classic: (previously released post on ***messymandella***Remembrance Of The Spiritual Life With Janet Jackson***messymandella***

         It is natural and you are expected to mourn deceased family members during the holiday seasons,due to accidental death or by the Lynch Mob       the corrupt police department, and we also don’t mind when we kill each other…

 

          However, in our society if you are single on Valentine’s Day, you are a failure according to the diamond companies, Hallmark and commercialism of Valentine’s Day.  If you do not receive  an abundance of materialistic presents on Christmas, then you may feel inclined to lie about everything you received. More gifts, means you have more loved? People assume that after a funeral that you are gone. In the casket, it is a shell of that person and even though you may not be able to hug or talk to them, they are not spiritually gone. Your spirit and energy doesn’t die, just the shell of your former self, you still have that person and you can feel when their is an indication that your loved one is still loving you, looking over and protecting you.
 
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        It was a story of a man that entered a home and was about to burglarize and assault a woman but he ran away. The police did eventually located the fleeing burglar, but asked him, “Why did you run?” He told the police,”Because of those two men standing behind her.” Later they asked the lady about the two men that were there and she was puzzled because she was by herself the entire day. NO ONE was there,or so she thought… 
 
        We don’t leave this world, and you can be confident in knowing what ever you believe about the spiritual world,realize people can share connections even if they never have met. If energy doesn’t die, and the spirit doesn’t die then your loved ones are still here in spirit. NO, not like a ghost town or anything like that, but a spirit that will give you strength when you feel you are alone.
 
         You can feel their energy hovering around you and just understand that you will behold their smile again and you will have a opportunity to hear them laugh again. They are fully aware of your bereavement, but they are no longer in anguish and unrest, we are the ones that suffer,now.
 
             If the connection is that strong you know that their presence is not far behind you and you can feel their love around you. You may be devastated in this point of time, but their spirit is dancing in the moonlight, so just try to dry some of those tears and don’t hold on to blame, mistrust, or arguments that were never resolved. They are still here,even if you don’t recognize your loved ones presence they are still smiling back at you.
 

 
 

for my aunt***messymandella***

can a woman be a boss in the drug game? meet claudia ochoa felix aka ‘La Emperatriz de los Antrax’ ***messymandella***

         Women like me, who are wanting only the best, can sometimes get confused as being too independent.
Claudia-Ochoa-Felix
     
 
       We still need love but, we want our voices to be heard too, even when we let our partners take the lead.
Make no mistake, I am not in the drug game, or any of those underworld life hustles.
I am however motivated beyond most, and have a purpose and your is not to end up in a casket or a prison cell.
          Every movement is systematic, any street legend will tell you that quickly.
Make no mistakes, but if you do make sure that the deliberating effect, does not over ride your plans.
It however always does, because you were never destined to win.
       In this case you will watch a woman who wanted to make a name for herself and end up in the female prison. Women sometimes accumulate more life sentences than the man, ask Santra Rucker.
 Claudia-Ochoa-Felix-via-Twitter
      
      
        Rich Porter loved by his own neighborhood, but even he couldn’t win the game.
Get Out of the game or have a plan B, because you have two choices.
You either end up like Big Meech (prison) or Robert Yummy Sandifer (death)…
http://messymandella.com/2015/02/06/vintage-messymandella-the-death-of-robert-yummy-sandifer/

 

 

Utilize that talent and make all of it for your  God-given hustle!

 

         You don’t want to sit back in regret with humbling tears wondering why you left your  three children behind?

         I don’t speak on people’s felony cases, but SHE used her social media to get her ass an indictment?

 

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NO ONE WINS THE GAME.

anthony pavel- you are the best thing (ray lamontagne)***messymandella***


 

 

 

Keep Pushing, M.G.K.***messymandella***


 

 Label upset? So, your career is not quite taking off like you planned?

Daughter needs food, and shelter?

Yes, those are important factors but  so is your well-being and mental state.

You are crying out in desperation with your arrest and your public beefs with EVERY  promotional magazine that is at the forefront of the Hip-Hop Culture!

Your antics and disrespect can decrease your visibility in the game.

Your talent  needs to get more attention than your blow up dolls,and fights on stage.

This is just the calm before the storm,once the behavior dies down, the music will speak for itself.

Keep Pushing!

 

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The Evil And Polarizing Bullying Of Fergie From The Black Eyed Peas!***messymandella***


   
          Fergie Duhamel aka Stacy Ann Ferguson  born on March 27, 1975 began her pursuit of  stardom at an budding age of 8 years old. She was a   preteen sensation on Kids Incorporated  and her voice and pitch are never  questioned. 
 
         Fergie in her teenage years embarked on a musical trio “Wild Orchid.” If she has voice training, dance ability, and songwriting capabilities why would Fergie have a problem with the media, and why would she be bullied and polarized?
 
            Most women would ponder the exact  question…
 
           Well, someone about 5 years ago labeled Fergie a “Butter Face” and that began the bullying, and taunting of Fergie. It was horrifically unfair and simply untrue. She even addressed the criticism on her last album, with the lyrics “Who are you?…” because the critics were cruel enough to even go this far…
 
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           This  evil picture originates from the sexist and misogynist site Moe Jackson. This is were apparently a bunch of losers go out to get laid by many, while living in the motel 6, or their mom’s garage. So where is she ugly?
 
Who decides to torture women and belittle them in a collective group in front of millions?
 
        We teach our women to strive to become successful and to not give in to belittling and further are dreams . Fergie has perfected her craft and has a strong impact in the music  industry,cosmetic world and  LGBT world and has been humbling and  truthful about her past drug addiction and fitness being  an integral part of her distraction not to relapse and her formula to sobreity. She apparently had an bladder accident on stage, but she spoke honestly about that too.
 
She is quoted by Scotland‘s Daily Record newspaper as saying: “I had a few drinks before going onstage, but I didn’t think to go to the bathroom.
 
 
“We were jumping around and my bladder just started… you know.”

 
     Fergie is pretty, and she has unique features because she is biracial. The woman is Irish, Scottish, English, Mexican and that alone make her  features unique.  I am dumbfounded how any man or woman could be that horrendously venomous to someone that has  struggled and never gave up on stardom.
 
        Fergie is not going away and she is attractive. Her eyes are beautiful and you have to remember women get older and self-esteem is fragile at any age, and you should never openly  online,in a chat group, or on any gossip site taunt some repeatedly ugly.
 
         We all have mothers and I doubt all of them are as beautiful as Jennifer Lopez or Rhianna.
 
      How would you feel if it was your mom that was openly called ugly and taunted when she has never done anything to deserve it?
 
        Fergie is who she is, and if you don’t think she is attractive, look away but I have seen her husband Josh Duhamel, and I doubt the critics that are calling her unattractive have a chance  in hell to get with her anyway…
 
 

 

 
 

I was here! ***messymandella*** beyonce and nicki minaj

I love the fact that it is “supposedly” a mans world.

When a woman steps in the spotlight, it intimidates some weak-minded individuals.

Are you that strong force to be reckoned with,do you catch a glare in your hater’s eyes?

 Can you stay in the background and “bite your tongue? ”

You must not know about me…
 

 
I know that I am here to help people, and be strong!

Sometimes its hard to stay strong during adversity, but that pain and betrayal will make you free.

I don’t think any man or woman should be quiet just to please the masses.

 Sometimes it takes that small little voice to make the forest shake! 

Are you going to let anyone bring you down?

 They will make you second guess your destiny, but is that their fault you let them win?

 I want freedom from liars, racism, and homophobia!

I want Santra Rucker home!

Santra Rucker will get her freedom, or at least another chance at life, we worked hard enough!

http://messymandella.com/2015/07/21/santra-rucker-sentenced-to-390-years/

I refuse to stop teaching young women and men about emotional and physical abuse.

 I refuse to sleep with someone who has a girlfriend or partner or be anyone’s secret.

 Lying and withholding information are the same damn thing.

Don’t fall into the trap of being simple or afraid of making your dreams your proud legacy and never let someone bully you!

 I am going to make sure that I leave my mark in this world like it or not, I am here.

I strive to give love and patience to everyone I meet.

 I can’t be like everyone else, because I am different and I stand up for myself and my beliefs.

I never look back at my mistakes, just the people who made them…

Mistakes are free and experience is a gift.

Mistakes are nothing but pain and reflection that guides you to your blessings. 

I will not be submissive, and let people defame my character.

I have a damn voice, and you are going to respect it! 

Even if you know how your heart feels on certain issues, your self-respect means more.

 We Are all Responsible to let our light shine.

I feel freedom, when I leave a manipulative situation!

I feel free!

 I don’t care when they are mad, if they deserve the anger!

I will never give in to self-serving people.

I will never bow down just to be loved.

Do you let the world see you?

I am not going to live to be 80 years old, I just know it! 

 I want my remaining time to be spent with true friends and loved ones that had my back no matter what happened.

Respect my outside life, because in my personal life I am a very private person… 

My inspiration and dedication will guide me through it all.

 I am sure that through your emotional turmoil,  you learned a lesson.

 I refuse to settle for someone who does not deserve me.

You shouldn’t either, be free and live your life!

I want to show the world that I was here…

 

 

 
 
 
 

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