Chris Brown Finally Wins My Approval But Probably Shouldn’t Give A Damn!***messymandella***

      

  When a man decides that he wants to grow up, he will. When he lies and cheats, a child will eventually pop up somewhere. It is stupid to think otherwise. Chris Brown made Karrueche look like a plumb fool, but she stayed until this little lady popped up. That is right, Chris Brown  finally found the one woman who would get him dumped by Karrueche for good. Chris has no problem getting attention from women,but now he is receiving attention from one special little woman, his daughter, Royalty.

       However, no matter how beautiful the women were that pursued Chris, he stayed with Karrueche. Karrueche apparently told millions he loved her.Women and dummies of all backgrounds  would run over their mom for a chance for a one night stand,with Chris Brown.

This situation is a product of  mistrust and selfishness that happens in our community. This factor  contributes to an abundance of  our single family homes.

            Chris Brown cheated, but no man should never be asked to choose between their child and the woman they love.

Why would any woman make than an option?

Gabrielle Union was criticized for forgiving her boyfriend, now husband, Dewayne Wade,after his “break baby.” Was she wrong, or is that child a blessing to them both?

         Of course, Chris Brown has enough money to purchase a different woman every hour, but this is not about his zipper, it is  about his little princess in his life. Well, actually it is about his zipper, because if he could have kept is zipper up or wrapped it up then Karrueche would not have  been sitting on that couch, crying and begging for Ivana Vanzant to fix her life.

       Do you leave because of infidelity?

  As the world revolves into social norms of non marriage and just cohabitation, it is quite common for us to ignore the signs of infidelity but you can not help but appreciate a man who decides his child comes first.

 

Even after a man conceived a child dishonorably, the woman in his life should not consider the child the mistake and that little princess is too cute.

        Should Karrueche have left him and resented the child? When a man  cheats or has a child, the first question should be is about the  lack of protection during the sexual intercourse, not the child!

          Is this a normal occurrence of unprotected sex a liability, are you in danger? Of course, but we are so reckless these days as a society. The infidelity is the crime, not Royalty.

Every woman has been in the situation where they were disrespected in public by someone who should have respected them and showered then with honor, like karrueche.

A baby conceived during an infidelity is a reminder of your partners portrayal  to you, but the child should come before our selfish needs.

Infidelity is wrong, but never resent an innocent baby, It takes a real woman to not hold a grudge towards the child.If you are bitter it will change that mans perspective of you, wait he cheated, DAMN his perspective!

The baby was conceived and should be a mandatory part of your lives, and not seen as a payment or hindering in the life of the parent.

In the end, a father should be a part of a child’s life, and Chris Brown is proving that fact to the world, even with a troubled past that one little girl can give you hope.

Chris  was obligated  to be loyal and that didn’t’ work and the dependency of his child is now the first priority in his life.

You will regret causing a rift between a children  and their father.

Why do most men and women with children, NOT LIVE TOGETHER?

We must get back to a two parent homes in our culture.

In the end, people will go their separate ways but why should that happen before the child is born? When  a mother is pregnant and you are in the club all night meeting other women, that sets a tone  for your intentions and is a negative foreshadowing of that child’s upbringing.

I am really starting to believe that the clubs and strip clubs that have frequent traffic with the same patriots are set up also to destroy the family structure.

Our black families are in trouble because we accept someone who stops by whenever and propositioning others, which should not be happening  in the first years of that child’s development with no regard to the family.

The early  moments are the most critical and if you don’t believe that the black family structure is dying, just evaluate the statistics.  The social norm is 4 Kids by 4 different women and the man is not obligated  to live with any of the baby mothers.

Even if didn’t work out, why not try to make a life closer to your child.

Get out the clubs.

GO HOME AND RAISE THESE CHILDREN!

  It is no reason to be in a bar every night unless you are a bartender, or  partying in a club every night unless you are a DJ.

Chris Brown  is doing the right thing by raising his child, she is an adorable little girl.

He could have raised his child within a family structure, but that is not obligated in this society.

Christopher seems to be a little more mature and he has a  blessing, his little baby that will depend on him to keep her protected and ensure her a bright future.

With Chris Brown’s temper, he will definitely protect his daughter and probably scare the hell out of her kindergarten teachers.

In the end, a man should make his child his priority.

No woman should ever make a man feel that he has to choose a  emotional relationship over father hood.



Jimmy Fallon:Pictionary with LL Cool J, Rose Byrne and Big Sean ***messymandella***


 

 

 
 
 
 
 

Melitta Baumeister Meets Rowdy Rebel! ***messymandella***


 
***messymandella*** hates gang violence,but has hope that these men will have a chance to become strong men outside of that jail cell.
 

 

 

 
 
 

Ledisi – Like This (Acoustic) ***messymandella***

 
 
 
 
 

Big K.R.I.T. VS Goodie Mob “What Happened To The Soul Food?”***messymandella***


 

       Our family dinners are missing from traditional black American homes, which originated in the poorer towns in  South, consisting of such foods as chitterlings, pig knuckles, turnip greens, and cornbread. Now we turn our nose up at chitterlings but the poor families had to use every part of the pig to feed their family. Music also helped enjoy those Sunday Dinners with families and friends don’t bow their heads. We destroying our heritage and our soul for the love of women. No one stays together.
        The black families are dying because we hate our women, and women trick and trap our men. Instead of unity, we are all under the impression that moments are more important that magnitude.
Thanks to my grandparents and parent, that have “old people arguments” as we call it, but they have been together for over 30 years. Now, don’t stay and endure abuse or put your children in harms way,but  bring back family dinners back to our life. My late grandmother  Bea, was abused by my grandfather one time. He cursed about dinner not being ready and tried to hit her. My grandmother retaliated and hit granddaddy’s  ass with a  hot pot of  collard greens. Granddaddy  worked in the woods, hauling pulp wood back in the 1950’s.

 

Thanks to grandma Bea , he had his arm in a pillowcase sling and missed work for a week.
HE NEVER touched my grandmother again.

 
 

She was an amazing cook and family was her priority and I really miss those times.
       My parents don’t understand when  women start letting themselves being treated like they are cattle. Get over the synthetic  thoughts and ideology that social media and the culture exploit.

 
 

Wake Up, we need that nourishment and to undo the tragic decline of respect for our people and our women.

 

 

WE Were Once Kings And Queens***messymandella*** SANTIGOLD

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Chiraq Life Is Dangerous And Fleeting!***messymandella*** Lil Marc


 

We can’t neglect the violence because society encourages us to disregard certain group of individuals,and nothing is important enough benefits no one that he is no longer among the living.

He had a family and a “squad” that surely looked up to him for guidance.

I know he is in the same gang as Chief Keef!

Hell, he may have recruited him, but that doesn’t matter now…

I know that people will blend in to chaos and gangs.
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It is simply easier to ignore the usual murder of our boys just to not shine light on the truth and realistic depreciation of our men and how behind bars and in their graves.These young men never can facilitate for their legal families and they mature into lost but easily influenced boys that will be dead or in prison or accessible to provide for their families
 

 
He is dead, and whoever took his life, will undoubtedly lose someone in their squad.

Chiraquian Rapper Fredo Santana will not live to celebrate 30 Years of age and The Migos will be a duet anytime soon,due to ignorant threats and people shooting an killing at their concerts.

When you have so many hood friends that are miserable, misguided, and manipulated by their hatred of self, it makes it easier to cause irrational and undeserving violence to others and tweet about it on Twitter.

In this generation, evil will always trump righteousness and self-preservation when it comes to killing our own.

We have a generation of young men that don’t want to be left out of any activities with their home boys,even if it murder. If his entire block is sporting that blue bandana out of their pocket, no one would risk not fitting in and being an individual. Libraries and lame and prison makes you a man,in the minds of the lost.

 They join and adapt and go to prison and others succumb to their demented and emotionless desires to make a better way, or be an individual. So the entire street decides that killing is a sport, no different from a video game. They are so removed from the rest of the world that ignorance is segregating them and crippling their future and it is based on the fictious war and who is up next to die?

Fredro Santana has created a niche for himself in his daily life of death warnings, and he will keep living in this world with a lackluster lyrics and that luciferin cross on his head, that child is the male Annabelle doll. Fredo Satan is in the same death trap community as Cheap Keith.

AGAIN,Why should you care, if you aren’t familiar with his music?

The media is comfortable not reporting every death in the Roseland community, but then again that would be a three hour news broadcast, every single night.. Sadly, when a black child murders another black child dies marches or protest, are not an option. If you think that I am exaggerating on the death toll and the evil in Chiraq, just read the statistics.

Look at one Chiraquian rapper shot on the street like an animal. I am showing this picture to educate the youth, this lost baby is in the gutter like he is trash and he wasn’t trash.

Where are their mothers and fathers?

GRAPHIC DEATH http://mediaanarchist.wordpress.com/2014/03/30/chicago-rapper-lil-marc-murdered-days-after-lil-reese-video-diss/

 

I dont care if it makes you mad, as long as it saves your life.

 

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