The last time I checked it was obviously a stigma in the community regarding minority single women and admitting that deserve love, like they are scum only to be used for sex and profit. It is their fault that someone promised them lies and then hauled ass? Some women don’t really have morals and could care less who they wake up next to as long as they can rock a designer bag, and the best Bike Week Hairstyle on this side of the Motel 6. Some women chose the wrong man. We are playing ourselves! We know damn well if that man does not take care of his other “Soccer Team Of Children” that yours will only be added to the roster. Why have unprotected sex with a man who you and he can’t afford to get pregnant by first? I get it, because the government is going to pay for that child for the next 18 years, even if daddy doesn’t? He will only stick around about five minutes after he pulls up his pants(bonding time?)
Oh, we want to believe that if the sex is that good then he will somehow take care of your child? Why the hell am I out here working, when It is easier to lay on may back and get checks? The country has a double standard.
Stop rewarding fathers and mothers that are purposely having babies to live off the system. This is mental slavery. These government subsidies were made for a temporary shift in your life to hold you over until you get back on your feet. People are “Welfare Queens”, but it is still not the single mothers fault. How the hell you rocking a pinky ring and a Rolex and the government has you down as a Child Support fugitive? That pinky ring could put food in your baby’s mouth. We stopped appreciating each other in our culture and just started backstabbing and using each other when we needed to get off.We forget that we have women like Michelle Obama that can represent our culture.
These women we call birds, never received support from a man to ensure their protection. These birds, are the mothers of the earth and our society treats them like tokens instead of humans. These birds will have section 8 forever, and clothes rivaling a 6 digit salary.
We have to do better! Make him where a condom, or birds will have no choice but to fly to the next Job Fair, and stop leading their children into a generation of sorry men and women. I come from strong women and men and so do you. Our people fought wars and slavery and died for their respect,and their family name. We are stepping on their legacy. We lost respect and we should be ashamed we call our women the same damn thing Master did when they HAD to accept it. So, once again we all are to blame for the decline in the Black families. If he calls you after 12:00 AM and does not kiss you don’t have unprotected sex with him.
WHAT IN THE STD HELL IS WRONG WITH US?
Your ancestors wanted to have their own legacy and family values. They risked their life, but they needed to provide for their family.
Listen women and men, when you act like this you are giving people like Sean Hannity and Don Imus, extra material to cover on their radio shows.***Single Moms Are Not To Blame, Our Decline In Respect and Morals Are To Blame For Our Destruction Of The Black Family!***