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Don’t Let Your Life Pass You By! ***messymandella***Tyler Stenson-MAXwell

 
      So, are you afraid to fail?

I have been in a situation where the richest person I knew personally wanted to remind me every day I was not part of the team.

 I refused to let someone who would rather brag and throw money in the trash and watch me struggle dictate my future.

Should I have been stressed?

Hell yes I was, stressed!

Remember, Scrooge didn’t win, and in the end neither will that person.

Life is about compromise and love. When you go above an beyond to snitch or risk someone’s future just for brownie points, in the end you will lose.

I have never been the one to smile in the face of the person who wants to see the worst in me. However, I can honestly say with  the humbleness ,“I MADE IT THROUGH.”

        Now when someone wants to witness your failure  materialistically, they are saddened at who they have become. When someone jeopardizes your life and career,  like a hall monitor,they are not getting enough love at home.

That gives them more time to  purposely put you down, that is because they dwell in  sadness and hate their pathetic life, not yours…

Life can be full of regret and grudges that harbor resentment towards others.

  Do not allow people to lessen your quality of life.

Keep  pushing towards your dreams.

The same situations that brought forth tears and shame also are  the catalysts that either made you a negative or positive person. 

Which one are you?

Now when you  interact with the so call friends that betrayed you, don’t be fake.

They don’t deserve your time or consideration, but if it is someone who you live with, work with, or even in your family, let them drown in their own deception.

If I wasn’t treated like shit, by someone I once respected, it would have never met you, my family and readers all over the world.

That pain and deception inspired me, and I hope it inspires you.

I will never let bitter broads ever stand in the way of my dreams.

I believe in Sista Hood  for all.

However, if anyone would damage your life, income, or your well-being, are they capable of Sista Hood?

Share your life with other women that don’t question you and desires and are for you,not against you. They pray that you will give up on your dreams, and be just like them, bitter. 

If you have to wonder if you walk out the room will they trash you, stay. the. hell. out. of. that. room.

They are salty because they were not brave as you.

They envy you for following your dreams, while they let their lives past them by…

 

 

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Naya Rivera And Her Transformation…***messymandella***

        transformIt’s a contradiction of my personality.I love Empowering Women, but also love someone who talks about self-love. I don’t think that the beautiful women of Glee  are personified outside of their characters unless they sell their sexuality.

Most of these women over the age of thirty reinvent themselves  to gain exposure. Naya Rivera has chosen to stay fresh among the new coming talent even if she appears to be evolving into a Romanian woman, right before our eyes.However, we can not ignore the evidence.

           Why do we lighten our skin, and assume that being ethnically ambiguous will  earn more money? If that were true we would not embrace Lupita Nyong. I wear weave and have a lighter shade of skin,but it is genetics. My parents are considered black,but my great grandmother could walk through southern streets during segregation, because she could pass for white. Even when she was harassed  teased,her and her sisters still knew who they were. “The White Girls” became their name. They were of German,Indian and African descent.  We have to stop assuming that exotic is better, or any racial classification will gain success.  That is the entire plan of the “Willie Lyche Letter” and it apparently worked.

 

 

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Eva Mendes Pregnant At 40 Years Old!***messymandella***

 

 

 

Shia LaBeouf Needs Help***messymandella***

 
I agree whole hardheartedly with this Public Service Announcement!

We are placating a disturbed citizen and someone in need of mental attention because they have another standard of behavior as a celebrity.
If he was walking around the neighborhood, we would be terrified. A homeless person had to escape a Shia Labeouf interaction. When a homeless person runs away from a millionaire THAT millionaire needs a doctor and a Transformer straight jacket.

I laugh at 85% of everything; this is an exclusion.

I honestly believed Shia was just creating antics for comedic exposure, well I did until a few months ago.

 

 

Now he is reminding me of this ———–>Ernest
 

NSFW: Moment Of Truth: Do REAL Black Revolutionaries Exist And Do They Respect Women’s Opinions?***messymandella***

So as a Feminist, I will admit earth shattering information.
Suprise, I am not always right! Now we will venture into Polight, Loaded Lux, and Sara Suten Seti land.This land remakes and redesigns the entire history and science of the people. This land is in make-believe and the facts are only supported by 7,000 in the entire United States with no factual information. Truth be told, this movement fights within other ranks of History of money hoarding and make-believe.

Justification, of facts are not pertinent when people live off your every word. You don’t need one ounce of proof or mental stability.
I respect mine, but this mess here had me 140 degrees hot. These men have lost their rabbit ass minds. Notice all the disrespect these men have for ALL women. Listen as a feminist tells you that HIS opinion matters,and let him also make decisions in the relationship.We want to believe that black revolutionaries have the power of the people and respect.Are they truly in it for the struggle,or for the ghetto lottery.

No man or woman can think of any logical reason that we should be prejudice. We are one big melting pot, and not one black person on this Earth is a 100% black! With that being said, we fought for integration, as a means to assimilate and learn from other cultures! Seti,and Polite delusional asses don’t have a clue of what they believe, and how damaging the thoughts are to the racially motivated crime rate, by preaching this filthy funnel of lies to our culture. These ideas cripple us.Other races are not equal.white people are evil,racism is imperialism, and used as a crutch.
But this mess right here….

Okay, Okay I get it,too much independence can leave your beautiful ass all alone. You can be bitter and pissed off at 92 years old with cobwebs down there, with your roommates being your 74 cats. As a feminist we assume 95% of men our dogs. I had me a time with one man. Child,he was hilarious,vindictive,and intelligent. Now that person, is not an angel but he gives me ultimate respect.HE worries about me and feminist or not,he lets me know everyday that I am his and he has become a part of my life.Yes,a feminist needs a strong man and I found one.Now that doesn’t mean we will argue but that teaches growth. It should never underestimate the goal of racial assimilation but because I know he it trying that humbles me…

Yes, too much independence can be a fatal flaw, only if you don’t listen to your partners perspective too. No one wants to be belittled and talked to like a child. Give him respect too.However,some of it can be a feminist fault. We tend to want to prove ourselves to the equivalent as a man.However,that can also push a perspective partner away. This movement is not for women with a voice,and it is a way to awaken people to rob them blind of money and knowledge of self. Hate, religion,and money are the ultimate goal of the manipulator that wants power.NO FACTS ARE EVEN FACT BASED…
If I encounter a male chauvinist pig,I am coming for his head.However, no one is perfect. If you have two stubborn people you can argue for four days straight. If you prejudge someone you can end up being on the show “Hoarders”or paying a sex shops light bill. Still we do not silence the woman,and this moment is never considered the law,because they want to teach that we are not AFRICANS.
They debate each other from Israel or Africa.Yes, people will run for the hills,while the Feminist keeps buying double A batteries.SPEAK your mind,but with respect.
Don’t believe the hype.
This movement has a stumbling block,and has been taken over by money and apparently “Tax Liens and Tax Deeds.”

Ravon Jordan, 19 Year Old Anti Violence Advocate Murdered***messymandella***

 
       If you don’t believe in karma and self-love,you will never grasp the severity of pulling that trigger. We encounter prophets and angels that are only given to us for a season. A hero’s death is of grand design, and painful just for that reason and here for our self reflection. We alter our views, when innocence is lost. A 19 Year old man risked his life and street credit to remind us what the Civil Rights movement was about, and how horribly embarrassing  it would be, to look any Civil Rights Activist in  the face in 2014.  He will be memorialized in Fayetteville, North Carolina and in others who desire safety and love and  betterment for everyone.

             I have a difficult time writing some stories, because I can experience a heaviness in my heart that will bring forth more pain than any tears. Now, Ravon Jordan will remain a part of why I am ***messymandella***. When you intend to bring forth change in your communities and family structures, not too many people hunger for that wisdom.  We alter our perceptions, when a 19 Year 0ld boy risks his life and street credit so we can live in a community that we would take pride in and sit on the front porches, without fear. 

       Every time we mute a messenger we only transmute the message. Ravon’s  death is not in vain, and with diligence and hurtful reflection, we will prove it. Hero’s don’t have a certain age, they  are  just too good for this place, and this death is hard to except, because we  would rather kill the ones that would die for us.

He was a hero and my tears are all over this lap top… 

Rest In Peace, Ravon you are now safe, you angel and hero.

 

 

 

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