Classic***messymandella***Remembrance Of The Spiritual Life With Janet Jackson***messymandella***

         It is natural and you are expected to mourn deceased family members during the holiday seasons,due to accidental death or by the Lynch Mob       the corrupt police department, and we also don’t mind when we kill each other…

 

          However, in our society if you are single on Valentine’s Day, you are a failure according to the diamond companies, Hallmark and commercialism of Valentine’s Day.  If you do not receive  an abundance of materialistic presents on Christmas, then you may feel inclined to lie about everything you received. More gifts, means you have more loved? People assume that after a funeral that you are gone. In the casket, it is a shell of that person and even though you may not be able to hug or talk to them, they are not spiritually gone. Your spirit and energy doesn’t die, just the shell of your former self, you still have that person and you can feel when their is an indication that your loved one is still loving you, looking over and protecting you.

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        It was a story of a man that entered a home and was about to burglarize and assault a woman but he ran away. The police did eventually located the fleeing burglar, but asked him, “Why did you run?” He told the police,”Because of those two men standing behind her.” Later they asked the lady about the two men that were there and she was puzzled because she was by herself the entire day. NO ONE was there,or so she thought… 

        We don’t leave this world, and you can be confident in knowing what ever you believe about the spiritual world,realize people can share connections even if they never have met. If energy doesn’t die, and the spirit doesn’t die then your loved ones are still here in spirit. NO, not like a ghost town or anything like that, but a spirit that will give you strength when you feel you are alone.

         You can feel their energy hovering around you and just understand that you will behold their smile again and you will have a opportunity to hear them laugh again. They are fully aware of your bereavement, but they are no longer in anguish and unrest, we are the ones that suffer,now.     

             If the connection is that strong you know that their presence is not far behind you and you can feel their love around you. You may be devastated in this point of time, but their spirit is dancing in the moonlight, so just try to dry some of those tears and don’t hold on to blame, mistrust, or arguments that were never resolved. They are still here,even if you don’t recognize your loved ones presence they are still smiling back at you.

 

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emotional abuse and physical abuse: It Is not your fault!***messymandella***

Yes, a person that only fulfill their own needs claims to care but humiliates and lies to you, they don’t deserve you.

 

“What did I do wrong? “ 

It’s a game of evil controlling and abuse.

They have problems.

They want you to feel  pain.

That is emotional abuse.

  Some men and women withhold sex and emotions.

They will have sex with you for months,or admit to having sex with someone and throw it in your face and one day they will get mad without warning, like you did something wrong. 

You did nothing wrong.

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 Some abusers disappear and know they made plans with you. 

So, you tell people who you are friends or a couple… 

A friend does not break plans.

Your friend or partner thinks they are better than you.

They are trying to punish you mentality and you can’t let them do that to you.

 There are people who will fulfill your needs.

 Kick him or her to the curb, most men that hit women are weak, and can’t fight in real life!

Stop being nice to a person, that will flip on you and convince you that you deserve it.

They will never give you respect, and you will lose respect for yourself in the end and maybe your life.

Stop wasting your time.

That person will be horrible to you , and make up excuses like its your fault you are crying next week. Keep your tears.

 Get someone who will please you and take you places and not emotionally abuse you. 

Stop and look at yourself! If he has to beat you, he doesn’t need you.You deserve better

What are you waiting on?

Wait,are you hoping they will appreciate you? It will never happen and you will have to hide the pain and bruises.
Words and actions should show you love and not jealousy and hate!

I deserve love, because I show love and patience.

I am also not going to put up with weak minded bullshit.

You will be glad that you listened to ***messymandella***.

That person is not good enough to share a coffee cup with you.

Please don’t waste your time on someone that hurts your feelings and interaction to control you! Some men will even flirt with other girls in front of you. He knows it hurts but enjoys it, that is emotional abuse.You would never do that to him unless you are a sociopath.

You are so amazing, and no one deserves to hurt you and get away with it!

You have multiple qualities of love and beauty.

Find a friend or partner that will appreciate those qualities. Real men don’t want to hurt you they make you strong.

Listen and move on!

No names were used in this story!

If you feel some kind of way, that means you are doing someone dirty.

That means you do have a conscious!

YOU CAN’T DO BETTER UNTIL YOU KNOW BETTER!

 If something happens to that person you are treating this way, how will you live with that?

You will wear that guilt for the rest of your life!

 

 

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REVISTED: groupie mentality***messymandella***

We live in a world where you can get chose and purchased slavery?

You go out stand in a room, like a ghetto beauty pageant. You want to be chose, by someone who will not do anything but give you temporary gratification. I wrote this story in 2013. I was a strong woman then, and I am 15 times stronger now.

You can’t even think, that you worth a damn.It is sad now, people have sex but don’t kiss. When did sex become a business transaction that sold your self worth?People kiss their puppies in the mouth. People open up a bag of chips with their mouth, but won’t kiss you. That is degrading, and you are dumb as hell!

If someone won’t kiss you but will screw you, they think you are trash.

Actually, they think you walk on 4 legs and not 2.

You know you want more. Stand up for yourself ! 

 When you stop accepting dumb situations, only then, will it stop happening!

Speak Up For Yourself


Don’t

degrade

yourself,

just

to

be

chosen.

You make it harder for feminist women or any woman to stand strong!

Stop!

Close Your Legs until he or she,deserves you!

Pick up some loyalty and self worth!

Please, reevaluate your life!

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