There is an epidemic.
Women and men that wait around for a player to call them!
Yes, a person that only fulfill their own needs.
You have met that person. They will hit you and spit on you and may eventually kill you!
Every one has met that person.
They will one day laugh and lay in your arms, and then next day they act like your homeboy.
They never did it before…
“What did I do wrong? “
It’s a game of evil.
They have problems.
They want you to feel pain.
That is emotional abuse.
Some men and women withhold sex and emotions.
They will have sex with you for months,or admit to having sex with someone and throw it in your face and one day they will get mad without warning, like you did something wrong.
You did nothing wrong.
Some abusers disappear and know they made plans with you.
So, you tell people who you are friends or a couple…
A friend does not break plans.
Your friend or partner thinks they are better than you.
They are trying to punish you mentality and you can’t let them do that to you.
There are people who will fulfill your needs.
Kick him or her to the curb, most men that hit women are weak, and can’t fight in real life!
Stop being nice to a person, that will flip on you and convince you that you deserve it.
They will never give you respect, and you will lose respect for yourself in the end and maybe your life.
Stop wasting your time.
That person will be horrible to you , and make up excuses like its your fault you are crying next week. Keep your tears.
Get someone who will please you and take you places and not emotionally abuse you.
Stop and look at yourself! If he has to beat you, he doesn’t need you.You deserve better
What are you waiting on?
Wait,are you hoping they will appreciate you? It will never happen and you will have to hide the pain and bruises.
Words and actions should show you love and not jealousy and hate!
I deserve love, because I show love and patience.
I am also not going to put up with weak minded bullshit.
You will be glad that you listened to ***messymandella***.
That person is not good enough to share a coffee cup with you.
Please don’t waste your time on someone that hurts your feelings and interaction to control you! Some men will even flirt with other girls in front of you. He knows it hurts but enjoys it, that is emotional abuse.You would never do that to him unless you are a sociopath.
You are so amazing, and no one deserves to hurt you and get away with it!
You have multiple qualities of love and beauty.
Find a friend or partner that will appreciate those qualities. Real men don’t want to hurt you they make you strong.
Listen and move on!
No names were used in this story!
If you feel some kind of way, that means you are doing someone dirty.
That means you do have a conscious!
YOU CAN’T DO BETTER UNTIL YOU KNOW BETTER!
If something happens to that person you are treating this way, how will you live with that?
You will wear that guilt for the rest of your life!