Suicide Prevention! Signs That Someone Is Contemplating Suicide! ***messymandella*** NEW: Natasha Bedingfield

Suicide, leaves many unanswered questions!
Why did the person give up?
What could I have done?
Will that person go to Heaven or Hell?
Who pushed them to the edge?
 
Environmental Factors That Increase Suicide Risk
 
“Some people who have one or more of the major risk factors above can become suicidal in the face of factors in their environment, such as:
A highly stressful life event such as losing someone close, financial loss, or trouble with the law
Prolonged stress due to adversities such as unemployment, serious relationship conflict, harassment or bullying
Exposure to another person’s suicide, or to graphic or sensationalized accounts of suicide (contagion)
Access to lethal methods of suicide during a time of increased risk

 
Again, though, it is important to remember that these factors do not usually increase suicide risk for people who are not already vulnerable because of a preexisting mental disorder or other major risk factors. Exposure to extreme or prolonged environmental stress, however, can lead to depression, anxiety, and other disorders that in turn, can increase risk for suicide.”
 
http://www.afsp.org/preventing-suicide/risk-factors-and-warning-signs

 

 

 
 
 
 
 

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Determing Your Own Karma!***messymandella***


 
Once the mask is removed you wish that person was the person you assumed to be, and you would do anything for them could be someone else.

It is a nightmare and a dishonesty that shatters your entire perception.

Everyone has to guide themselves through the mess but running, it is  mean, and it  is hard to believe it is true.

When you are obsessed with materialistic items over spiritual elements your selfishness is

Revealed in an excruciating and dramatic curtain call.

 

Does that make you an evil person?

No, but you are aware of your actions…

Do

What

Is

right!

If you feel horrible about  manipulating someone and being greedy, admit it but don’t just run away from anyone in general that trusted you.

 

Some will never have enough money, but little boys and girls run and hide from  the devastating truth.

 

Your karma is no match for any piece of jewelry or amount of financial existence.

 

You don’t put that Karma out there and once again run and hide while she suffers in

 

Silence.

 

It takes more self-respect to make a statement and admit you were wrong. The woman in this story is not me, but I know he was wrong, and it hurts to watch someone you know enjoying  gaining monetary satisfaction by conniving his way into someone’s pockets, but never face the consequences or even apologize for hurting her.

 

I was heartbroken recently to notice someone who I assumed was an amazing, but sarcastic person played with someone’s heart and used them, with no recourse or emotions.

Until, I had to face the facts that some people just don’t have that guilty feeling no matter what happens, money can fix it,or so they think.

He did not have to be with her, but he could have paid her back.

 

As an adult, you have to ask yourself, why would anyone assume that they could hurt and destroy people with no recourse?

I wanted to believe it couldn’t be true…

Now, he can’t run from her anymore, he needs to do what any Grown man would do, own up to his mistake and apologize for his

Behavior.

As long as you have that evil Karma  out there, you continue to  push your self to the brink of destruction.

Make it right, I laugh to keep from getting upset…MUSIC

 

He will always be arrested, fighting or living that Savage life, but you can be too damn old for games,and it is time to look at the “Man In The Mirror” and stop running.

 

 

 

End Mental And Physical Abuse***messymandella***

 

One minute fine, next unprovoked arguments, flirting in front of you, yes, all of these things are mental abuse.

That smile will light you up, then unexplained insults are thrown at you and calculated evil are used to break you down.

It is not your fault, it is the abuser reversing the blame.

They rope you in to build you up and then again to tear you down.

Find a friend or partner that will appreciate your positive qualities.

Real men don’t want to hurt you, they strive to make you strong.

Never apologize because they cheated.

They will reverse their behavior on you.

Again, mental abuse…

You have to speak up.You should never be treated like a dog, when you were not wrong.

An Emotional abusive person will never apologize.

In fact they will flirt with more people and get an attitude with you.

This is a game for them and there ego.

People do not disrespect loyalty, if it is real.

Pathetic people will never apologize.

No one should wonder if he is going to flirt in front of you or embarrass you today?

Yes, if they are purposely hurting you that is abuse. Your needs and love will be ridiculed to belittle you.

This is a treacherous but manipulative way to destroy you for no reason,but to give them power. The emotional abused will eventually go out of their way to please the abuser, even if they have not done anything wrong.

They have to hurt you…

Find someone that has respect, all the time. No one needs negativity.
 

Inspiration From ***messymandella***

 

Find yourself and never forget those that kept you inside of their heart, through your biggest disappointments.

Don’t stress yourself out about close minded people who are afraid to show their artistic side.

You just have to live, and strive survive, and forgive those that hurt you.

Love the ones that stick by you.

If you have your thoughts are on a person everyday, they have already inspired you.

Keep them in your life,because they will continue to build you up!

Even if the money and materialistic items disappear,They will still be there.

Dream and Do and “Shine Your Light!”

If you lay under your covers scared of the world, that is your fault, and you are handicapping your abilities.

Nothing comes from just dreaming or hiding! Admit when you care and demonstrate your true self to impress others.

Be You!

Keep Growing And Pushing and prove those stereotypes, and sexual degrading thoughts of women, and racialism issues of yesteryear.

I appreciate you supporting you for linking and loving me,and enjoying me!

It means so much to me, that you except me …for me

With my messy ass….

 

 

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