Fun, Fearless At 43 Years Old! ~:Cameron Diaz ***messymandella***

       Cameron  Michelle Diaz,  stays relevant and loyal to her true-blue fans and releases comedic movies, and has remained active in the business for over 20 years.

In the Film, Art and Entertainment Industry most lose sight of the craft to remain in the limelight.

Women like Cameron  employ not exploy  their comedic gift, and artistry to gain fandom and lives a private life, off stage.

On competitive women: “Women are taught that we’re supposed to be pitted against one another. I never grew up that way. I was not drawn to women who were competitive with me. Any time I did, I found myself broken-hearted. [So] I just decided that as soon as I felt that from another woman, I’d go the opposite way. We live in a society where women are self-sufficient, they can take care of themselves, and what they need are more women in their lives. We understand each other, we know each other, we can be compassionate towards one another, the same way guys are ‘bros’ and ‘buddies’ together.” From The Sydney Morning Herald

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Jheri Curl Chronicles :Luther Vandross – Love Won’t Let Me Wait (1988) ***messymandella***Lisa Lisa + Cult Jam + Full Force (1987)

3 Of My Favorite Artist Of All Time!


  “Jheri Redding (born Robert William Redding March 2, 1907 – March 15, 1998) was an American hairdresser, chemist, hair care products entrepreneur and business person. Redding is best known for having created the Jheri curl.”
         However, we can also pay homage to Comer Cottrell who decided we all needed dirty pillow shams, and sweaty necks.This man created a greasy hot sweaty mess on the necks of all our relatives in the early 1970’s and 1980’s and the 90’s decided it was enough of this Armor Oil foolishness.


ageless beauty: iman abdulmajid is 60 years old! ***messymandella***



obscure soul-quincy jones and tamia***messymandella***

classic-graphic-hidden history-the lynching of laura Nelson And Her Son LD In 1911***messymandella***

We discuss racism and our sole mission to unify the races.

However, to become familiar with our ancestors, it is mandatory to know why women with a strong voice, were not appreciated then, and are a constant thorn in an average man’s mind-frame.

We will  retrieve a piece of our history that society did not deem of importance and would never have a rally to clear her name of wrong doing. Of course when Laura was murdered those  pictures and whispered historians  that haunted the families and the neighbors were the proof. However the families that ended her life,  remain unmoved about the legend of Laura Nelson, that most remain hidden. Laura’s life was an uncomfortable truth, but history should never be ignored.

After shaking and crying watching  12 Years A Slave, and witnessing  Lupita Nyong’o ,with her interpretation of the molested and domestically tortured slave, “Patsy”  I  researched other female slaves. Our society must learn  the value of all women.


Now, we pay  homage to the woman who became  “Strange Fruit.” 


Here is the truth about a woman who ended up on  a lynching postcard, and lost her life unjustly just for being a  well spoken woman, with a sense of pride.

NSFW-Here are there pictures…graphic, so click on link at your own discretion…,%201911.jpg

Information from the Genealogy Record History


Austin, Laura and their son L.D. Nelson were taken into custody after L.D. Nelson allegedly shot and killed George H. Loney, Okemah’s deputy sheriff, when Loney and a posse turned up at the Nelson’s home to investigate the theft of a cow belonging to a Mr. Claude Littrell. Laura’s husband pleaded guilty to the theft and was sent to the state prison at McAlester in the town of the same name for three years. Some accounts say in an effort to save her son, Laura said she had fired the fatal shot. Both she and L.D. were arrested and placed in jail at Okemah before their position their was compromised at the Old Schoolton Bridge by lynching.



nia long juggles her career and her children with respect and style!***messymandella***

 nia damn 
   Unless you have cataracts or hot sauce in your eyes, you can NEVER say Nia Long is not one of the most unbelievable gorgeous people in the world.

Look at her eyes,skin  and her bone structure they are nothing less but  perfection.

Nia Long never ages physically , and she actually becomes even more gorgeous each year.

Nia has that confidence and inner strength that radiates through her body and she juggles her career and her life as a mother.

Nia Long is a true respectful, and strong woman who can handle her own, and wants longevity in the game, and she doesn’t seem to be leaving the limelight any time soon. 

I don’t think anyone is complaining, are you?




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chiraq life Is dangerous and fleeting!***messymandella*** Lil Marc


We can’t neglect the violence because society encourages us to disregard certain group of individuals,and nothing is important enough benefits no one that he is no longer among the living.

He had a family and a “squad” that surely looked up to him for guidance.

I know he is in the same gang as Chief Keef!

Hell, he may have recruited him, but that doesn’t matter now…

I know that people will blend in to chaos and gangs.
It is simply easier to ignore the usual murder of our boys just to not shine light on the truth and realistic depreciation of our men and how behind bars and in their graves.These young men never can facilitate for their legal families and they mature into lost but easily influenced boys that will be dead or in prison or accessible to provide for their families

He is dead, and whoever took his life, will undoubtedly lose someone in their squad.

Chiraquian Rapper Fredo Santana will not live to celebrate 30 Years of age and The Migos will be a duet anytime soon,due to ignorant threats and people shooting an killing at their concerts.

When you have so many hood friends that are miserable, misguided, and manipulated by their hatred of self, it makes it easier to cause irrational and undeserving violence to others and tweet about it on Twitter.

In this generation, evil will always trump righteousness and self-preservation when it comes to killing our own.

We have a generation of young men that don’t want to be left out of any activities with their home boys,even if it murder. If his entire block is sporting that blue bandana out of their pocket, no one would risk not fitting in and being an individual. Libraries and lame and prison makes you a man,in the minds of the lost.

 They join and adapt and go to prison and others succumb to their demented and emotionless desires to make a better way, or be an individual. So the entire street decides that killing is a sport, no different from a video game. They are so removed from the rest of the world that ignorance is segregating them and crippling their future and it is based on the fictious war and who is up next to die?

Fredro Santana has created a niche for himself in his daily life of death warnings, and he will keep living in this world with a lackluster lyrics and that luciferin cross on his head, that child is the male Annabelle doll. Fredo Satan is in the same death trap community as Cheap Keith.

AGAIN,Why should you care, if you aren’t familiar with his music?

The media is comfortable not reporting every death in the Roseland community, but then again that would be a three hour news broadcast, every single night.. Sadly, when a black child murders another black child dies marches or protest, are not an option. If you think that I am exaggerating on the death toll and the evil in Chiraq, just read the statistics.

Look at one Chiraquian rapper shot on the street like an animal. I am showing this picture to educate the youth, this lost baby is in the gutter like he is trash and he wasn’t trash. He had the wrong mentality the wrong friends in the game of ignorance.

Where are their mothers and fathers?



I dont care if it makes you mad, as long as it saves your life.


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