Lauryn Hill’s Miseducation Will Be Inducted In The Library Of Congress.Why The Hip Hop Culture Murder Her Message?***messymandella***

English: Lauryn Hill, performing in New York's...

English: Lauryn Hill, performing in New York’s Central Park in 2005 (Photo credit: Wikipedia)

 

Once

upon

a

time,

women rapped and kept their under garments on and just spit their lyrics.

Only a few pictures of men could get glimpse of a bathing suit  a bra top or  a wardrobe  malfunction but that was it, it would go no further. Lets be clear, I also adore most female rappers in this industry but these are half-naked most of the time because is it so common place these days.

When you are an avid activist of women In the arts, such as myself, you understand  Lil Kim and Mrs. Minaj and message of female expression and empowerment, even if you don’t care for the perception and the molding of the young female minds. 

However unfortunate  but obvious is that  women have abandoned the life lessons of solidarity and we are culture “Misededucated” but that money will overshadow the power to our people and education of our youth  will make millions these days.

 

The revised rap blue print for women   is  a paradox to the Miseducation Of Lauryn Hill and her foreshadowing on the slut like activity of women that we celebrate and even honor at the Grammys.

Lauryn was cut from a different cloth and opened our ears to self-pride and self- preservation.

Apparently the Hip Hop Nation will not be able to envision another genius who also carried herself like a queen, and not a “Trap Queen.”

 

Back then, a person would not be half naked every day unless she was a day time hooker.

While we as women and men  should be somewhere  somewhere protesting, and demanding fair treatment by men, we are subconsciously every stereotype to “keep” a man.

        Thanks to Snap Chat, Twitter, and  Instigram we are so disillusioned of  what is substantive or superficial?

      No pictures of Queen Latifah‘s big draws or MC Lyte‘s   panties would have been posted all over social media.

We relentlessly speak of Women Empowerment, but that is not what the younger listeners are going to identify with and embrace.

        The message of mental strength is lost with butt shots,mindless sex and  money over anything genuine in life.We have to nourish our families physically and psychologically

       We don’t comprehended how lost and fake we are in this world and Kendrick Lamar is kicking off that knowledge.

Lauryn Hill foreshadowed our mental and spiritual weakening  and the truth was too scary for her so she escaped her public existence and moved out of the industry.

      Mrs. Hill is the woman who could have been on the level of Nina Simone,but she escaped her surroundings and lost her musical vision in this ever changing hasty culture.

 

It is challenging to stand up for your self -respect and principles when you are trying to protect your people, usually the backlash comes from  your message from the very people you are trying to empower.

 

Elisabeth Withers “No Regrets” – End Domestic Abuse!***messymandella***


 

No one with any respect would mentally and physically torture you, accept your past pain and live with no regrets.
Mental  abuse it is totally different because it tears your self-esteem down, brick by brick and  love of self and for your children and your life.

 

You can't move along to find unconditional until you find confidence and self-love and acceptance of your decisions and you deserve love.

You are not alone, I am here for you.
I am talking to you, lady.

 

 

http://www.helpguide.org/articles/abuse/domestic-violence-and-abuse.htm
 
 
 
http://www.thehotline.org/

 

The abuse hotline phone number 1−800−799−7233

 

 
 
 

Don’t Waste Your Breathe! Can We Auto-Correct Humanity!??***messymandella***

           Life can be full of regret and grudges that harbor resentment towards others. It also destroys your creativity. The same situations that brought forth tears and shame were the catalyst that either made you a negative or positive person to interact with and share your life with for the long haul.
          You may even sadly believe that you don’t need to give in to love because of the hurt that it cost you years ago. That person is living through their pain and has moved on in life, while you could be pushing love away to protect yourself from someone that didn’t deserve you.

 

That heavy heart is crippling you and causing strife when it is clearly not needed when you can say goodbye to the betrayal and embrace a new life that you don’t quite understand.How many times have you been lied to and manipulated? We’ll life is still happening? You can’t help but live! So, stop worrying about others that only think of superficial and fleeting moments.

Are you responsible for someone else’s downfall? Were you the reason someone may have died trying to protect you? Did you have a drug problem and steal from loved ones? You could have been arrested or even molested like me and still have nightmares.

Were you just awful to people for your own selfish needs? You are still alive and you can still forgive yourself and wake up from the nightmare into a new life. I remember but I refuse to give power to something out of my control and let it get me down forever. Travel down that road of regret and that bridge will keep getting wider and your life will just be bitter. That is not the way to live, forgive and live.
***messymandella***

 

 

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Tamir Rice’s mom: ‘They never even gave him a chance!” ***messymandella***

 

 

Allegedly, Bobbi Kristina Brown’s Family Admits ‘Reality Is Sinking In’***messymandella***

           After news broke earlier this week that the 22-year-old had been moved from Emroy University hospital to a rehabilitation facility in Atlanta, sources reveal to PEOPLE that the family had actually wanted to move Bobbi Kristina out of the hospital earlier, but her grief-stricken father Bobby Brown had delayed the decision.

 

“This hasn’t gotten any easier for him,” the source says of Bobby. “It has gotten harder. He really thought she’d be better by now, that there would be some change.

There hasn’t been any sign of improvement since this happened.”

Sources had previously revealed to PEOPLE that the 46-year-old singer was trying to keep “as positive as possible” about the condition of his only daughter with the late Whitney Houston. “He’s going to give her every chance to fight for her life.”

Indeed, Bobbi Kristina’s family has tried to remain positive, but now “reality is really sinking in,” the source reveals.

“We spent the first month in shock, you know? Like, ‘Oh my God, I can’t believe that this happened.’ But now we’ve had a lot of time to get used to it.”

The source also admits that while the “family doesn’t always see eye-to-eye,” it’s clear that Bobby is in charge of what happens to his daughter.” quote from Maria Mercedes Lara

I wish and pray Bobbi Kristina will finally have her story told through her eyes, without the tabloid scandal.She deserves people in her life, that have her best interest,and not only want her inheritance.

Whitney Houston lived a life that humbled most, and destroyed her in the end. Her daughter couldn’t seem to find her place in this world. Now she won’t have to, the families ALLEGEDLY will let Bobbi Kristina Brown pass away.

Now,it is a what if situation,but we are too hurt inside. This little girl had two troubled parents with addictions, but they loved her so much. No one could ever dispute the admiration of their little girl, Bobbi Kristina Brown.

 

We must tell the truth about Whitney Houston. I cried, because I was in her situation,not drugs but with someone who would play the part of a different person to the public.

      Love is standing by, and this will be a process to bury all of the family drama, but  you can not win if the spirit wants to be free.
 
No amount of medicine or electrical device will ever be stronger than the will to live. She fought, and no matter what a machine reads, that soul may just want to be reunited with her mama.
 
Some actions are too obvious to overlook, and sympathy and inner guilt and failed moments are not will not be easy, when the Houston and Brown family are still divided. What if’s are not going to bring her out of this.

 
 
No matter what was said on camera we must look in the eyes of the truth.
 
Her  anguish and  privacy to mourn is not based on a calender or when we think she should be finished within her personal bereavement process.
 
Putting on a brave face can take a toll on anyone, that lost their momma and best friend, she still could not listen to her mother’s music at times.

 
The family will spend eternity reading a machine to , but if the machine is the only thing that is keeping her here, she is already gone.
 
We must give this family privacy, and not overlook the life of Bobbi Kristina Brown to give weigh to tabloid speculation, but now that speculation may be facts!

Some are already putting light on an addiction and scene of the crim, just for high viewership.

Imagine, if it was your daughter, let her family deal in peace and they are surely inconsolable, leave that speculation behind, for now.


Give Bobbi respect, and the Houston and Brown family  deserve your prayers and love.

No doubt they need it, but they will feel the love. I wish she knew we all wanted her to pull through this  tragedy and we  loved her then.

We want to send flowers and love when it is too late, when that may be all the victim wanted the entire time.

 

 

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