson Cooper’s Special Delivery

           Anderson was a recipient of a Bullet Ridden Police Badge, a DVD.Law enforcement officials are inspecting a package CNN‘s  Anderson Cooper received from the Crazed,  California Policeman.

           According to Shimrit Sheetrit, CNN spokeswoman, said Thursday.CNN spokeswoman Shimrit Sheetrit It contained a note on it that read, in part, “I never lied.”  

              Dorner was fired from the LAPD in 2008 for making false statements.A coin typically given out as a souvenir by the police chief was also in the  package and riddled with bullet holes.