WOMEN SUFFERING FROM DOMESTIC ABUSE
“Why would he do it?”
“Did I deserve it?”
“Can it really change?”
“Maybe, I should stop bothering him?”
“I am stressing him out, I should have let him talk.”
MEN ALSO FACE DOMESTIC ABUSE
“She only hits me when I come in late and I refuse to leave my babies.”
“I can’t hit her back, no matter what but now our baby crying.”
“I can’t hit her, if I do I will get arrested. I will just leave…”
It was a cook out at a family event and one of my abusive cousin can not keep his hands to himself.
Now, he ALWAYS get his ass kicked by men.
He has NEVER won a fight, unless it was against his wife.
I am embarrassed he is my family, but we can not choose our blood lines.
This man (I use that title lightly) can preach and recite every bible verse ever written.
My Two Faced cousin is on the church choir but that is not the real him.
He is proof that just because you can recite every bible verse,it still doesn’t make you a Christian.
We were at a family cook out and he started drinking.
We knew what would happen, we just felt it.
His Step daughter is a teenager that stays at home on the weekends just to help the mom, if my cousin decides to beat her mother up.
This teenage girl can’t live her life, because she is afraid that if she goes away, that may be the day he kills her mom.
Why is he not arrested?
She believes if he goes to jail, she can’t survive on just her check, so she hopes and prays that he WON’T get too drunk, but he does. In her mind, she blames the liquor and herself but never him.
He emotionally abuses his wife by leaving on Friday, not answering his phone, and walking through the door Saturday evening.
She is too scared to ask who he was with, for the fear of getting slammed across the room. Shameful.
Let’s go back to the cookout incident that changed everything.
We noticed him over there with her while they were wrapping up plates to take home.
We noticed her look of a scolded child, as he starts to yell at her.
Out of the blue he spits in her face.
She tries to get away but he grabs her by her hair and he punches her to the ground.
He kept pushing her head down, every time she tried to get up.
We ran over to PROTECT her!
She looks at us with blood coming out of her mouth, and while everyone EVEN HIS SISTERS were on her side, She looks at us with all that blood, and says “Don’t hurt him, you will make it worse, stop hitting my husband.”
WE looked at her like, really?
She repeated, “Don’t hurt my husband.”
My cousin knew not to hit us, but ever since that day, I understood the brainwashed mentality of women like Janay.
My cousin’s wife was in pain and still defending the person that was administering the pain.He was beating her she was nothing, and she believed it was her fault.
By the time my guy cousins and family ran around to beat the breaks off his drunk abusive butt, she screamed, “GET OFF MY HUSBAND” after he beat HER down.
My cousin, looks at his battered wife and says, ” lets go home. “
Once they were in the car, she was apologizing.
I am not surprised at Ray Rice’s wife for being more protective of her husband even though he spit on her and dropped her like that in the elevator.
She is upset that her husband, who beat her like a runaway slave, is getting bad publicity.
When it comes to abuse, sometimes those beatings make you feel you deserve it.
YOU DON”T DESERVE IT!
Ray Rice was wrong and that was a criminal act but instead of her being angry he whooped her ass, Janay is more angry someone found out…