Don’t Let Your Life Pass You By! ***messymandella***Tyler Stenson-MAXwell


 
      So, are you afraid to fail?

I have been in a situation where the richest person I knew personally wanted to remind me every day I was not part of the team.

 I refused to let someone who would rather brag and throw money in the trash and watch me struggle dictate my future.

Should I have been stressed?

Hell yes I was, stressed!

Remember, Scrooge didn’t win, and in the end neither will that person.

Life is about compromise and love. When you go above an beyond to snitch or risk someone’s future just for brownie points, in the end you will lose.

I have never been the one to smile in the face of the person who wants to see the worst in me. However, I can honestly say with  the humbleness ,“I MADE IT THROUGH.”

        Now when someone wants to witness your failure  materialistically, they are saddened at who they have become. When someone jeopardizes your life and career,  like a hall monitor,they are not getting enough love at home.

That gives them more time to  purposely put you down, that is because they dwell in  sadness and hate their pathetic life, not yours…

Life can be full of regret and grudges that harbor resentment towards others.

  Do not allow people to lessen your quality of life.

Keep  pushing towards your dreams.

The same situations that brought forth tears and shame also are  the catalysts that either made you a negative or positive person. 

Which one are you?

Now when you  interact with the so call friends that betrayed you, don’t be fake.

They don’t deserve your time or consideration, but if it is someone who you live with, work with, or even in your family, let them drown in their own deception.

If I wasn’t treated like shit, by someone I once respected, it would have never met you, my family and readers all over the world.

That pain and deception inspired me, and I hope it inspires you.

I will never let bitter broads ever stand in the way of my dreams.

I believe in Sista Hood  for all.

However, if anyone would damage your life, income, or your well-being, are they capable of Sista Hood?

Share your life with other women that don’t question you and desires and are for you,not against you. They pray that you will give up on your dreams, and be just like them, bitter. 

If you have to wonder if you walk out the room will they trash you, stay. the. hell. out. of. that. room.

They are salty because they were not brave as you.

They envy you for following your dreams, while they let their lives past them by…

 

 

Domestic Abuse/ Tupac’s Message!***messymandella***

cycle_of_abuseMental and verbal abuse are often disputed based on the  illusion that if  it is not physical, then it is not abuse.  This  silent manipulation epidemic is happening to even younger adults. Some are afraid to speak out, or embarrassed that they voluntarily  and fearfully  accepted this mistreatment.
 
    After a punch, you hide it,  to protect the abuser, but you can’t hide emotional abuse. They  can convince you, that you deserved the treatment and the physical pain.
 
Within the scope of  abuse, you will justify their  behavior and victim logic,but  you hide the fact that you stayed. No one with any respect would mentally and physically embarrass you. Mental  abuse it is totally different because it tears your self-esteem down, brick by brick. The abuser gains power by belittling you and that right there is proof that they are a coward.  They will be the nicest person one day, but you know in a few days it will be a change in behavior,for no reason.
 
Baby, that is no way to live.
 
If he has to hurt you to feel important, he doesn’t deserve you.
 
  If someone systematically drilling in your head that you are the problem, you will believe it, and that is part of the manipulation.
 
Some women even apologize for their tears, after the abuser has insulted them. Don’t be embarrassed that you were manipulated.
 
You are not alone.
 
You trusted the wrong person, most men that would hurt you to gain power have a legion of people that hate them for the mistreatment of you. 
 
Never be afraid to ask for assistance and by telling your story, you may save some undeserving person a chance to suffer the pain from you.
 
Even if they threaten you to stay with them, get away!
 
You can’t let someone control your emotions with an remote control.
 
Lies are told and promises broken, and they don’t care how they treat anyone.
 
You have your life and why would you waste it on someone that hurts you,lies to you and insults you to your face.
 
That person is an ass.
 
That person needs their ass kicked. 
 
In the end, if someone is destructive to everything that they touch, they should not have the pleasure of touching you.

 Get counseling to move on with your life, this person doesn’t deserve to breathe the same air that you do. 

 
http://www.helpguide.org/articles/abuse/domestic-violence-and-abuse.htm
 
http://www.thehotline.org/
 
The abuse hotline phone number  1−800−799−7233 

 

 

 

NSFW: JUSTICE FOR ERIC GARNER! (GRANDPA GOES CRAZY!) ***messymandella***


 

***messymandella*** Want*s You To Forgive Their Dumb Butt!

 

Are you responsible for someone else’s downfall?

Are you hiding  behind guilt by pretending everything is fine, when you are deeply concerned about your well-being and Karma?

You can grow taller, but that does not make you an adult.

Your actions determine your age and overall maturity.

 

When are we able to walk among the evil, we can get sucked in to ignorance.

Your demeanor can suddenly change, and your appearance and mannerisms will soon shift downward.

Hard living will eventually catch up to you, physically and mentally.

Have you ever noticed a man with muscles, and handsome features lose the muscle density and looks diminish?

If you ever been in the same room with someone who you look at and say to yourself, “What happened to her, she used to be so pretty?”

  The light of honesty is dimming in their eyes, because they’re becoming a victim of their own circumstances.

They betrayed you, but forgive them because they are on the run.

They have created  survival off of hatred and tools of the ego, and created their own paranoia, but  you must forgive them.

They finally may have taken their selfish actions a little too far, and now it just got too real…

Forgive and live, they are running from their own Karma, and would rather die than apologize or admit they were responsible for ANY of the current events taking place in their life.

In this journey of life, we never know if today will be our last day. 

You get what you  give, and sleep peacefully, knowing this set back was a minor downfall.

You deserve the peace that calmness and righteousness allows, when you treat others with love and respect. People can make fun of your lifestyle, but who cares?

You sleep like a baby at night but the unforgiven  are always looking over their shoulders, like a dummy.

Forgive their dumbness. 

I do believe in this life “God takes care of babies, and fools.”

You have to ask which class do you fall under?

Leave the gutter and swamp to the wildlife, but you  must forgive  to live!

If you ever been in the same room with someone who you look at and say to yourself, “What happened to her, she used to be gorgeous?”

Once again, hard living and Karma will eventually kill you and your overall swagger.

Your ego and quest for selfishness may manipulate some but it will only come back to destroy you in the end. 

You have to forgive the person that stepped on your trust and loyalty.

Were you the reason someone may have died trying to protect you?

Were you just horrendously vicious  to people for your own selfish needs?

You are still alive and you can still forgive yourself.

Wake up from the nightmare into a new life, and forgive them.

I refuse to give power to something out of my control and let it weigh me  down forever.

Travel down that road of regret and that bridge will keep getting wider, and your life will just be bitter.

That is not the way to live, forgive and live.

Cross over that river, to find happiness and realistic and positive energy,  that is not supplemented by tools of the evil.

 

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