Jheri Curl Chronicles :Luther Vandross – Love Won’t Let Me Wait (1988) ***messymandella***Lisa Lisa + Cult Jam + Full Force (1987)

3 Of My Favorite Artist Of All Time!


  “Jheri Redding (born Robert William Redding March 2, 1907 – March 15, 1998) was an American hairdresser, chemist, hair care products entrepreneur and business person. Redding is best known for having created the Jheri curl.”
         However, we can also pay homage to Comer Cottrell who decided we all needed dirty pillow shams, and sweaty necks.This man created a greasy hot sweaty mess on the necks of all our relatives in the early 1970’s and 1980’s and the 90’s decided it was enough of this Armor Oil foolishness.


bobby shmurda’s girlfriend attempts to sneak shank into riker’s island and he turns down 8 year plea deal!***messymandella***

Bobby Shmurda has remained on my prayer list for his lack of support and abandonment from Epic Records. The damage of institutionalization has diminished any inkling for Bobby to leave the life of crime and social slavery. Now that he is in the belly of the beast,his life will never be the same.
       Sadly, Bobby’s  18 year old girlfriend, Kimberly Rousseau allegedly attempted to smuggle a shank in a black latex glove inside for her man,Bobby Shmurda to prove her loyalty and stupidity.
        As a former woman in her situation, I am here to tell this young lady, you can not do a damn thing for him but support and hope that when he makes out of the box.Maybe he will repay your loyalty with his undying love and loyalty and a more stable financial life.
        Sometimes that betterment that you wish for can be a dream you were sold, and a scam to improve their stay and string you along.He may do his time and have another woman to come home too,and his gang…Realistically, the same fools he was with when he got locked up,will be waiting on him as soon as his feet hit the ground.
           What that man does after he is released from the prison system  is solely up to him, after all he is a free man. Your future with that man is boldy decided in the end by his behavior,but in the end what is best for you?
         In the case of Bobby Shmurda’s girlfriend,Kimberly Rousseau, When you endanger your freedom, you are not a ride or die, you are a ride or dummy. You don’t jeopardize your freedom, little ladies. Kimberly is already 18 and now she has a criminal hit on her social security number and hasn’t reached the legal drinking age, or enter any night clubs or bars!
Kimberly, do you even understand that you will not be on that prison visitation list, because of your hasty decision?
         Little girl, you actually assume that if he does serious time that you will be the only woman he will ever glance at him through that glass?
       If you are banned from visiting correction institute, then some other female will be in that seat, peaking through that glass.
      You can hold a man down, but be strong enough to understand that when he comes home it is not a fairy tale.You are not suppose to be enticed into ruining your criminal record,to earn his respect. Kimberly, you and the rest of the ladies out there are still young enough to change your life around.  
Dear Bobby,
       If you love this woman, you don’t endanger her and her chance at her having a better life now that your life is in turmoil.
          You are already facing decades in that prison and this is going to paint the exact picture and urban stereotype that the district attorneys used to trap your  ass in Rikers Island for gun charges and trafficking. It is selfish to add that woman’s name on another one of your indictments.
         Maybe, you are desperate at this point and  she is naive but the fact that both of you have plead different to the same charge means, that you never discussed the consequences if she was not able to get your merchandise inside Rikers’s Island!




waka flocka flame runs for speaker of the house***messymandella***the devil is busy…

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The Secret To Perfect Hair: Try Blue Magic**messymandella***Nas IS The DON!(Rihanna / Demi / Katy / K.Michelle)

“Did you see me rocking my #TeamBlue in the ‘Up’ video with @ollymurs?” Demi asked in the caption her Instagram hair pic, before revealing that her colorful pieces were part of her Secret Color Extensions hair collection! We love that her slip-on hair extensions are so easy that we can copy her look ourselves.
You can check out Demi and Olly’s new video below, and make sure to drop us a comment letting us know what you think of Demi’s blue hair!




this can’t be life: man saves ribs, then children from fire***messymandella***




open up your mouth ***messymandella***

Open up your mouth and speak out against racism, homophobia, and child abuse.
Your words could save someone’s life and end emotional abuse and physical abuse.
Love and support  will guide you through, but don’t suffer in silence.

You deserve respect, and protection from mistreatment from people.
Never  accept racism or homophobia. “Open up your mouth” and make a difference.


  • Call the National Domestic Violence Hotline


    Support, resources and advice for your safety

    1-800-799-SAFE (7233)




I’m immensely heart broken, freddie gray should be alive! ***messymandella***murder trial starts today…








Baltimore, no matter what  we label the actions in Maryland this week, this wouldn’t have happened if the moral code of the world was deemed superior to the so called law enforcement code. Who are the laws built to protect? Apparently not  Tamir Rice, Walter Scott, Trayvon, Mike Brown, and everyone else that was murdered just because they bumped into the wrong police officer at the wrong time? 

         Freddie, shouldn’t be dead and his twin sister shouldn’t be giving interviews. Oh, and to the conservatives who investigated Freddie Gray’s criminal record, you yourself wanted and needed validation  of your own racism and bigotry. If your relative was murdered by policeman, the LAST thing I would do would be to pull up their criminal records.

The  officers that were the same nationality of Freddie Gray are lower than dirt for what they watched and took place in to cause the “Uprising” and lynching  of Freddie are worse than George Zimmerman. Someone could have saved Freddie’s life. These people are upset the law has failed them repeatedly. How many more men and marches are we going to have this year. It is May 1,2015 and we are not getting the national support or confidence that this will change. Black men will keep running, because even if they run or not, they still may end up dead from  a police lynching, like Eric Garner and now Freddie Gray.


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