Emotional Abuse And Domestic Abuse: It Is Not Your Fault!***messymandella***

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There is an epidemic.

Women and men that wait around for a player to call them! 

Yes, a person that only fulfill their own needs.

You have met that person. They will hit you and spit on you and may eventually kill you!

Every one has met that person.

They will one day laugh and lay in your arms, and then next day they act like your homeboy.

They never did it before…

“What did I do wrong? “ 

It’s a game of evil.

They have problems.

They want you to feel  pain.

That is emotional abuse.

  Some men and women withhold sex and emotions.

They will have sex with you for months,or admit to having sex with someone and throw it in your face and one day they will get mad without warning, like you did something wrong. 

You did nothing wrong.

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 Some abusers disappear and know they made plans with you. 

So, you tell people who you are friends or a couple… 

A friend does not break plans.

Your friend or partner thinks they are better than you.

They are trying to punish you mentality and you can’t let them do that to you.

 There are people who will fulfill your needs.

 Kick him or her to the curb, most men that hit women are weak, and can’t fight in real life!

Stop being nice to a person, that will flip on you and convince you that you deserve it.

They will never give you respect, and you will lose respect for yourself in the end and maybe your life.

Stop wasting your time.

That person will be horrible to you , and make up excuses like its your fault you are crying next week. Keep your tears.

 Get someone who will please you and take you places and not emotionally abuse you. 

Stop and look at yourself! If he has to beat you, he doesn’t need you.You deserve better

What are you waiting on?

Wait,are you hoping they will appreciate you? It will never happen and you will have to hide the pain and bruises.
Words and actions should show you love and not jealousy and hate!

I deserve love, because I show love and patience.

I am also not going to put up with weak minded bullshit.

You will be glad that you listened to ***messymandella***.

That person is not good enough to share a coffee cup with you.

Please don’t waste your time on someone that hurts your feelings and interaction to control you! Some men will even flirt with other girls in front of you. He knows it hurts but enjoys it, that is emotional abuse.You would never do that to him unless you are a sociopath.

You are so amazing, and no one deserves to hurt you and get away with it!

You have multiple qualities of love and beauty.

Find a friend or partner that will appreciate those qualities. Real men don’t want to hurt you they make you strong.

Listen and move on!

No names were used in this story!

If you feel some kind of way, that means you are doing someone dirty.

That means you do have a conscious!

YOU CAN’T DO BETTER UNTIL YOU KNOW BETTER!

 If something happens to that person you are treating this way, how will you live with that?

You will wear that guilt for the rest of your life!

 

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REVISTED:Who Killed 17 Year Old L’A Capone?***messymandella***

L’A Capone Death

          What happened on the day of   September 26, 2013? Who decided to play God? The last 24 hours that L’A Capone, a member of the “600″ Gang with Lil Durk ended his life on September 26,2013  before becoming a legal adult. He died a child that wanted ONLY wanted his mom to bake a homemade chocolate cake for his birthday? While leaving the studio after recording music he walks outside around 6:00 PM he was dead two hours later.

           LA Capone went to look for his boys that were suppose to meet him  down the street! Someone knew he was at the studio and knew when his “ride” was picking him up. As he was walking down an alley near 70th Street and Stony Island Avenue, he was approached was attacked by an assailant on foot without any anticipation or realization that he was walking for the last time…

       The beautiful little boy in dreads looks up  and four shots were soon fired! That was the end of his night and he became a tragedy in a never-ending gang war? The bullets tore into his flesh. hitting him in his thigh and lower back.

               Lil Durk, who has been friends,and member of “600″ with him for more than five years that night was on Twitter telling fans to pray for LA’Capone! While they  tweeted prayers he let them know that their praying was in vain. Lil Durk’s wishes for La’Capone to get better would go unanswered.

Lil Durk later would later tweet “RIP Lil Bro” in Capone’s twitter around 8:00PM…

Who destroyed that baby’s life and now who should pay the price? Killing another child in Cheif Keef’s crew will not change the fate of LA’Capone. We are told never too snitch and to that I do agree, but when a child is involved, shouldn’t that change the rules of the game?

Rest In PEACE Leonard Anderson AKA L’A Capone

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