Chris Brown Finally Wins My Approval But Probably Shouldn’t Give A Damn!***messymandella***

      

  When a man decides that he wants to grow up, he will. When he lies and cheats, a child will eventually pop up somewhere. It is stupid to think otherwise. Chris Brown made Karrueche look like a plumb fool, but she stayed until this little lady popped up. That is right, Chris Brown  finally found the one woman who would get him dumped by Karrueche for good. Chris has no problem getting attention from women,but now he is receiving attention from one special little woman, his daughter, Royalty.

       However, no matter how beautiful the women were that pursued Chris, he stayed with Karrueche. Karrueche apparently told millions he loved her.Women and dummies of all backgrounds  would run over their mom for a chance for a one night stand,with Chris Brown.

This situation is a product of  mistrust and selfishness that happens in our community. This factor  contributes to an abundance of  our single family homes.

            Chris Brown cheated, but no man should never be asked to choose between their child and the woman they love.

Why would any woman make than an option?

Gabrielle Union was criticized for forgiving her boyfriend, now husband, Dewayne Wade,after his “break baby.” Was she wrong, or is that child a blessing to them both?

         Of course, Chris Brown has enough money to purchase a different woman every hour, but this is not about his zipper, it is  about his little princess in his life. Well, actually it is about his zipper, because if he could have kept is zipper up or wrapped it up then Karrueche would not have  been sitting on that couch, crying and begging for Ivana Vanzant to fix her life.

       Do you leave because of infidelity?

  As the world revolves into social norms of non marriage and just cohabitation, it is quite common for us to ignore the signs of infidelity but you can not help but appreciate a man who decides his child comes first.

 

Even after a man conceived a child dishonorably, the woman in his life should not consider the child the mistake and that little princess is too cute.

        Should Karrueche have left him and resented the child? When a man  cheats or has a child, the first question should be is about the  lack of protection during the sexual intercourse, not the child!

          Is this a normal occurrence of unprotected sex a liability, are you in danger? Of course, but we are so reckless these days as a society. The infidelity is the crime, not Royalty.

Every woman has been in the situation where they were disrespected in public by someone who should have respected them and showered then with honor, like karrueche.

A baby conceived during an infidelity is a reminder of your partners portrayal  to you, but the child should come before our selfish needs.

Infidelity is wrong, but never resent an innocent baby, It takes a real woman to not hold a grudge towards the child.If you are bitter it will change that mans perspective of you, wait he cheated, DAMN his perspective!

The baby was conceived and should be a mandatory part of your lives, and not seen as a payment or hindering in the life of the parent.

In the end, a father should be a part of a child’s life, and Chris Brown is proving that fact to the world, even with a troubled past that one little girl can give you hope.

Chris  was obligated  to be loyal and that didn’t’ work and the dependency of his child is now the first priority in his life.

You will regret causing a rift between a children  and their father.

Why do most men and women with children, NOT LIVE TOGETHER?

We must get back to a two parent homes in our culture.

In the end, people will go their separate ways but why should that happen before the child is born? When  a mother is pregnant and you are in the club all night meeting other women, that sets a tone  for your intentions and is a negative foreshadowing of that child’s upbringing.

I am really starting to believe that the clubs and strip clubs that have frequent traffic with the same patriots are set up also to destroy the family structure.

Our black families are in trouble because we accept someone who stops by whenever and propositioning others, which should not be happening  in the first years of that child’s development with no regard to the family.

The early  moments are the most critical and if you don’t believe that the black family structure is dying, just evaluate the statistics.  The social norm is 4 Kids by 4 different women and the man is not obligated  to live with any of the baby mothers.

Even if didn’t work out, why not try to make a life closer to your child.

Get out the clubs.

GO HOME AND RAISE THESE CHILDREN!

  It is no reason to be in a bar every night unless you are a bartender, or  partying in a club every night unless you are a DJ.

Chris Brown  is doing the right thing by raising his child, she is an adorable little girl.

He could have raised his child within a family structure, but that is not obligated in this society.

Christopher seems to be a little more mature and he has a  blessing, his little baby that will depend on him to keep her protected and ensure her a bright future.

With Chris Brown’s temper, he will definitely protect his daughter and probably scare the hell out of her kindergarten teachers.

In the end, a man should make his child his priority.

No woman should ever make a man feel that he has to choose a  emotional relationship over father hood.



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