Will You Still Love Me Tomorrow? – Amy Winehouse***messymandella***

When Amy Winehouse graced the world with her “Blue Eyed Soul” she had the world captivated.Amy had her own style and a distinct voice.She was loved by millions and had  the world at her feet.She came into  the Music business with a sense of purpose.She changed perception of music for many.She was compared to Dusty Springfield and even Billie Holliday. So Why did we lose her?

Amy left all her talent and life behind after only  walking the Earth for   27 years. Now a member of infamous 27 Club she will be one of those “what if they would have lived” conversations for years to come. New documentary will shed light on her short but bold life.

March On Fashionistas!The End Of Month Review.***messymandella***


 
 

 
 
 

Lauryn Hill’s Miseducation Will Be Inducted In The Library Of Congress.Why The Hip Hop Culture Murder Her Message?***messymandella***

English: Lauryn Hill, performing in New York's...

English: Lauryn Hill, performing in New York’s Central Park in 2005 (Photo credit: Wikipedia)

 

Once

upon

a

time,

women rapped and kept their under garments on and just spit their lyrics.

Only a few pictures of men could get glimpse of a bathing suit  a bra top or  a wardrobe  malfunction but that was it, it would go no further. Lets be clear, I also adore most female rappers in this industry but these are half-naked most of the time because is it so common place these days.

When you are an avid activist of women In the arts, such as myself, you understand  Lil Kim and Mrs. Minaj and message of female expression and empowerment, even if you don’t care for the perception and the molding of the young female minds. 

However unfortunate  but obvious is that  women have abandoned the life lessons of solidarity and we are culture “Misededucated” but that money will overshadow the power to our people and education of our youth  will make millions these days.

 

The revised rap blue print for women   is  a paradox to the Miseducation Of Lauryn Hill and her foreshadowing on the slut like activity of women that we celebrate and even honor at the Grammys.

Lauryn was cut from a different cloth and opened our ears to self-pride and self- preservation.

Apparently the Hip Hop Nation will not be able to envision another genius who also carried herself like a queen, and not a “Trap Queen.”

 

Back then, a person would not be half naked every day unless she was a day time hooker.

While we as women and men  should be somewhere  somewhere protesting, and demanding fair treatment by men, we are subconsciously every stereotype to “keep” a man.

        Thanks to Snap Chat, Twitter, and  Instigram we are so disillusioned of  what is substantive or superficial?

      No pictures of Queen Latifah‘s big draws or MC Lyte‘s   panties would have been posted all over social media.

We relentlessly speak of Women Empowerment, but that is not what the younger listeners are going to identify with and embrace.

        The message of mental strength is lost with butt shots,mindless sex and  money over anything genuine in life.We have to nourish our families physically and psychologically

       We don’t comprehended how lost and fake we are in this world and Kendrick Lamar is kicking off that knowledge.

Lauryn Hill foreshadowed our mental and spiritual weakening  and the truth was too scary for her so she escaped her public existence and moved out of the industry.

      Mrs. Hill is the woman who could have been on the level of Nina Simone,but she escaped her surroundings and lost her musical vision in this ever changing hasty culture.

 

It is challenging to stand up for your self -respect and principles when you are trying to protect your people, usually the backlash comes from  your message from the very people you are trying to empower.

 

Elisabeth Withers “No Regrets” – End Domestic Abuse!***messymandella***


 

No one with any respect would mentally and physically torture you, accept your past pain and live with no regrets.
Mental  abuse it is totally different because it tears your self-esteem down, brick by brick and  love of self and for your children and your life.

 

You can't move along to find unconditional until you find confidence and self-love and acceptance of your decisions and you deserve love.

You are not alone, I am here for you.
I am talking to you, lady.

 

 

http://www.helpguide.org/articles/abuse/domestic-violence-and-abuse.htm
 
 
 
http://www.thehotline.org/

 

The abuse hotline phone number 1−800−799−7233

 

 
 
 

Don’t Waste Your Breathe! Can We Auto-Correct Humanity!??***messymandella***

           Life can be full of regret and grudges that harbor resentment towards others. It also destroys your creativity. The same situations that brought forth tears and shame were the catalyst that either made you a negative or positive person to interact with and share your life with for the long haul.
          You may even sadly believe that you don’t need to give in to love because of the hurt that it cost you years ago. That person is living through their pain and has moved on in life, while you could be pushing love away to protect yourself from someone that didn’t deserve you.

 

That heavy heart is crippling you and causing strife when it is clearly not needed when you can say goodbye to the betrayal and embrace a new life that you don’t quite understand.How many times have you been lied to and manipulated? We’ll life is still happening? You can’t help but live! So, stop worrying about others that only think of superficial and fleeting moments.

Are you responsible for someone else’s downfall? Were you the reason someone may have died trying to protect you? Did you have a drug problem and steal from loved ones? You could have been arrested or even molested like me and still have nightmares.

Were you just awful to people for your own selfish needs? You are still alive and you can still forgive yourself and wake up from the nightmare into a new life. I remember but I refuse to give power to something out of my control and let it get me down forever. Travel down that road of regret and that bridge will keep getting wider and your life will just be bitter. That is not the way to live, forgive and live.
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NSFW:Nothing Is Better Than A Classic Man!***messymandella*** Jidenna And Roman GianArthur

 

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Beyond Scared Straight: A Transgender Inmate Gives Advice (S8, E4)***messymandella***

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