Domestic Abuse/ Tupac’s Message!***messymandella***

cycle_of_abuseMental and verbal abuse are often disputed based on the  illusion that if  it is not physical, then it is not abuse.  This  silent manipulation epidemic is happening to even younger adults. Some are afraid to speak out, or embarrassed that they voluntarily  and fearfully  accepted this mistreatment.
 
    After a punch, you hide it,  to protect the abuser, but you can’t hide emotional abuse. They  can convince you, that you deserved the treatment and the physical pain.
 
Within the scope of  abuse, you will justify their  behavior and victim logic,but  you hide the fact that you stayed. No one with any respect would mentally and physically embarrass you. Mental  abuse it is totally different because it tears your self-esteem down, brick by brick. The abuser gains power by belittling you and that right there is proof that they are a coward.  They will be the nicest person one day, but you know in a few days it will be a change in behavior,for no reason.
 
Baby, that is no way to live.
 
If he has to hurt you to feel important, he doesn’t deserve you.
 
  If someone systematically drilling in your head that you are the problem, you will believe it, and that is part of the manipulation.
 
Some women even apologize for their tears, after the abuser has insulted them. Don’t be embarrassed that you were manipulated.
 
You are not alone.
 
You trusted the wrong person, most men that would hurt you to gain power have a legion of people that hate them for the mistreatment of you. 
 
Never be afraid to ask for assistance and by telling your story, you may save some undeserving person a chance to suffer the pain from you.
 
Even if they threaten you to stay with them, get away!
 
You can’t let someone control your emotions with an remote control.
 
Lies are told and promises broken, and they don’t care how they treat anyone.
 
You have your life and why would you waste it on someone that hurts you,lies to you and insults you to your face.
 
That person is an ass.
 
That person needs their ass kicked. 
 
In the end, if someone is destructive to everything that they touch, they should not have the pleasure of touching you.

 Get counseling to move on with your life, this person doesn’t deserve to breathe the same air that you do. 

 
http://www.helpguide.org/articles/abuse/domestic-violence-and-abuse.htm
 
http://www.thehotline.org/
 
The abuse hotline phone number  1−800−799−7233 

 

 

 

112- You Already know***messymandella***

 

 
 

THE REAL Coach Carter —-Twista ft Faith Evans – Hope ***messymandella***

 

 

 
 
 

KOTD – Rap Battle – Tycoon Tax vs Shotgun Suge***messymandella***

Ok, first things first, Why would anybody  anticipate a Shotgun Suge would win in any battle, battle  arena, or by any battle league?
We get  different characters, but the identical plot stays on repeat.
This time Tycoon Tax is victorious just by technicalities.

We know Shotgun Suge has bars, but the Cryptnesia needs to end,forever.

What is Cryptnesia?

It is when you assume that you are going to remember your barz, but you don’t so instead of admitting you choked You start throwing racial slurs at your opponent. You distract the audience from your semi prepared bars or Cryptnesia.

Suge has the same expression every time  he is about to choke, and I know that look. In the battle world, Shot Gun may never compete with the elite, because no one assumes he will give a lyrical performance. His advantage is his stage presences, and body weight that he uses  to tip the lyrical scale.

Just imagine, if he did not  choke? 

He can rap his ass off, and his music is better than his battles.

Still Shotgun Suge has some of the most disrespectful, but some of the memorable lines in the history of battle rap.

 

In theater and in any art form, primarily in battle rap, a choke destroys the moment, the momentum and the audience gets distracted and the mood changes, and it is unfair to your opponent.

That build up that one hears when the verbal jabs connect are what the viewers wait for and expect to get,after they have paid their money. 

Keep doing your think Big Grape, and since you are “The Shooter and the Driver” I think you need to be  more comfortable.

You know I can’t see you circling the block in  a Smart Car or a Geo Storm because you are gigantic.

So, as a fan, I have a suggestion!

Next time you are “the shooter and the driver” I want you to have a lot a room for your big ol’ self.

Here you go, Suge, drive this _____>http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-Wrd2AXbL6Xw/UgmY1rR3FUI/AAAAAAAAOBc/WFJzZoJj7UY/s1600/P1020810.JPG

Tupac I Didn’t Forget About You, LOVE! ***messymandella***

       Keep Ya Head Up created ***messymandella*** and the reason she is who she is now! Maybe that is a positive for some and a negative for others but the truth is always unwelcomed. It is easier to hate those that want to help than to envision life as the way it was in 1996 and  still in 2014, and take part in a change. Tupac told me and others to “Keep Your Head Up” because we do have, as he predicted  “a race  of babies that hate the ladies!”  That is the truth we are fighting for equality and love but are we required to not speak our mind? Remember this song and know that a strong man wants a strong woman. A weak man only wants someone he can control. If Tupac is telling you “To Keep Ya Head Up” damn what anyone else tells you! Real men love Tupac and respect women. They have listened and know how we should be treated. He will show you love!

 
      Tupac did not hate women, and I convinced he did not rape that woman. He loved us, now he the difference between a lady and the other terms are used as synonyms, but are not the same. You don’t take advantage of a woman to make her become a bitch, she is the woman who can bring life into this world. You love her, and show her respect.

She deserves the same chance in life as you do!

You can listen to who you want to tell you different, but look around.

I think I am going to listen to Tupac, until I see a change in the way we are treated and the way we conduct ourselves.

 

Happy Birthday Biggie, May Your Death Be A Warning!***messymandella***

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I think sometimes in urban neighborhoods, we think it is cool to be in a casket.

Can you remember where you were when Christopher Wallace (May 21, 1972 – March 9, 1997) was Murdered? 

How many dummies in prison from gun charges, and they never got a chance to fire them?

I don’t go to the grocery store with my gun, and I don’t hang around fools that can get me shot.

If I was hit by a bullet it  could be someone with the same color of skin as mine.

Get caught “lacking” at a job fair, and stop being stupid.

Pondering Minds What To Know:

Have you ever heard of someone shooting at a Dolly Parton, or Pattie Labelle  concert? 

FYI, you are not a soldier unless you are fighting in Iraq, or any other country for our freedom.

You are not a soldier, when you kill for your own greed.

 

Biggie Small’s never had a chance to become a grandfather, will you?

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Immortal Archives + Fire Water Red Starr-***messymandella***

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