Muahhhh ***messymandella***You Are Beautiful, Don’t You Forget It!

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Can’t believe you don’t think you are worth it?

I have seen women and men repeatedly give into temptation, for one night stands.

One night of useless,meaningless sex.

There is this empty feeling that people have, inside of them.

That emptiness that makes you go home with someone, and give a part of yourself. You say that you don’ t want a relationship?

So you run from what you want?

A one night stand is a reason to hug or touch a person , because you need that human connection.

That fleeting moment is a temporary fix, for what you are missing in life.

There will never be anyone that will admit they are single and lonely.

Single is suppose to be fun, but you are going to the clubs and bars trying to find human interaction?

There is nothing wrong with going out and clubbing, but are you doing the same damn thing every weekend, with the same people?

Will you be doing the same thing in 20 more years?

Don’t know too many night clubs that sale Ensure,Geritol,and give AARP discounts…

When will you realize that the clubs, and lack of realness are dimming your own respect for your potential partner?

Sad, to think you are happy,when you are really sad.

Everything seems funny and meaningless,but you know that its more to life than just the same mundane routine.

 

Women, men can smell insecurity a mile away.

They know when your alone and need compassion.

You don’t want to come home alone so you go home with him and he takes pictures to show his friends.

So if you think that once you give your body to someone, your now a part of their future?

 

You are not stupid, but you just don’t know your self-worth…

I am here to tell you that no matter what, Respect You.

Are you wifey material or are you a jump off?

He will not take you home to momma.

So what if he adds you to his Facebook friends,it means nothing!

You may find yourself attracted to someone but they have to prove it. If a man wants you to depend on him, then he has to be reliable 24/7 not when it is convient! 

Stay focused, and expect the same respect he will give his mom, niece, or sister.

You can rely on someone but still keep improving you.

If they decide to haul ass, you will still have you!

Love is amazing, but STILL Keep getting you money though!

Keep getting paid and what not…

***messymandella*** loves You!!!

 

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Andre Johnson, a rapper who worked with members of the group Wu-Tang Clan cut off his penis and jumped from a second floor balcony in an apparent suicide attempt.

He decided to cut his Womb Broom off to commit suicide?

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Suicide is not a joking matter, but why did he choose that method?

Now the doctors say they will not be able to reattach his penis, and he is still alive  but, with no penis…

TMZ reports, “A spokesperson for the hospital said it does not comment on patients, but TMZ reports that attempts to reattach Johnson’s penis failed.

Johnson is also known by the stage name Christ Bearer, and is in the rap group Northstar. Wu-Tang Clan founding member RZA produced Northstar’s debut album.

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Emotional Abuse And Domestic Abuse: It Is Not Your Fault!***messymandella***

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There is an epidemic.

Women and men that wait around for a player to call them! 

Yes, a person that only fulfill their own needs.

You have met that person. They will hit you and spit on you and may eventually kill you!

Every one has met that person.

They will one day laugh and lay in your arms, and then next day they act like your homeboy.

They never did it before…

“What did I do wrong? “ 

It’s a game of evil.

They have problems.

They want you to feel  pain.

That is emotional abuse.

  Some men and women withhold sex and emotions.

They will have sex with you for months,or admit to having sex with someone and throw it in your face and one day they will get mad without warning, like you did something wrong. 

You did nothing wrong.

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 Some abusers disappear and know they made plans with you. 

So, you tell people who you are friends or a couple… 

A friend does not break plans.

Your friend or partner thinks they are better than you.

They are trying to punish you mentality and you can’t let them do that to you.

 There are people who will fulfill your needs.

 Kick him or her to the curb, most men that hit women are weak, and can’t fight in real life!

Stop being nice to a person, that will flip on you and convince you that you deserve it.

They will never give you respect, and you will lose respect for yourself in the end and maybe your life.

Stop wasting your time.

That person will be horrible to you , and make up excuses like its your fault you are crying next week. Keep your tears.

 Get someone who will please you and take you places and not emotionally abuse you. 

Stop and look at yourself! If he has to beat you, he doesn’t need you.You deserve better

What are you waiting on?

Wait,are you hoping they will appreciate you? It will never happen and you will have to hide the pain and bruises.
Words and actions should show you love and not jealousy and hate!

I deserve love, because I show love and patience.

I am also not going to put up with weak minded bullshit.

You will be glad that you listened to ***messymandella***.

That person is not good enough to share a coffee cup with you.

Please don’t waste your time on someone that hurts your feelings and interaction to control you! Some men will even flirt with other girls in front of you. He knows it hurts but enjoys it, that is emotional abuse.You would never do that to him unless you are a sociopath.

You are so amazing, and no one deserves to hurt you and get away with it!

You have multiple qualities of love and beauty.

Find a friend or partner that will appreciate those qualities. Real men don’t want to hurt you they make you strong.

Listen and move on!

No names were used in this story!

If you feel some kind of way, that means you are doing someone dirty.

That means you do have a conscious!

YOU CAN’T DO BETTER UNTIL YOU KNOW BETTER!

 If something happens to that person you are treating this way, how will you live with that?

You will wear that guilt for the rest of your life!

 

Aloe Blacc Vs The Velvet Underground***messymandella***

Video and Pictures are historical  representational  of who we were.

Reliving music, and Art brings you into an era you could never travel.

Relive The Velvet Underground.

Relive Edie’s fashion.

Check out Aloe Blacc, reliving a classic time in Fashion and Rock.

 

Diana Krall -Look Of Love***messymandella***

Jadakiss- Without You And LoxMas Part 3***messymandella***

Jadakiss will never get his proper respect!
Jadakiss has a skill set above the rest.
Everyone knows that, except for the charts.
Jadakiss is content, with his street following.
Don’t sleep on Jadakiss.
His mix tape came out, with a whisper.
Still one of the hottest of 2014.
Pay Homage, to someone that should be on your Top 10.

Listen for yourself!

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She had a beautiful voice…

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Peaches Won This Debate!

I love uncomfortable interviews…

 

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Skeme ft. Wale – “Ain’t Perfect” + “Back Again” ***messymandella***

“It’s lookin’ like I’m bout’ to make it
Thirty thousand in the first class
This rap shit done started payin’
But we still asking, where that work at
They say you can’t take it with ya…”

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