Classic***messymandella***Remembrance Of The Spiritual Life With Janet Jackson***messymandella***

         It is natural and you are expected to mourn deceased family members during the holiday seasons,due to accidental death or by the Lynch Mob       the corrupt police department, and we also don’t mind when we kill each other…

 

          However, in our society if you are single on Valentine’s Day, you are a failure according to the diamond companies, Hallmark and commercialism of Valentine’s Day.  If you do not receive  an abundance of materialistic presents on Christmas, then you may feel inclined to lie about everything you received. More gifts, means you have more loved? People assume that after a funeral that you are gone. In the casket, it is a shell of that person and even though you may not be able to hug or talk to them, they are not spiritually gone. Your spirit and energy doesn’t die, just the shell of your former self, you still have that person and you can feel when their is an indication that your loved one is still loving you, looking over and protecting you.

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        It was a story of a man that entered a home and was about to burglarize and assault a woman but he ran away. The police did eventually located the fleeing burglar, but asked him, “Why did you run?” He told the police,”Because of those two men standing behind her.” Later they asked the lady about the two men that were there and she was puzzled because she was by herself the entire day. NO ONE was there,or so she thought… 

        We don’t leave this world, and you can be confident in knowing what ever you believe about the spiritual world,realize people can share connections even if they never have met. If energy doesn’t die, and the spirit doesn’t die then your loved ones are still here in spirit. NO, not like a ghost town or anything like that, but a spirit that will give you strength when you feel you are alone.

         You can feel their energy hovering around you and just understand that you will behold their smile again and you will have a opportunity to hear them laugh again. They are fully aware of your bereavement, but they are no longer in anguish and unrest, we are the ones that suffer,now.     

             If the connection is that strong you know that their presence is not far behind you and you can feel their love around you. You may be devastated in this point of time, but their spirit is dancing in the moonlight, so just try to dry some of those tears and don’t hold on to blame, mistrust, or arguments that were never resolved. They are still here,even if you don’t recognize your loved ones presence they are still smiling back at you.

 

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      Andra Day is a blast from the 1940′ s and a breath and glimpse of  women who are willing to  create their own legacy of rhythm and blues  and jazz vocalization. Andra is similar to the Motown sound but  is ultimately their own. Her voice also lends a bit of inspiration from Ella Fitzgerald and she is simply beautiful.
 
 

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 Cheers To The Fall  is a critically acclaimed unveiling of  the voice and writing ability and vision of Mrs. Andra Day. She has  musical ability that  we desperately needing in the music industry and she can now join the ranks of Jill Scott, Erykah Badu, and Deangelo. Mrs. Day is  singing and incorporates retro soul and the music industry will capitalize on pop music but what happened to soul music?
 
 
Andra’s voice is one of the best of this year and her  sound is reminiscent of  vintage compositions similar to Billie Holiday, Sam Cooke and Nina Simone  have long been forgotten, or unknown by a younger generation until now.
 
 

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We Still Miss You, Lisa “Left-Eye” Lopez (May 27, 1971 – April 25, 2002)! ***messymandella***

LEFTEYE           My feminist thoughts came hugely from the TLCSWV, and 702.  The sexy feminist vibe was  prominent  during this time. Women that are independent and confident always leave a lasting impression. TLC will always be  an influence on my life. They told you who they were.  The  unification  of three beautiful women kept me believing in lasting friendships. These women never changed who they were. I am still partial to  Lisa “Left Eye” Lopez. I was a fan before she  succumbed   to her injuries in car accident, while in  Honduras.  I am not a fan of people jumping band wagon after a death. I will always have a place in my heart for TLC.

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                       I learned the importance of condoms, and some of my girlfriends did not. My sister is now 23 years old. Her first song was TLC’s “Baby Baby Baby!” You might know that TLC was  the highest female selling group. Destiny’s Child now has that title. Lisa Left Eye will have  Lil Mama   representing her. I am sure Lil Mama will give her a chance to be reborn. The TLC biopic in the works will Lil Mama as  TLC. Keke Palmer will  portray  Chilli. T-Boz will be played by the actress Drew Sidora. The nostalgic times of TLC will remind you of unity between women. Even when they had a beef, no one could dispute their love for each other. I hope this movie does not show just the  positive  aspects of their life.The movie will be influential if it shows the downfall, and conflicts. Lisa Entered the physical world on March 27, 1971. Lisa left the physical world April 25,2002!

 

 

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Designer Samantha Black’s Fashion!***messymandella***


 

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Those Damn Feminist…***messymandella***

   messymandellaHow dare we stupid and weak  women  demand  to be treated with reverence and admiration!We’re are all too lost in ourselves  and the culture of hip hop stereotypes and that there  is a logical explanation that men deserve side chicks while you remain faithful.     &

We feminists should except that direspect in lifetime. If we are waiting by the phone and are naturally required  to pretend you are out all night at the library. The next time you are told to   accept disrespectful indiscretions from selfish individuals. GIVE HIM THIS LOOK!                                                    imageIf we damned feminists would just except the selfishness of the male counterparts then we will find a partner or husband and not be alone.What happens if they leave you and your children? My dad told me to make sure that if a man leaves, make sure you are still able to take care of yourself.    Independence  is not too bossy but still a  safety net in case he hauls ass.  Women don’t allow yourself to become a second option or be treated like a plan b. At the end of the day, would he be okay with sharing you? When they don’t appreciate what they have leave that ignorance.Feminists are told they are evil and have distorted views.              

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 If your ambition is a problem in society then change the image and embrace the self love and find truth in someone that will treat you  right When it comes to your salary and  your ambitions, don’t lose your strengths and weaken yourself.If you are in a position to climb the corporate ladder, don’t lay on your back to climb  into that executive suite. Women embrace your sexuality and remember beautiful women still read books and deserve happiness.                                            Watch the world attempt to silence you and diminish the confidence that you rightfully display.                                DON’T  EVER BE ASHAMED TO LABEL YOURSELF A FEMINIST!     .                      Love Yourself.                                               

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