Our Culture Needs To Ease Up On Lil Mama! ***messymandella***


We must stop attempting to make excuses for how horrible the urban media treats this poor girl,Lil Mama. I have previously made comments, but imagine if you were being called ugly and talentless in front of millions of people? No woman deserves that torture and humiliation. When does the line disappear between being satirical and just plain horrendously evil? I witnessed that look of embarrassment in shame, and felt guilty and horrible during that interview. As a woman, I felt her pain, and would not be able to even continue with this interview. I am a fan of Charlemagne The God, but this is a young lady that he is calling ugly and insulting was tasteless. It is so easy to jump on the bandwagon, but it takes a courageous person to admit, this was dead wrong.

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Lin Que “Let It Fall” [HD] ***messymandella***

 

Ciara Dumps Future Because He Can’t Keep His Peni$ To Himself***messymandella***

       Ciara leaves fiancé Future after he was caught having a secret affair with a home wrecker also known as a stripper. Men and women are so weak, and they will eventually destroy the lives of their families and loved ones for something not worth a damn. We witnessed Robin Thicke as he cheated, lied and then he stalked poor Paula Patton.

      Anything can make them jeopardize their livelihood for a hood rat,of any color. You would think that men would be providers and want to spend time with their children. As long as they make legs so easy to spread, we will be a lost generation of single family homes.

         Now Ciara will be just be one of his baby mama’s, and that aint no privilege. That is a derogatory term for women who will never get a ring on their finger,unless it is an onion ring. Most women that eventually get  married in urban communities,are not married to the man they conceived their first  child with but a step father that decides to have heart and guide that child while father is out of the household,because he stays in the strip club, or doing whore activities in general.

       The man who occasionally stops by during the week to visit  his child ain’t your man, sorry but he is not your man.

So, one of the prettiest celebrities in the game, Level just plummeted, thanks to Future that looks exactly like Sam The Eagle.

Men don’t have a clue, what cheating does to our family structure,and how it devastates the children of our community as a hold, children learn by example. 

In the long run, the kids miss out on the experience because mommy and daddy could not stay out the club, looking for meaningless sex. 

Just like oh Sam The Eagle here,  to ruin their happy home just to sleep with a woman who if she had love, wouldn’t be shaking her ass for change, and sleeping with someone’s man.

 A man does not go to the Strip Club to check out library books, or find the next Maya Angelou for a Poetry Contest.

Be for real, I am just saying.

I  have a theory too, if he has friends that need Rabies shots and Pet Advantage, it makes it difficult for him to enjoy a meaningful time with someone,cause like little boys they have to outdog each other.

Instead that man spends time,sleeping with Birds, and may come back home with SARS or The Bird Flu.

Thanks Future, for proving to the world the stereotype that are men ain’t hitting on  $hit.just   a valid observation. If you can’t keep your tent pole to yourself,realize your weakness but man up.

It is not all men.

Some women act like they have crotch coupons too.

So, keep your peni$ to yourself!

Obscure Soul: Incomplete By Sisquo -Dru Hill***messymandella***

 

NEW:Alice Russell -To Dust***messymandella***

They will hold you down, but when that light gets brighter they will drag you down.

Don’t ever think that your artistic spirit, and talent should be hidden.

Think about the people in your life that aren’t trying to use your for money, fame, or shelter.

Those are the human interactions that feed into the positive energy!

Alice Russell one of the best singers, you have never heard.

Hands Down, unsung talent that you are missing.

She has of course received favorable reviews, for her soulful voice.

Listen, and you will agree.

Update: Dead Beat Dad, Still A Sorry Pappy!***messymandella***DJ Akademiks-Vid

 

If you are familiar with my work as ***messymandella***

you know Biggie Smalls left us with the Crack Commandments.

I am leaving you with the Dead Beats Mom And Dad’s List.

This buffoonery shames all women and men. Where are the school teachers, and life coaches? This turns me away from the system.We have women and men believe the government is required to take care of their children,grandchildren,and great grandchildre.It burns like ether sliding down when I hear that someone on Medicaid spends all day lying on her back. I don’t think that any woman or man should think this is why so many marched.They did not march for fathers to spend every other night in the club,while their babies are glad just to get a phone call.

Take all those clothes and empty excuses back, and pay for your children to go to the doctor, if you have a FENDI or GUCCI Bag. Spend that on your child. I can’t understand how a parent can hold Their head up with pride without provisions for their family? I understand why we have so many stereotypes, and unfairly encounter racism. We can thank the John Mccroy’s for that mess. I am not a ratchet and you shouldn’t be one either.
It takes more to build any community, but whoever we know that is receiving government assistance, should NOT be bragging about how they are living it up.

Dead Beat Dad's That Pose With Cash Instead Of Their Babies! What Is More Important? Government Assistance or Impressing Future Prison Trustees!

Dead Beat Dad’s That Pose With Cash Instead Of Their Babies! What Is More Important? Government Assistance or Impressing Future Prison Trustees!

We have to do better! Make birds fly to a Job Fair, and stop leading their children into a generation of sorry broads and men that can not provide for themselves. I come from strong women and men. Your ancestors wanted to have their own, and now some of us are lazy as hell. Your parents risked their life, but they needed to provide for their family, when dads actually stayed in the household…
Listen women and men, when you act like this you are giving people like Sean Hannity and Don Imus, extra material to cover on their radio shows. I love clothes an jewerly and fashion is a significant part of my site. NO materialistic items,will ever come before my child. Nothing is more important than your legacy. What kind of legacy will you leave?
 

 
SIGNS YOU ARE A DEAD BEAT DAD OR MOM

1.You never see your child unless you go to your mother’s house.

2. You are running from your child support payments

3. Your mom and dad have to negotiate visitation AKA baby mama drop offs.

4. You leave your child with someone to get high,and come back 2 days later.

5.You leave when your kids are sleep and leave the EBT Card on the table.

6. The entire world sees you,but never your kids.

7. You wear shades and $900.00 outfits but have not paid child support.

8.You are so selfish, that you will NOT work,because all your money will be garnished by the government. God Forbid, you would put money into the welfare of your kids.

9.Your family actually makes excuses for you being a deadbeat, while you get other chicks pregnant or find new baby daddy that is not paying for the children he already procreate.

10. You have never met any of your children’s teachers.

11. DSS has been to your house at least twice.You cry,and pretend to be a parent and haul ass when DSS leaves.

12.You old as hell, and still think going to club comes before paying for your children’s everyday expenses.

13. Everybody ALWAYS ask where your kids at…

14. You wake up hung over and you haven’t seen kids in 2 days, and don’t give a damn.

15. You can’t think of one reason to spend the weekend with your child.

16. Your children are happy if you come home.

17. You spend all your money smoking and getting drunk, but go and beg for help at your local shelter. Sorry Asses

18. You get mad when people want you to better yourself,or help your child.

19. You don’t care that you are neglecting your own seed.

20.If you see that this story is about T-Boz,and other moms and dads but if you feel “some kind of way”,you or someone in your life is a dead beat!

 
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Chiraquian Sounding Bobby Shmurda From FlatBush…***messymandella***

 
NYC’s latest buzz is a rap collective out of Brooklyn who call themselves GS9, and to be exact, they’re from East Flatbush. One of the group’s leader, Bobby Shmurda has already hit over 700k views since March from his breakout single “Hot N*gga”

Mixtape Tracks
1.SHYSTE TIME
2.SHMONEY DANCE
3.HOTT NIGGA
4.COMPUTERS
5.MY BLOCK HOT
6.CAN’T FORGET ABOUT HOT
7.I LOVE MY SQUAD
8.ONE CHANCE 
9.TRUST ME
10.ZOE GOD

 

I Love Being Played***messymandella***

I love  waiting by the phone…

I love to act like there is a reason,you are unreachable…

I love to let you dip in and out,whenever…

I love to play stupid…

I love to be ok being part of a hoe collective…

I love you ignoring me, when ever you want…

I love how  you give excuses,the next day…

AIN’T NO WAY IN HELL!

If you co-sign any of this, get ready to be a dummy!

“A player only loves you when he’s playing…

Girlfriend, I hope you listening to what I am saying

How you gonna stop him from betraying, can’t teach an old dog new tricks you know!”

Joy Denalane–Preaching The Gossip!

My women and men take heed.

Some people are so full of themselves, they  assume you haven’t figured them out.

After they text  or call you back with guilt, keep it moving.

If reading this makes you feel any kind of way…do better.

Treat that person better, apologize!

What am I thinking? A player never apologizes!

That is why I act like I believe them.

When you have someone special in your life, you feel FREE!

You are happy and nothing can get in the way of that feeling.

When you deal with a liar, muckery is the key.

Let them think they have won!

 Once they are convinced that  I have fell for their Lyingnesia I just do this…

Snarky Puppy feat. Lalah Hathaway – Something***messymandella***

 

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