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10 Reasons You Should Not Be A Side Chick!messymandella

1. You deserve more than a part-time person in your life, who is not helping you.

2. You get the crumbs of an unfaithful partner, that will not be faithful to anyone.

3. You waste your time hoping and praying and wishing for a sign of love, dummy.

4. You will be alone on every Holliday, including Columbus Day.

5. If you stop helping the coward cheat, maybe you would fine love and respect.

6. No one respects you, and most women and men can’t trust you around their lover.

7. Where the hell is your self-love and admiration?

8.Do you ever want to walk down the damn aisle, you don’t think 3 people walking down the aisle is a little bit crowded?

9. Where the hell is your damn conscious?

10. KARMA-and you deserve it, all of it for helping someone ruin someone elses life.

Stop making excuses for someone to be unfaithful.

If they lied and said they were single, tell them to kick rocks. I know, it will hurt like hell, but you will find love in the end. You have to be strong enough to walk away with your head up even in pain, maintain your dignity. They lied, and it is their loss. Do not alter your life into someone elses selfish circumstances. No one will ever have to live your life, but you. Can you really explain to your family why you get laid by someone in an committed relationship? I don’t give a damn how many excuses you come up with it! It is all lies, to keep your panties or boxers down. Mental Manipulation is the basis of any cheating lover. You should be so much better than that.
Stand Up For Yourself.

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May 28, 2013
Categories: Art, Beautiful And Intelligent, Fashion Swagger, GAME, Injustice, Self Respect . Tags: Aisle, Art, Arts, Billboard Music Award, Celebrity Juice, Cheater, Cheating, Child, Child support, Cincinnati, Cleveland, Columbus, Columbus Ohio, Committed relationship, Deadbeat parent, Dixie Chicks, God Forbid, holliday, Jennifer Nettles, Johnny Cash, Karma, Kelly Brook, Kelly Price, Kids (House), Kristian Bush, Mother Jones (magazine), New York City, Ohio, Rationalization (making excuses), Relationships, Rick Rubin, Self-love, Solo album, Sugarland, sugerland, Twitter, United States, WIC . Author: messymandella . Comments: Leave a Comment

The Truth Shall Set You Free, Dumb Ass!messymandella

There is no way you don’t know when you are being played.

Listen, I was once a dummy too!

I saw what I wanted to see, when the inconvenient Truth was just slapping me silly.

It made no sense to me.

I was alone,but in a relationship.

Yeah, that made me a dumb ass.

So, I composed a list of signs for future dummies, to see if you are already a dumb ass!

1. Do you always wait up to see IF he’s coming home?Unless he is on tour, to promote his album,that is crazy?Why he so tired, when he get home? You are a dumb ass.

2. Does he always seem to make eyes with his home boys , when they talk about what happened last night at the club,when you thought he was at his cousin’s house? D-u-m-m-y

3. When you meet people, are they surprised that he has a girlfriend?Dumb

4.Are you arguing with different girls over this guy(I have never been this dumb)?

5. No one is perfect, but are you always defending his sorry ass?

6. Do you feel like if you stand up for yourself, people will turn on you,even though he making you the dummy?????

7. Have you ever asked yourself, “Why I am so Stupid?” You getting close, dummy.

8. Does he have groupies? Unless he just signed a deal with Maybach Music…you just dumb!Dummy!

9.Have you been dating him for 10 years,and he has over 3 other kids while you have been in this relationship,that didn’t come out your cupcake bakery? You my friend, are a dummy!

10.Do you not have a ring on your finger, or live with him, but you been giving it up to him for over 7 years?Dummy

11. Do you always make excuses, every time you find a new addition to your family? Dummy!

12.There will always be scandalous hoes, who have no respect for relationships, are these women part of your man’s entourage?You said it ,Dummy.

13. You can’t recall one place that you have been together, that did not include drama,or an argument,and you were like a “deer in headlights?”

14. You are a dummy if you are reading this,and wondering”Is messymandella talking about me?”

15. Does he always have bad phone reception,or no charger…only on the weekend?

16. Does he leave you in the dark about upcoming trips, that he already has planned, paid a deposit on and reserved multiple rooms? This is just sad, dummy.

17. So because you love someone you will let them cheat, dog you out, disrespect you and treat you like a fool?

That is not love, you deserve more.

An awful thing has happened.

You let someone you respect, stop respecting you.

You will be gray-haired and old and still being the “Neighborhood Dummy.”

At least print t-shirts and hoodies, Dumb Ass.

Yeah, well you are a dumb ass,and you know it!

You just choose to play dumb!

So see what you want to see, but know in the end you are in denial.

Oh yeah, The Truth Shall Set You Free-Dumb Ass!

: Joy Denalane=Let Go

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May 14, 2013
Categories: Art, Beautiful And Intelligent, Fashion Swagger, HairSpiration, Injustice, Music and What Not, Pure Comedy, Self Respect . Tags: Advice, Can you not see the ending..., Dating, Desperate Housewives, Dog, friends help friends that are dummies, Humor, JavaScript, Joy Denalane, Love, loyalty, Maybach, motivation, Recreation, Relationships, respect, Self-Help, United States, what can he or she offer you?, Who the hell are you sweating and why?, why are you killing your brand, why are you playing yourself for my entertainment . Author: messymandella . Comments: Leave a Comment

Sky Ferreira Vs Alexander O’neal and Cherrelle messymandella

If you pin back your ears, you hear reminiscent hooks that make you feel like smiling, kissing , and laughing.

Sometimes, it could be something your mom and dad played at a cookout 10 years ago.

You can remember that moment, your uncle who is now dead, say, “Turn that up, that’s my song.”

The music the laughter and him and my aunt “thinking” all that cartwheeling was dancing, can bring you to that happy place.

When I first heard this song by Sky Ferreira it reminded me of my family dancing to Alexander Oneal outside, at our Southern Cookouts.

You have to got to love that distinguished 80′s and 1990′s feel good vibe.

I surmise that the 80′, and 90′s sound is what made “Adorn” by Miguel and “Love On Top” by Beyonce HIts.

Those hits , earned them prominent places on the Billboard Charts.

Check out Sky!

After you listen to Sky Ferreira bring your parents,and aunts and uncles in the room.

Let them enjoy the second song, you will too!

Ignore the roaches stomping that they call dancing.

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April 7, 2013
Categories: Music and What Not . Tags: Adorn, Alexander O'Neal, Alicia Keys, Beyonce, Billboard Charts, Brooklyn, Eminem, Forever 21, J. Cole, London, Los Angeles, Love On Top, Michael Jackson, Miguel, New Year, Nicki Minaj, Recreation, Relationships, Sky Ferreira, Sydney, Tina Turner, United States . Author: messymandella . Comments: Leave a Comment

I Was Molested messymandella

I am doing well, right now. Things have been crazy this year. I know I am suppose to keep growing but I have been keeping a secret. Telling you this now, its hard trying to be strong.Sometimes feels like the people that you show love to have other plans behind your back. The life I live has changed me forever. I have told people that I had something terrible happen in my child hood. I was molested when I was 5 years old. I was told by my older cousin that if I said anything he would kill my family and it would be my fault, and he put the gun to my head. I still have nightmares about the hurt. So its so hard for me to trust people at times. I have lived a life of pain, and betrayal. When I trust someone and they lie, or go behind my back it makes me feel like that 5 year old girl in the bathroom. That little girl that has often wondered, maybe I have done something wrong? I have witnessed my best friends baby die, as her jump rope got caught on a nail and twisted around the neck. I have learned that people will always show their true colors.

Some people make you feel like you are nothing. They just lie, and show no loyalty. I am hurt, that one person in my life, is gone. We were so close. I have always felt that if you are a friend, you make sure that person appreciates and shows you love. When someone questions your friendship, they were never your friend. Some people will hurt you and laugh behind your back. I never worry about revenge. Karma is real.Hate in your heart only consumes you. Why is messymandella telling you this? Everyone should know your story, and how you survived. It took time for me to realize that being molested wasn’t my fault. If someone chills, laughs, and then question your love or friendship then you don’t truly have a friend. Some people get stuck in situations because of their ability to deceive you only to let you down. That is why this song is speaking to me right now. I know people change for the worst. If you have a friend that has changed for the worst, be truthful. NO ONE SHOULD TREAT YOU LIKE YOU ARE NOTHING. When someone hurts me I turn into that crying little girl. I will never respect people that hurt me , and accuse me of something. I have so many wonderful people in my life. You should never blame yourself, when people hurt you. As the terrific things start to happen, you will find out who you are around.

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March 17, 2013
Categories: Music and What Not . Tags: Arts and Entertainment, Beautiful Eyes, creativity, E-mail, entertainment, Feminist movement, Friendship, Hollywood, Look At Me Now, Meek Mill, Person, Rapping, Relationships, Romance . Author: messymandella . Comments: Leave a Comment

The Dumb And Beautiful Edition =Karreuche Tran

I have mispronounced this girl’s name so many times.

I hope she forgives me for calling her KalareadyDropped.

Katchemanklenum was one of my favorites.

Kazakazan Tran-Kazablanca Tran-Kurriculum Tran(Kid Fury Original)

You are a gorgeous girl, but a dummy.

I was confused because I kept seeing that http://www.Thekill.com was going to be launched on 12-12-2012.

Did The Kill die?

I love that people will spend money on “Hanes Her Way”, with 7 letters on top. If they like it, I love it.

You better make that money, because this is not going to last forever.

Girl, you better get some benefits and severance and vacation checks immediately!

You will get tired of being a dummy….

We all do!

Here is the video from KantcatchaClue Tran.

December 18, 2012
Categories: Art, Fashion Swagger, HairSpiration, Music and What Not, Pure Comedy, Self Respect . Tags: Arts and Entertainment, Bad Girl, Beautiful Eyes, Beautiful People, Breezy, Chris Brown, creativity, entertainment, Fashion For Dummies, Girl, Hanes, he gets the best of both worlds, HollywoodLife.com, just dumb for someone who doesn't appreciate you, KantcatchaClue Tran, Katchemanklenum, living in a dense fog, Living your life as a concubine, Look At Me Now, Paris, Relationships, Rihanna, Staying Strong while being played like a fiddle, too beautiful to be shamed in the public eye, Twitter . Author: messymandella . Comments: 1 Comment

Darling I =Vanessa Williams

I love change, and flourishing. Don’t make love resolutions, they will disappear before Valentine’s Day. Just remember mistakes. Don’t ever let anyone tell the world, how you failed in your relationship. No one will ever know what happened behind closed doors. People thrive on failure. Maybe too many people in your relationship,was the reason your relationship disintegrated? Don’t explain your past? Grow, and call a truce. When you have resentment and anger, it only hurts you. No one can change the past! Look to life,and don’t call it a “New Years Resolution”; call it “Life’s Resolution!”

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December 17, 2012
Categories: Art, Beautiful And Intelligent, Fashion Swagger, HairSpiration, Music and What Not, Self Respect . Tags: Actress, American Broadcasting Company, Arts and Entertainment, Bad Girl, Beautiful Eyes, Beautiful People, Big Beautiful Eyes, Confidence, Desperate Housewives, Entertaining, Feminist movement, Holiday, Holidays, Hollywood, Home, Keep thriving, learn from your mistakes, Look At Me Now, New Year's resolution, No one can break you, Opinions, Park Avenue, Relationships, Sista, Stay away from misery, Ugly Betty, United States, Valentine, valentines day, Vanessa L. Williams, women that are making a difference, Your life and you . Author: messymandella . Comments: Leave a Comment

Should You Worry About Someone That Thinks You Are Not As Important, As They Are?

I have always wondered why people say”I don’t have friends,or there is no such thing as a friend.” I totally disagree with those statements. The only people who say those statements are people who don’t know how to be friends. They don’t have the time and patience. How much patience should you have? A friend that wants to have you in their life takes time to speak, or stop by just to say “Hello.”

When someone wants you in their life, it is not a one-sided thing. They can call and text you to show they care. In fact, I return all my calls and text. I believe if someone takes the time to call or text ,you can text back. I explained to my friend, unless he is a Snob, or lost at sea, he should at least say something?I asked her why try to be his friend? He obviously doesn’t think that much of you?

You should know that everyone has been through that situation.If someone thinks they are too important to say something to you, its childish and inconsiderate.”Leave It Alone! Everyone is not going to like you, and you should not want to associate with anyone that makes you feel like that.”

I asked her would she treat the snob the way she treats him? She said, “Hell No!” She had her answer in front of her.

Don’t care if it is family or a Sex Supplier! Give them a taste of their own medicine.You can’t have hate in your heart, because a Snob doesn’t care,and it will only poison you. When you see them , let them kiss your Big Juicy Booty!

Thank God, for the people who love you and appreciate you. If a person thinks he or she is too busy, they are not,it’s about control. They are messing with you just for the hell of it,that shows the person that they are, not you. You better off without a fickle person in your life. Do you really want some one in your life, that smiles when you see them, but won’t check on you, or be there for you ?

HELL NO! Tell them to kick rocks! Who really needs a person that will only talk to you, when it is only good for them! Once again, if you feeling some kind of way after reading this, then maybe you or someone you know needs to stop acting so idiotic.This is intended for friendships or relationships.Men or Women. Act Right!

“Ain’t Nobody Got Time For Dat!” Sweet Brown will let you know what’s real in the field. http://youtu.be/QHaVc5i-Dzs

Disclaimer: One of my close senorita’s just asked was I talking about someone. It’s not about you Chocolate. We Homies!

July 25, 2012
Categories: Beautiful And Intelligent, Injustice, Self Respect . Tags: Ain't nobody got time for dat?, Friendship, God Forbid You Would Act Like Some Canine Sense, Hell No!, Humor, Its power in those rolling hips, Leave It, Meow Later, Not Many F@#cks Certification Training, Relationships, Services, Sexuality, Snob, Sweet Brown, United States . Author: messymandella . Comments: Leave a Comment

The Truth Shall Set You Free=Dumb Ass

There is no way you don’t know when you are being played. Listen, I was once a dummy too! I saw what I wanted to see, when the inconvenient Truth was just slapping me silly.It made no sense, I was alone,but in a relationship.Yeah,that made me a dumb ass. So, I composed a list of signs for future dummies, to see if you are already a dumb ass!