***messymandella***Barely Seen Often Read, Peaks Out To Say Thanks!

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Men and women should surround themselves with people that want to build mentally and physically.

When you surround yourself with haters and insecurity, you will be miserable and insecure and hateful.

If you are mortified about what you are doing in life, do something else.

You can be the master of your own failures, but don’t contradict yourself.

You don’t have to look at me to understand my thoughts and ideas.

However, I do exist…

We have all been up against the wall and kept our heads high, and  we will reap our benefits in time.

Be patient and happy with you, I am !

Shake That Evil off of you and celebrate Life!

Hope and faith, and loyalty creates a recipe of progress, and leaves us all connected.

My readers and my friends who help tell someone elses biography are witnesses to the power of redemption.

These stories sustain me, and that motivates me to do more for culture and it is  the reason I know life has more in store for me.

So many opportunities, and so many exceptional things are destined for you!

You have to stay guided and confident, and giving.

Don’t let negative emotions get involved with your struggle.

Love the men that surround you and let them know you believe in them, but will speak up against the misogynist acts of women.

“You will never see me coming, but you will know when I get there!”- ***messymandella***

Now, back to being Incognito….

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LGBT: Love Don’t Need A Reason!***messymandella*** We Are Family!

No one wanted to discuss Civil Rights in the Segregated South!

We have to stand up and stop judging and start loving.

Do you know how mant LGBT youth committ suicide?

They are so afraid of the judgement, and shame they suffer in silence.

We as a generation must extend love and understanding.

It is ok for a Straight man, and a gay man to just be friends.

So many men worry about their manhood, that they become bigots.

Yes, other races can become bigots.

You can have a gay friend, and not be gay.

Women have Lesbian friends, that are NOT lesbians.

We create our own prejudice.

This is only the beginning.

I am a visionary that knows whole heartedly that you can accept people.

Love doesn’t need a reason and if  you look at some of the homophobic and racist comments on Youtube you will see WE still have many rivers to cross…

NSFW : Antoine Dodson Joins A Cult & Assumes You Should Lysol The Gay Away! ***messymandella***

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        Umm YeahAntoine Dodson who became a reality star now wants a wife.  Antoine advised his family and community to “Hide Your wife, hide your kids! They raping everybody”  and became a YouTube sensation. Now  he ASSUMES that you can  stop being a homosexual.

      Unless Mr. Dawson has a magical genie, he is full of insanity and pure lack of self. You can not turn on and turn off the gay switch. You will always be gay! You just stopped having physical interaction, but you can’t turn off physical attraction. You still are attracted to big strapping men. You still have a visual perception of what you want at any time. Now you are planning a family, and that is a beautiful thing but be truthful.

         Why should we care? That sends the idea to youth that something is wrong with their orientation, and they are not people of God. People have to come out, like it is unveiling of themselves because they are embarrassed and fearful  to acknowledge same-sex attraction. Why is it an embarrassing? How can we pick and choose what sins are the worst.
        The Bible, written forever  and a day ago,  followed all laws  completely but man has changed and remixed the Bible to profit them and their religious denomination. The Bible condones many things, but being ashamed of  being gay is the same as being ashamed of being black or a woman. You will be gay today, tomorrow, leap year and on Chinese holidays.

 

         Congratulations on becoming a Hebrew Israelites, they hate women,  gays,  and white folks. You are joining a swell organization that curses out people on the street, that also creates their own Bible books. They promote unity too. Yep they are unified to bully, laugh, and mock  everyone that has a brain. Black Hebrew Israelites seem to be the only people to validate their own reasons of segregation and gay bashing. They also have segments on how women should remember to Hold Their tounge, because we are not smart enough to make decisions.  I can’t wait to see Antoine Dodson in his religious smock/ dashiki. Oh, as you watch the video below, you will notice that the Hebrew Israelites dress just like the Last Dragon…dragon-25

Skip video to 1:35 unless you want to hear a singing a nightmare.

Gay Men In The Civil Rights Movement(Anti-Defamation)***messymandella***

          Will You Rise?

 What is your inclination?

Are you a warrior?

Be Who You Are!

Will You fight with me, will you rise?

What can you  make out of the life that you are given?

They will burn you at the stake?

Will you fight for change?

Stand Up and live, you were born this way! 

Would you risk it all?

 Would you end mental segregation?

Are your values and moral code the most important part of your life?

Will you fight for your privacy and life?

What if Matthew Shepard made it out alive that night?

What if James Byrd’s chain popped,and he lived?

What if Mark David Chapman‘s gun jammed, when he murderd John Lennon?

What if Harvey Milk would be able to mentor his own school for LGBT Youth?

It’s my decision to live like I am dying.

I will sing, dance, and keep waiting for the ruination of intolerance.

Will you WAIT for  justice and equality?

Hell no,  you make it happen!

 

Christianity And Misdirection: Disassociation Of Gays And *AIDS*Victims-***messymandella***God Does Not Hate!

I can’t change, even If I wanted to…
I am not crying on Sunday
I grew up in a religion that condemns you for being homosexual
I hated watching people have to leave home because of being gay,transsexual,or a lesbian
I wonder why God didn’t love them?
I wanted to go up and hug them as a little girl,but I couldn’t
I had a friend that was a gay man, that would give me candy and hugs
I am writing this for you!
I watched as we turned you away from God
I saw you get AIDS, when the epidemic finally reached us
I remember you telling me you couldn’t talk to me,
I cried at the outside of that Kingdom Hall, and asked you why?
I can recall hugging you and your long fingernails as you telling me bye
I didn’t understand why you didn’t try to come back to our congregation,
I asked where you were and I was told you were in the hospital, alone
I can recall crying when they said you died from AIDS,
I cried,when as a little girl it hurt me, that only your mom came to your death-bed,
I got a whipping that night because I said at 7 years old “That is mean and stupid,”
I will never forget you and I will never let anyone die alone,
I miss you and you died over 30 years ago, and you were my friend,
I know you would be proud of me, and surprised that you had an impact on my life,
I will always make jokes about LGBT issues,but that hides the pain of your last days
I am so sorry, I never said Good-bye
I know you would be proud that currently AIDS victims have support
I am old enough to know I was 100% right then
I know you died before making it to your 30th Birthday
I think that God loves you, and I hate that no one was around to tell you!
I will not forget you, and you sleep in peace knowing that at 7- years old I knew how to be a real friend…thank you!

 

“I Won’t Cry On Sunday!”

Should You Come Out The Closet? Maybe I Did!***messymandella***

Cover of "Paris Is Burning"

Cover of Paris Is Burning

          Do celebrities have  to admit that they are homosexual and bisexual? Why does it matter so much? I have always wondered why  we get fulfilment when someone does admit they may stray from heterosexuality?

       I don’t care if they get it on with a wall or a plunger!

      Don’t get me wrong, there is that “I Knew It!” moment. Does that mean I am going to buy fewer albums, or watch less movies from that artist?

I ate toast this morning. Will that change anything in your life? Yeah, didn’t think so!

You have to understand it really ain’t nobody’s business.

     Some people love to force people out of the closet, but those people I am sure have their own skeletons. You know you do!

         Unless you are a biased bastard from Fox News, it absolutely is irrelevant, what you prefer sexually.  Be queer and full of cheer. You can be happy and fart  pixie  dust all through the streets.

Jodie Foster, I knew you were a lesbian in Silence Of The Lambs(I  have eyes and ears)!

Anderson Cooper, I would love to take you out and buy some clogs, and a replica of Liberace Candelabra!

Lady Gaga, I would enjoy going on a bus trip with you, to find some of your sanity!

RuPaul , we would  have a “Wigstock -Paris is Burning Luncheon!”

Who cares who you love?

The worst disappointment would not being able to love at all!

Go ahead and start whispering and wondering why I played this video!

 

 

      No matter what, it should not change any aspect of your being.

Never hide behind love.

There is nothing you should be ashamed of when your heart is involved.

Don’t let anyone dictate your actions, and destroy your heart.

Now that you are happy, don’t let someone take that happiness away.

No one should have to stop caring,  for anyone.

Gay Guys Thoughts While Grocery Shopping***messymandella***

This might be why I love My Twitter Illegitmate Cousins, and their flair for the Fluffery Of It All.

This arrived in my mentions, and I needed a laugh.

Yes, LGBT do our dying day.

Is that the set you claiming?

This video follows every stereotype, thought, and assumption of straight people that don’t know a gay person.

Today, I asked for  a laugh, it is my testimony that I was delivered!

This Sista right here is the wind beneath my wings.

You better work that shopping cart, Girl!  

Hey Frank Ocean, he is so pretty.

Frank, I am sure he would swim in your ocean…

 

 

Do You Feel Obligated To Come Out?

          Do celebrities have  to admit that they are homosexual and bisexual? Why does it matter so much? I have always wondered why  we get fulfilment when someone does admit they may stray from heterosexuality?

       I don’t care if they get it on with a wall or a plunger!

      Don’t get me wrong, there is that “I Knew It!” moment. Does that mean I am going to buy fewer albums, or watch less movies from that artist?

I ate toast this morning. Will that change anything in your life? Yeah, didn’t think so!

You have to understand it really ain’t nobody’s business.

     Some people love to force people out of the closet, but those people I am sure have their own skeletons. You know you do!

         Unless you are a biased bastard from Fox News, it absolutely is irrelevant, what you prefer sexually.  Be queer and full of cheer. You can be happy and fart  pixie  dust all through the streets.

Jodie Foster, I knew you were a lesbian in Silence Of The Lambs(I  have eyes and ears)!

Anderson Cooper, I would love to take you out and buy some clogs, and a replica of Liberace Candelabra!

Lady Gaga, I would enjoy going on a bus trip with you, to find some of your sanity!

RuPaul , we would  have a “Wigstock -Paris is Burning Luncheon!”

Who cares who you love?

The worst disappointment would not being able to love at all!

 Go ahead and start whispering and wondering why I played this video .

 

 

      No matter what, it should not change any aspect of your being.

 

 

 

The Murder Of Sakia Latonia Gunn(May 26, 1987-May 11, 2003)

Sakia Gunn, lost her  life lost through hate and prejudice.sakia in a dress

            Sakia Gunn, was a daughter, and a woman who lived her life honestly and openly. Sakia, never wanted to be anyone but her true self. Some of us should question our own teachings, and hatred toward anyone that lives their life openly. Sakia never made it to  her Sweet 16 Birthday.. Never had a chance to fight for her cause.  She had two strikes against her,being black and being a lesbian. Sakia, an openly gay and black really would fight many battles. sakia-and-mom

         Sadly, Sakia lost her life because of who she was and what she believed. Her  honesty and pride with her self, was too much for a disturbed man. Sakia’s story has been whispered around urban neighborhoods. It’s time for her life to be remembered, as brief as it descended.

       Sakia was a 15-year-old teenager walking home with her  friends in Greenwich Village. As she was walking and getting ready to go home, men were flirting and trying to get their attention. Sakia Gunn ignored their advances. When Sakia and her  friends walked away they told the men that they were lesbians. Sakia’s murderer decided to get out the car, and stab Sakia Gunn in front of her friends. You can also watch her movie and read more about her life and read more about her tragedy.

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                                                                             Sakia died  in her cousins arms. Sakia’s life and death were detailed in “Dreams Deferred:The Sakia Gunn Film Project.”

Your life is about choices, and honesty within yourself. Sakia knew who she was and was not afraid to tell the world.  This  little girl, did not get press and of course attention,but that is why at messymandella.com we will always remember people who the FOX and CNN and other news outlets have  forgotten.

Lady Luck -”I Don’t Like Being Called A Lesbian”

Lady Luck And Team Thick

 

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