Life can be full of regret and grudges that harbor resentment towards others. It also destroys your creativity. The same situations that brought forth tears and shame were the catalyst that either made you a negative or positive person to interact with and share your life with for the long haul.
You may even sadly believe that you don’t need to give in to love because of the hurt that it cost you years ago. That person is living through their pain and has moved on in life, while you could be pushing love away to protect yourself from someone that didn’t deserve you. That heavy heart is crippling you and causing strife when it is clearly not needed when you can say goodbye to the betrayal and embrace a new life that you don’t quite understand.How many times have you been lied to and manipulated?
Are you responsible for someone else’s downfall? Were you the reason someone may have died trying to protect you? Did you have a drug problem and steal from loved ones? You could have been arrested or even molested like me and still have nightmares. Were you just awful to people for your own selfish needs? You are still alive and you can still forgive yourself and wake up from the nightmare into a new life. I remember but I refuse to give power to something out of my control and let it get me down forever. Travel down that road of regret and that bridge will keep getting wider and your life will just be bitter. That is not the way to live, forgive and live.
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