Marian Hill ***messymandella*** (Audio)


T Boz + Steve Harvey ***messymandella***

Behind The Scenes With Naomi Harris ***messymandella***


Prince ***messymandella***

        Prince the legend, entertained myriads of cultures and generations. 

Prince will always  be remembered as a innovative pioneer of contemporary music.

He is currently in the news because of allegations regarding his death. Here is a chance to celebrate his life. 

If your music can reach generations you are a legend, just  like Prince.


We all know, Prince loved the color purple!                        

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Gwen Stefani + Jimmy Kimmel + Pharrell ***messymandella***

Women Of Rock- ***messymandella*** Florence + The Machine!

There is a beauty Of Knowing You Can Make Things Happen!

Men and women should surround themselves with people that want to build mentally and physically.

If you are mortified about what you are doing in life, do something else.

You can be the master of your own failures, if you let drama and negativity cloud your life.

If you like me, you have been up against the wall but kept your head up high.

It was never in vain, you will reap your benefits in time.

Be patient and happy with blessings and accomplishments, I am!


Hope and faith are the reason I know life has more in store for me.

So many opportunities, and so many exceptional things are destined for you to, but ignore jealousy!

You have to stay focused and confident and keep loving life.

Don’t let negative emotions get involved with your struggle.

Love the men that surround you and let them know you believe in them. Remind the men in your life that  you will always speak up against misogynist and stereotypical treatment of women. 

God, will lead you into your truth, but the Devil will throw every obstacle in your way…

Shake it off

Mary J Blige, The Hip Hop Icon ***messymandella***

   “The Queen Of Hip Soul” will forever be timeless. Mary J Blige changed the game with her trademark fashion and imitated hair styles.



Rashida Jones created a nostalgic 1990’s music video as a representation of our women in music.


I posted the video below on this website in a previous  post.

TLC, Eve, Lil Kim, Faith Evans, Total, Brandy, and Aaliyah will forever challenge beauty stereotypes.

Women challenge ideologies  of fashion or beauty standards with  unapologetic expression. 

Don’t be mislead by a superficial  definition of what constitutes as “sexy” or “beautiful ” in our culture.



Our ethnic beauty traits are admired and often duplicated.

Celebrate your heritage.

Women are obsessed with excessive tanning, lip injections, and butt injections, just not our ethnic hair…

Nappy hair is not the celebrated look…




We as a society can’t judge black women that wear long silky  weave, when apparently Society views ethnic hair as a curse.

Ladies of all races, admire your distinct genetic traits.


 Nappy hair is not a curse, but we have stepped into this racist mindset that it is… 


You  are beautiful regardless of your hair weave or your nappy hair.



No matter what others believe, listen when I remind you that your crowns will  fit comfortably on the top of your weave, braids, or your curly afro.

You will blind the world with your light.

Keep doing you!

Always wear your crown like our Queen, Mary J Blige. 



This is what  sexuality and greatness looks like…